hey what up.
you can ask me anything. for being my age i'm pretty smart, have a fair amount of common sense and i have been through a lot. I answer any type of questions really. i won't just give you random advice either. if i know how to answer, i'll answer, if i'm not so sure, i probably won't. i wouldn't want to say the wrong thing. and i don't tell you just what you want to hear, because most of the time, it's better that you hear what you don't want to. that's one piece of advice in itself. :P
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so me and one of my best friends ex's have been having this thing going on. he was going to ask me on a date, but when she found out, she flipped and told him not to. i really like him and want him to ask me out, but i don't really know how to tell him that, have any good ideas? (link)
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honestly, what i think is if your friend flipped out and told her ex not go ask you on a date, she's either got issues or she's not your friend. a friend should not hold you back from a date. it doesn't matter if it is her ex. she should still encourage you or him. and if they still liked each other, they would still be going out. that's all i got say.
i hope i helped a little :)
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15//female.
practically ALL of my friends have a boyfriend//girlfriend. and I have been single.. forever.. literally.. ive never had a boyfriend.
ims so depressing for me to always see them together and all happy.. especially when we leave school and its always like "love you, bye" and then they kiss.
i mean, its incredibly awkward, and i dont know what to do because i feel so lonely.
i dont know what its like to be happy like that and i just wish i did.
there are a few people i like but im too afraid to say anything, and only one of my friends [[who has a boyfriend]] is the only one that knows.. i just dont know what to do.
sorry this was long :x :/ (link)
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oh my gosh! the exact same way with me. (only i'm 14)i know how feels.
what i have been doing is always look on the bright side of things no matter what. just be yourself and eventually someone will notice you.
and/or if you're friends with your friends' boyfriends, you could be friends with their friends and then you could just flirt around with them.
i hope you understood that, cuz that was a little confusing..
i hope i helped out. :)
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I am not an attractive guy. But it's my personality that gets people. My bestfriend ( a girl) is gorgeous, she's just overweight, not by much, but still. I have liked her for 1 year now, and I don't know what to do. She is very popular, but a sweetheart to everyone. I'm scared she won't want to go out with be/I'll be rejected. Should I take a chance? (link)
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i think you should take the chance. i can't guarentee that she'll say yes, but there is a good possibility that you won't be rejected depending on how good of friends you are.
i have this really gorgeous friend and she's going out with this guy who doesn't have very good looks at all, but he is really cool and they have been together for awhile.
and i have been rejected twice by the same guy and i have gotten over it pretty quick and i'm a girl. the reason being is because it didn't ruin our friendship. if she does reject you, just make sure you guys are still friends and it didn't mess anything up.
i hope i helped and good luck :)
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I need help!!!
I like 2 guys... and I pretty much need advice on what to do. I really like them both but I have no idea who I like better. Can somebody help me? THANKS!
PS: dont tell me to do Pro's and Con's because I already did that and they both turned out the same.
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first i think you should see which one actually likes you. then you know your answer. but if you know both like you than test them to see which one is more trustworthy and cares about you more.
if neither likes you, than like both.
i hope i helped :)
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i like this guy, and i kno he likes me too, because well... he told me. but hes kinda shy and hes two years older than me, so we dont really talk alot. he gave me his phone number, and he has my number too, but idk if i should call him, would that seem too forward? hes kinda shy so i dont kno if hes gonna call me..so wat should i do? (link)
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you should just call him up first and start talking to him. guys like when th girls aren't afraid to talk to them. if he is shy, he might open up more.you'll never know, after some time you guys might even end up more than friends eventually.
hope i helped :)
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there is a boy in my class and he is a real bully and somedays he piks on me somedays other people how can i stand up to him without freezing. (link)
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yeah, you should agree with him whatever he says to you because it makes them mad that its not bothering you. they want it to bother you because what's going on in his life is bothering him.
if he goes away for a while and comes back, do the same thing--agree with him.
if he doesn't stop bothering you, you should tell a teacher or the counseler.
hope i helped :)
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I'm not sure if this goes here... but oh well
I need help falling asleep. i always try to fall asleep but end up falling asleep at like 2 am!! Now that schools starting, I would like to sleep. lol. Can somebody give me advice on how to relax and fall asleep for school? Please help and thanks a lot! (link)
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i had the same problem last school year. this school year its not really a problem anymore because i have so many things i got to do and it makes me tired by the time i get to sleep.
but in your case, i would think of something exciting or something to think of that might or will happen the next day. that way it will seem like its coming faster. or think of something that happened that day that you really liked and try to remember how it happened specifically. you'll fall asleep in no time. and sometimes for me i have dreams about it and i enjoy them a lot.
i don't know if that will help, but it works for me!
i hope i helped and sweet dreams :)
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I've tried to stop drinking soda but going without the caffeine gives me headache. I've cut down on it so now its only once in a while but does anyone know a way to cut it out completely and replace it with something else??? (link)
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well for me it was never hard to begin with. i absolutely hate anything with fizz. but since i don't like soda what i drink is lots of water, at least twice a day i drink milk, and if there is some kind of juice (like apple juice or cranberry juice) i'll drink that.
and since your cutting out soda and you need some caffine, eat something that's got some sugar in it. or take medicine to cure the headaches.
i hope i helped :)
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alright im 14/m and theres a girl that lives in the neighborhood next to me whos 13/f and really pretty, however her friend, 14/f, get jealous of me whenever i hang out/talk to her and she tells the 13 year old that im a player and a bunch of bull$#!T that really makes me look bad and i was wondering how i get around that cuz i REALLY like this girl. (link)
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i think you should talk to the girl that keeps saying stuff about you. tell her to shut-up (but in a nice way). she shouldn't be doing that. and if she thinks your being rude when you tell her to stop saying crap she's got it all wrong. she deserves what she gets. and tell the girl you like your feelings to her. she'll appreciate it. and just be nice and prove your not what the other girl said you were.
i hope i helped :)
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my gf recently broke up with me and i really need someone to tell me some good ways to get my mind off of it. it really hert me cuz i really did love her and i just cant stop thinking about it plz help!!!! (link)
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you should do activities after school or help your parents around the house (if you don't already), and/or hang out with friends. it really does get things off your mind. you'll get over her breaking up with you soon enough.
if you know why she broke up with you, you can fix the problem and when you get a new gf or the other girl again, you can help your relationship last longer.
hope i helped. :)
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so i really like this guy. and last semester he kinda said that he will go to a different school and then the other day he said that he have to stay. so school startet three days ago and the first day he was there. but the next two days he was'nt. and i dont know if he's coming back now or not cause next week my class is going to a camp for 1 week. and i'm really worried he's going to a different school now cause i really like him and the school is not the same without him. so what should i do? what do you think????
thx alot
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i'm sorry that he moved, but you might have to find someone else. you might get lucky if he does move back, but don't get your hopes up too high.
good luck in the future :)
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13/f
Well I like this guy his name is Sebastian but everyone calls him Sebby. & last year close to the end of the school year we were talking like possibly going out- but school ended & we still talked through the summer & his cell phone was shut off like a month before school started so i couldnt talk to him then [i didnt know his home phone]. Now schools starting agian & we are talking more. He always tells me to write him notes so I do. & he writes me back. Then during science yesterday [friday] we were doing partners & i started looking around the room for one of my friends & Sebby whispered Tiffanie [my name] & looked at him hes like "will you be my partner?" with a HUGE smile on his face. It made me feel really good because all his friends are in that class. & as extra credit we are making cookies together since we are partners. & i`m curious if you think he likes me.. :/ i`m kinda confused. I mean i`m desent looking but hes gorgeous. -
heres three pictures of me ;
http://img59.imageshack.us/img59/3850/18lc1.png
http://img59.imageshack.us/img59/3285/21fk9.png
http://img126.imageshack.us/img126/4655/7sd2.jpg
heres two of him ;
http://img59.imageshack.us/img59/1838/seeeeebbbyyyyhp1.jpg
http://img126.imageshack.us/img126/7535/seebbyytwokw3.jpg
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what i think you should do is if you think he likes you and he is showing that he does, then be patient and he'll ask you out soon. and from my own experience, it might not be good idea to ask the guy out. and its a happier moment when the guy asks you.
hope things work out!
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Well I am going crazy here. Today I hung out with my friend whom I like. We ended up having a good time, but my other friends were also around. We hung out for awhile, then I had to leave early. Now mind you, he did not know these friends of mine too well, he's talked to them but he isn't very close to them. I had to leave, but he remained with them for two hours and then didn't talk to me when he went online afterwards- but I'm not too worried about that.
It's just, I'm terribly afraid he could end up liking one of my friends, when I was just beginning to think he likes me. Does that seem reasonable at all? (link)
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unless you know for a fact he's showing signs of liking one your friends, you shouldn't worry about it. and in some way you need to find out for sure if he likes you.(unless you know already). and you said he doesn't know your friends that well. if that's the case, if he does like one of your friends then its not going to be a very good relationship anyway.
hope i helped :)
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14/f
I start High school next week and I am exited and nevous too. Any Advice on Highschool. I play feild hockey and have been in pre-season for a couple weeks so I know some of the upper classmen but not really, I also have a shophmore locker so my locker is not with any of the freshman! Anyway any tips on highschool??? Thanks a bunch! (link)
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i'm a freshmen and i already started high school a week ago. its real easy to get around. but if you get lost, its okay because a lot of others will get lost too, so don't worry. just be cool and don't try to impress anyone or be better than anyone else. upperclassmen are nice at my school. so you probably won't need to worry about that either. if you have a lot of friends, chances are you'll have at least 1 or 2 friends in each class. sorry if i don't have anything else to say.
i hoped i helped. :)
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Well, I recently got a boyfriend, and my mom doesnt know. She is kindof uneasy about that kind of stuff, and I dont know how to tell her, in a nice manner. any ideas?? (link)
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you should start talking to her and you should hint around a little bit. like say, "i have this really close guy friend, and i mean close. and i kind of like him." and start talking about him. tell the things that you really like about him.
she should understand. after all, even if she doesn't like the idea that you have a boyfriend, she can't make you guys break up, that's your choice.
hope i helped. :)
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13/f I dated one of my best friends for like five days about 2 months ago. When I broke up with him, he took it really hard, he wasnt himself for weeks and I felt awful. About three weeks ago, I started liking him again and I told him and we started going out again. I now really don't like him like that, but I just can't brake up with him. I can't bear to hurt him again, plus all my friends would hate me. When we first started going out they all were like you better not hurt him again. I don't know what to do. The guy is like so in love with me it's not even funny. What should I do? (link)
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its like what the others said, if you guys aren't happy, you probably shouldn't stay together. but what i think you should do to help you guys, is sit down and talk to him. tell him what you like and dislike about him. and if there are certain things that you don't like and he changes them, you guys might last and no body will get hurt.
good luck!
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Okay, so I liked this kid Brad I met once through my best friend from another town and I was a BITCH to him that day because I was in a bad mood and he was all over my best friend. but now my best friend has a boyfriend so Brad wont be all over her. But my best friend asked Brad what he thought about me and he said I was pretty but he didnt think I liked him much and I wasnt his type. Im so sad, but tomorrow Im going to a fair with HIM, my best friend and her boyfriend! I know my bff and her bf are gonna be all over eachother lol and i want the other kid to like me and i want to show him I like him but how do I do without freaking him out. Its a fair..any cute ideas what to wear, how to act, body language on rides and stuff?? (link)
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well if he thinks you don't like him, just tell him straight up that you do and take it from there. and i think you should wear one of your most favorite outfits or something that would attract a guy. and just act yourself. no one ever said there is anything wrong with that.
hope everything turns out great! :)
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Hi,i am 13 and I want to be a cheerleader next year.But I can not do anthing not even a kartwheel.I really need help.I am also sorda a loser and i want to be popular and preppy.And I have a very bad crush.I want to know how to be better. Thankyou, p.s. my mame is marie hensley. (link)
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i recommend that you talk to your parents about signing up for gymnastics. you can learn how to do kartwheels and all kinds of stuff there.
and a little bit more advice...nobody is a loser. if people call you that, don't listen to them. If you think that about yourself, you shouldn't. do the best you can do in anything and you'll feel good about yourself.
now about tht crush too...instead of trying to impress by the way you look or who you are, just walk up and talk to him. i know its not that easy, but guys like girls who have guts.
hope i helped with everything! :)
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This is going to be really long, so please stick with me.
Last week, I found out that my boyfriend was flirting with someone that hangs out where his sister works. I was kinda sorta okay with it, since I know that he means nothing by it and its just his personality. But then one of my cousins went to go get her hair done by his sister while he was there. My boyfriend doesn't know my cousin. Well, this girl was really like seriously flirting with him and he was just trying to tell her that he loved me and would never cheat on me and to stop flirting and all. But she didn't stop.
Well I'm death in one ear, and 50% in the other, so when I talk on the phone, I can only hear what the person who is talking on the phone is saying. Well, he called me and she (the slut) was flirting with him and yada-yada. And I heard her say, "If you didn't have a girlfriend, you know you would want to hit this" and he said, "Yes, but I have a girlfriend and I love her and wouldn't want to hurt her" Well then she said, "even if you did?" and he said "never"
Do you think he will cheat on me with this girl?
Okay, well he goes to "trivia night" at a place around here with his sister, her husband and their friends and that girl went. Well, they ran out of chairs and she sat in my boyfriends lap. He didn't do anything about it.
Well, we had this really long talk about it and he said he wants to marry me and he loves me and never wants to hurt me again.
I told him that I called the girl and she said that he kissed her and he made her sit in his lap and he was always flirting never her. (I lied, I've never talked to this girl) He got really mad and upset about it. Well, a lot of rumurs go around about him and he said that I never believed any of the other rumours why should I belive this one? So, does that mean that my lie is really what he did? Or did he really not do anything?
He said he would never talk to her again, and I believe him. Just, do you think that what I lied about was the truth? Is that why he got so mad about it?
Please help, I really love him and don't want to loose him.
He is always telling me I'm the best thing that ever happened to him and he never wants to loose me, and when I talked about breaking up with him he got really scared and cryed. I'm just really confused. Please, help. Thanks. (link)
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first off if he liked you he wouldn't be flirting with this girl. and if he got mad about your lie, it probaly was the truth. and if you really feel like you need to break up with him, then do so. he has already flirted with this girl and hurt you right? so if you break up with him, you would be even. and he would get what he deserves sooner or later. and from what it sounds like, he probably will or is cheating on you. but don't worry, there are plenty of other guys better than this one.
so i think you should break up and let him cry all he wants because he deserves it. (i know it sounds a little mean, but when you break up, you'll feel so much better. you won't to worry about him any more, or worry about a bunch of drama.)
hope i helped :)
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k so im a 15/f crushin on this guy who doesn't like me... as a g/f.. cuz well he already has one... and he told my friend that he liked me as a friend but i told her he never talks to me... and she was like well then he's not interested in you... and yeah i still like him and everytime i go in my spanish 2 class i feel really sad because he doesn't even lke me as a friend... i know i should just get over him and move on but how? there is no other guy in my school and i don't know what else to do!! (link)
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i would say that instead of focusing on boys at all, you should focus on school the most. i'm not necessarily saying not to like people, its just that they aren't that important.
but what i would do is keep yourself occupied with something. like before or afterschool activities. or in your spare time do a favorite hobby. whatever it takes to get you mind off of him. it should work. it did for me.
hope i helped :)
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