Hey,my name's Bunmi {bet you never heard that name before}and I'm 13 years old and I live in MA. I love hanging out with my friends and I playing sports. My friends always tell me I give good advice so I figured I would give this a try. I hope I can help some people but if you dont like my advice I am sorry but I will try to help the best I can. =]
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i joined lacrosse and my legs hurt really bad from running.. how can i make it feel better?? and do you have any lacrosse tips? (link)
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use icey hot and streach before pratice or a game and maybe you are not used to running that much and if you run 3 laps a day by the end of the week you should be used to it then you increase it and you would be able to run 29 miles. Hope i helped
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to make this short i my dad and i dont get along at all and i have tried so hard to be nice to him or to have a convo. with him but he always ends up yelling at me and i think thats why ive started to change i dont feel like i have a family any more.. i had started to smoke( i quit tho.) and i drink every once in a while and ive even tried weed once. Some of my friends dont like that ive changed and the rest of my friends dont care. but i got really sick the other day and my father took me to the doctors because my mom made him, the doctor said im getting bad lungs from being around smoke so much and my dad promised the doctor he wont smoke around me but he still does its like it wants me to get wrose... Please Help!! (link)
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you should tell your mom cause it seems like you dad is trying to kill you slowly
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my family doesnt pay attention to me at all... its all about my perfect sisters... i used to wear one of my sisters clothes (bc i dont have any) and my mom was gonna buy me some clothes but she gave the money to my sister bc i ruined my sisters clothes and like my parents dont do crap for me im not tryin to be selfish but what should i do?
sorry for the writing I RATE 5'S! (link)
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you should talk to the parent that you are closer to and tell them how you feel regected and if they dont pay attention to u then give them the silient treatment and if that still dosen't work sleep over your friends house for a couple of days and see if they want to pay attention to you then. Hope I helped.
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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this? (link)
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My religion believes that the world is going to end soon because in the Bible it says that in the 2000th year that stuff will happen like wars and stuff like that its all in the book of relevations.but i don't think it will happen soon but maybe in like 2999
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Hey does anyone know any good ways to lose about 5 pounds for the summer? My friend wants to go to the beach but i dont look right in a bathingsuit. Any tips would be REALLY helpful Thanx
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you can drink a lot of water eat fruit and vegatables eat breakfast cause it makes u less hungry and causes u to eat less get the abb loung and run. I hope I helped.
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Hi im 13 female and i wanted to know if any one my age knows how i can earn $3000 dollars (three thousand dollars) i live in florida close to mims i need to earn money but dont know how.. i want to earn money for a horse and my grandpa said that if i get $3000 than i can get one. so i need help i rate 5's thanks
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babysit, when u turn 14 get a real job,wash cars, sell lemonade ( it really works go outside a suppermarket and sell lemonade for like 7 am- 5pm and sell for a dollar for each person I tried it for like 1 hour i got 40 dollars) have a yard sale and sell a lot of your stuff clean around your house. I hope i helped
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This is a VERY long story so bear with me.
My father got re-married about three years ago. The woman he married, Karen, was perfectly nice until their wedding day, when she did a total Jekyll and Hyde (sp?) and went totally psycho. She started taking my stuff, hiding it or ripping it up, but never admitting that it was her. For a couple of years now my father's side of the family accused me of making it all up. However, about a year ago now, Karen sent a completely bitchy email, the details of which I won't bother going in to, which meant I stopped seeing her and my father's side of the family. Since then she has sent many more nasty texts and emails accusing me of all sorts and threatening to take the child benefit away from my mother, etc etc etc (I am aware that she couldn't legally do this).
Recently, her 'psycho stuff' has become a lot worse. She started sending odd letters - the address on the envelope disguised as a child's writing and saying on the back of the envelope, 'from Ryan' (Ryan is my younger cousin). Inside would be photographs of me, often cut up so I am the only one in the picture, and stuck onto a background of coloured card or paper. We knew she must be sending these because she is the only one, other than my father, with the access to these particular photographs (me on holiday with my father and Karen).
So, my (paternal) Nan confronted her and Karen has admitted that she sent the letters. She says it is because my father goes to work away a lot and she gets 'bored'. I personally feel that that doens't even qualify as an excuse to do what she has done - for weeks we had been terrified of who these letters were from, and I'm still scared to go out of the house (even into my backgarden) on my own incase she is lurking around.
Karen has since written a letter of apology to my mother's parents. WHY she sent it to them, I have no idea. My grandad doesn't want to take any further action, but there is no way that I am just sitting here and taking 'I was bored' as an excuse for putting my family through all the crap she has over the years (I have only mentioned a small amount of what she has done here). But what can I do?
She begged my grandad to NOT tell me and my mother that it was her who had sent the letters, but of course we know because WE figured it out in the first place. So, I think that if I do do anything, she will think my grandad has told me she did it, or my mother has put me up to doing whatever I would do. That means she might well hurt my grandad or my mother (I wouldn't put it past her - please no-one reply saying 'she wouldn't do that' because you don't know this woman. I do).
My mother thinks that I deserve an apology, not only from Karen but from all of my father's family for not believing me in the first place, but to me, 'sorry' just wouldn't cut it. 'Sorry' isn't a big enough word to make everything she has done go away. But what can I do? I know I could go to the police but my grandad doesn't think I should take any further action and I don't want to hurt or disappoint him. But on the other hand, there is NO WAY I am taking 'I am bored' as her reason.
There is also the problem that she doesn't know that me and my mother know she is the one who sent the letters. My father also doesn't know a THING about the letters yet, and although I don't get on with him, I want him to know - I'd want to know if my wife was doing something like that.
So, in summary, my question is: What can I do? Because there is no way I will do nothing. And how do I let Karen know that I know what she did? What else could I 'get out' of her other than an apology, something I don't want as I know it would mean nothing (she's already apologised to my grandparents, as I said, but that was only to stop them telling my father).
Sorry this was so long, and thanks in advance for any help. I'm fifteen, female, and don't see any of my father's family other than my Nan, if that helps.
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save the e-mails tell your dad and the cops and make sure he knows her e-mail.
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Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE! (link)
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You might have gotten it in mid feb and it might cause you to have it in early april and stress or worrying can cause it 2 come late.
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ok i have a boyfriend im 13 and he recently asked me to have sex with him. I really want to but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what should i do? (link)
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I don't think you should heve sex cause once you do they will just leave you. Guys always say no i'm not going to leave you but they always end up leaving you after they had sex all they want is the pleasure and think guys always want a clean girl. Think about it if you were a guy would you want to be with someone who had sex like over 10 times with diffrent people and you can get std the most comon is SPV you can get that with skin contact and it cause liver or kidney failer everyone thinks hiv is the most common but it only like 1%. Guys will always tell their friends they had sex with you cause they want their friends two think their cool or their a pimp and can score any girl and once you have it two weeks later he will leave you and if he says you don't love me if you did you would have sex with me it meens all he wants is sex and if he realy loves you he won't leave you and he would respect your body. So you shouldn't do it and if you do condoms break if you use them for more than 10 mins. I hope I helped.
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i like to write songs or poems, well at least try. but everytime that i do at the end they always sound really stupid. so does anyone know any like tips or tricks that i could use to maybe get some decent ideas or to make it not sound so well...corny? (link)
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you could write about your life and all the stuff you have 2 go through and poems don't have 2 ryme
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i'm 13 and i'm a Christian i'm really big on holding grudges and not forgiving people. i know i know its bad but i'm praying about it and working on it!! bible verses help me alot but lately i cant find any!! i need help on finding bible verses about forgiving..know any?? please help!! (link)
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Matthew 6:14-15 there is this other verse but i forgot where its from its like you should forgive 777 times 777 well somethin like that. Well I hope I helped.
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i juss bouqht nair lotion remover thinq and im not sure if its qonna be qood.. on the back of the bottle it said stuff for like the leqs.. the bikini area and stuff but i wanted to use it for my face.. do you think its qonna work for ma face? and when the hair qrows back.. is it qoinq to be thicker.. one LAST question.. sorry ! how lonq will the hair qrow back?? (link)
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My friend uses nair and she said if it is you first time use it like once a week or once a month cause if you use it every day you could have a beared it will grow thicker cause when she said she started using nair the hair grew back in like 3 months but then she used it 1 a month and it grew back so fast. If i was you i would wax because it grows back thinner. I hope I helped.
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Hey. um. well when my friends and I play truth or dare. I usually just watch ya know..well they;ve been getting on my nerves about me being a chicken.. the truth 'how far have you even been'..always comes up..and well when I was 8 years old I was, well raped.. and I dont want to say that I was raped..but other then that, I've never been anywhere (still severely afraid of guys and what they're capable of)..and if i say that, well i'll be considered prude..which i guess is the case..any way to avoid this??
Sorry-its so long. (link)
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I think that you should tell someone that you got raped someone that you trust cause if you do you will feel beter. I hoped I helped.
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I was wondering a few things about steroids.
- First, I'm not taking them for sports or anything, I have bad asthma and I have to take them to control my attacks.
1. What are the risks.
2. Do they make you eritible/angry all the time
3. Do they make your muscles large
I'm a girl so I wouldn't want my muscles to be the size of a man's! (link)
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They have steroids for certain things like i have exama which is asthma in the skin and i have to use this cream that thins out your skin but asthma when you use it it expands your lungs to help your breath but if your using a pill it can cause depression pimples and high energey.
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ok so my guy friend i like him but idk he's been acting werid huging me and stuff touching my hair holding me and he always says i love u babe its freakin me out! wat should i do ? (link)
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play along with it if he just started he might think u like him and be testing u waiting to make a move cause that happened to me.
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I've like guyz since like the 1st grade. I've never ever let them find out. I'm an admirer. I don't ask people out, I dont tell people i like em. How can I tell them without seeming "out of character" or embarass myslef.
Please don't be negative I rate high!! (link)
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I know how you feel i love guyz you should get to know them first then work into the subject but don't sound to serios at first then like a couple of times later you can be a little serious but don't come out and say your hott cause they'll get scared i learned the hard way. Hope I helped
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i usually pop my pimples and now i have alot of scars on my forehead, does anyone know any products that can get rid of scars? a product that are not that expensive and that i can easily get at a store
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i never got pimples cause i got dry skin but i hered that proactive works try that.
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well i have this really gud friend thats a boy and we are really close. everybody knows that he has liked me for ages and gets really upset when i go out with other people but i just didnt like him in that way. ive recently (as in 3 months a go) broke up with my long term boyfriend of a year and he has been really supportive. i was really hurt after we broke up bt my friend helped me throught it. now i think im falling for him but i dont know whether i should. am i just pretending that i like him because he is so nice to me? or do i reali like him? what should i do? i mean im 16 so it would be serious if i went out with him. i just need some advice! (link)
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I think you like him cause i fell for this ugly guy but he had a realy nice personalty just try to be with him. I hope I helped.
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I really like this guy named Cody becuase he is nice and funny and sweet and everything. Right now we are friends but i asked him out once and he said no. But when i ask him why he said" because my friend tj likes you" So i already knew that and tjs my friends and we have a great friendship sometimes with benifits. So i asked tj if its ok if i go out with cody and he said yea. so i asked cody again and he said the same thing but i told him tj said it was ok. but he still says no but i know he likes me because hes friends told me. So my question is should i just stay friends with him or what should i do? i'm so confused and i really like him. (link)
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you should stay friends with him and if you are like bestfriends you should not risk it cause your friendship could be messed up
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I think my parents went through my purse! I came home last night and my purse was on my bed and it was opened! I feel violated, and hurt because i dont know why they would feel the need to do that. should i wait it out..because maybe if they went through my purse then they would talk to me about it soon? or should i confront them? if it ends up they didnt look through it they would think im paranoid and think i mmight have something to hide right? (link)
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If you have any brothers or sisters you should ask them first then go to your parents and ask if they went through your purse and if they did maybe they were woried about you and watch 2 much drug things cause something lie that happened to one of my friends. I hope I helped
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