Question Posted Saturday September 9 2006, 11:52 pm
alright im 14/m and theres a girl that lives in the neighborhood next to me whos 13/f and really pretty, however her friend, 14/f, get jealous of me whenever i hang out/talk to her and she tells the 13 year old that im a player and a bunch of bull$#!T that really makes me look bad and i was wondering how i get around that cuz i REALLY like this girl.
lilstef1992 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 6:08 pm: i think you should talk to the girl that keeps saying stuff about you. tell her to shut-up (but in a nice way). she shouldn't be doing that. and if she thinks your being rude when you tell her to stop saying crap she's got it all wrong. she deserves what she gets. and tell the girl you like your feelings to her. she'll appreciate it. and just be nice and prove your not what the other girl said you were.
sevenmilliondown answered Sunday September 10 2006, 5:55 am: I think you need to find out why the other girl is getting jealous. She might find you a threat to her relationship with her friend. My younger sister is about your age, and I've seen her go about these kinds of situations wrong too many times.
What you SHOULD NOT do is:
* Have your friends talk bad about the other girl.
* Be rude in return.
* Break up their friendship.
What you SHOULD do is:
* Figure out the problem by talking to the girl and her friend.
* Explain to the other girl that you like her friend and that you aren't trying to harm her in any way shape or form. [ sevenmilliondown's advice column | Ask sevenmilliondown A Question ]
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