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ok i have a boyfriend im 13 and he recently asked me to have sex with him. I really want to but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what should i do?
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Dont wait untill the summer. Wait untill you're married. You're 13 dont rush your childhood. xO ali
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I don't think you should heve sex cause once you do they will just leave you. Guys always say no i'm not going to leave you but they always end up leaving you after they had sex all they want is the pleasure and think guys always want a clean girl. Think about it if you were a guy would you want to be with someone who had sex like over 10 times with diffrent people and you can get std the most comon is SPV you can get that with skin contact and it cause liver or kidney failer everyone thinks hiv is the most common but it only like 1%. Guys will always tell their friends they had sex with you cause they want their friends two think their cool or their a pimp and can score any girl and once you have it two weeks later he will leave you and if he says you don't love me if you did you would have sex with me it meens all he wants is sex and if he realy loves you he won't leave you and he would respect your body. So you shouldn't do it and if you do condoms break if you use them for more than 10 mins. I hope I helped.
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Ok, you want my answer to this? I guess you do, since you asked.
Look. You're <b>thirteen</b> years old. You're not even an adult yet, and you're very far from it. Chances are after a few weeks this guy is going to be old news, and you two are going to be broken up. You have your WHOLE entire life ahead of you. Why screw it up by having sex and (quite possibly) getting pregnant at such a young age?
Are you aware of the responsibility that comes with sex/pregnancy? Are you old enough to support a child? Are you mature enough to handle the stress that comes with sex/children? I don't care what you *think*, you're not ready. At all.
And you're worried about the guy telling everyone? Hate to break it to you hun, but guys are going to tell. Especially at your age. Chances are he just wants sex to boost his ego. That's what the majority of boys your age want, and that's all they want. They don't want a real relationship, they just want sex.
DON'T stoop to their level, and don't conform yourself to what they want. You should have better, higher plans for yourself than just becoming another stereotypical teen mom. You deserve better than that. Wait until you meet the guy you're going to marry, wait for the guy that loves you. Wait until you're married. Please don't go out and be just another typical teen. Rise above.
If you need any more advice, please feel free to ask me. I'm online almost 24/7. IM me on AIM: UNCSoccerGirl23. Ok? I'm here for you.
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