15/f. my best guy friend recently admitted to me that he has a major crush on me. however, i see him as a brother (and he has remarked that he still sees me as somebody that he can talk to). he and i have talked about how we're always going to stay friends, even if we have feelings for one another because we have a really good friendship. he also asked me if i'd like to go with him to a banquet next year as friends, and i said yes. my only concern is that now things are going to be awkward between us. how can i let him know that it's perfectly fine with me if he likes me, and how would you feel if you were in his position?
sine you consider him as your brother, then you should be able to tell him anything. Also, if you did got out with him and broke up i dont think things would change between you two only for a little. So try it out and see.
good luck and have fun at the banquet =D
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My best freind likes this kid. He likes her back. Well, me and him argue about stupid things alot and he bugs the heck out of me! He's just so annoying and will yell at me online and stuff. He's a year younger then us. He is considered "gay" in his grade. Well, I also think he is two timing her for this girl in his grade. There was this dance last night and he was with her dancing with her the whole time! My freind likes him so much though. Should I talk to her about it or should I talk to the guy about it.. but I know he will tell my freind. Should I keep it to myself?? Plese help!
Since its like your best friend and not so much you, let her decide and if you dont like him go along with it and dont express it. Theres really nothing else you can do about this situation.
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Ok...so I have a boyfriend and is name is Tyler he's 13 and he is VERY bipolar and it's pissing me off. He pouts everytime I hang out with him. I CAN'T TAKE IT! I want to break up with him, but he'll slit his wrist and I know thats its just for attention. ButI don't want him too. So can someone tell me to tell him something so it doesn't seem so bad??
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I'm a girl :P I'm 13 1/2
Well if you really are un happy with him and dont like him you should tell him because i dont think he would really slit his writst. I mean be realistic! So talk to him and tell him how you feel.
Good luck and i hope it all works out!
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Next year I will be trying out for V. track at my middle school. How can I prepare for running miles besides just practicing running? (I mean, keeping on course with my breathing, etc.) Thanks.
Go for walks, jogs, and runs. But dont out tire yourself. I mean just get into shape and you wont have to worry. But in track there isnt just running. There is jumping and throwing. So practice jumping hurdles or high jumps and then practice throwing heavy things. Good luck with it
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theres this guy that i went out with for like a day or something and he just said it wasnt working out so when we broke up and all that stuff i had to sit by him in health class and i was just ignoring him and everything cause i STILL like him but i dont know if i should just get over it or tell him. (I wrote him a note telling him that i still cared for him but it was never heard what he said) what should i do?
in case it helps i am 13 years old and as you can probaly gather i am a girl
This happens a lot but dont let it get to you. Your only 13 so just go out and have as much fun as you can and get to the boys later. Theres plenty of them and when the time is right, your boy will come to you weather its sooner or later.
have fun =D
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if a girl asks a guy to prom, does she pay for both tickets? does the boy traditionally pay, or does each person pay for their own?
if a girl asks the guy to prom, i would probably buy my own ticket and let him cover his own becuase you know guys these days..hha
good luck and have fun at rpom =D
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I'm a competative horseback rider (mostly hunter shows) and I love showing so much. The problem is, I always get nervous before any show. Yesterday I started shaking while I was sitting on my mare waiting for my trick (turn to jump, in my case). She could sense that I was nervous, as most horses can, and she figured there was some reason to be nervous about. After that she wouldn't stand still or walk foward unles my trainer was holding her, it was always backing up, away from the ring. It helps to surround myself with my awesome barn people (especially my trainer and my two best barn friends) because they tell me that no matter what happens in the ring, they will always love me as a good barn family should. However, it isn't always possible to be with them (for example, when my friends are in their classes). Also, once we get in the ring we are fine. Any suggestions on how to cool down?
there really shouldnt be any reason to be nervous because its all about the fun of it an no matter what there is always a next time to compete and you friends and trainer said they would love you no matter what. Next time try to go out there and just have fun. If that doesnt help, i always sing/talk to myself while i play soccer and it is sorta the same thing so try that and if that does not help then try talking to you mare and just relax and breathe..
good luck
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last night i was with my friend. my best friend. i mean me and her are like really tight.. anyway, she has a boyfriend and we met some guys the night before and they invited us to the movies. so we went and last night her and this one guy are like making out. you know its making out, so whatever. but then he started feeling on her and then they got to third base! she hardly even knows this guy.. and i guess im kind of jealous. but hardly. i mean the guy was pretty hot.. and i wouldnt mind being with him but i wouldnt let him finger me! i mean she has a boyfriend!! and like it kind of makes her seem like a whore.. but me and her boyfriend are pretty good friends and i know if i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me i would've been pissed. now shes gonna break up with him and i'm pretty sure he really likes her. now we're best friends but idk what to do.. i'm not gonna tell her boyfriend because he's gonna tell everyone and people are gonna be calling her a whore and it'll just turn up into this whole mess.. what do i do? [sorry it's so long]
The best thing to do would be to tell him what she did becuase that is definetly not the right thing to do especially is she has a boyfriend. I dont think it would ruin your relationship with her because you are doing the right thing by telling him so she provbably will get mad for a little but then she will realize (hopefully) that you did the right thing and you werenet trying to be mean you were trying to do the right thing and the right thing is to tell him.
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14 almost 15/f. my talent is music, and i hope to become a professional musician one day. i play a number of instruments, and i love blues/jazz. i'm going to major in music in college. at some point in time i'd like to start getting in touch with recording studios and whatnot. have any of you ever had any experience with this, and how should i go about recording a demo and such?
i think you should follow anything that you think your good at if your good at music i think you should do anything you want to with that!
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Sorry if this was under the wrong catagory, I wasn't sure where to put it =( Anyway, my question is why is it that whenever I wake up in the morning my arms and back and neck hurts? Like it feels sore and achey? It's been hapening alot lately, and my softball throwing arm is being affected by this ... and I would like to know three things:
1) Does anyone know what is causing this?
2) How can I prevent it?
3) How can I help it? like should I use a heat pack to make them stop hurting and being so sore?
I don't know is it helps any, but I am 14 years old and a girl, thanks!
hey i had this problem before i slept the wrong way and i woke up and i couldnt move my neck to the other side i tried a lot of things take a rag and put hott water on it it helps it sooth it.... if it hurts to much (and this is what i did) ask ur parents to go to the chiropractor... and i wnt two times and my neck felt soooo much better.....basically what they do is they figure out whats wrong and massge it for you... maybe ask some of your firends and see if they ever went and how it turned out...Also, it could be the way you sleep. Try changing the pillows around or the way you lay down to sleep. Be comfortable when you go to sleep...hope i helped!!
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I'm not sure what my condition is, or if I even have one, but it's like this:
Everytime I go to walk around my block, or if I'm in the house alone (and I babysit!), I freak out. I look around frantically, even running from room to room! Is this normal? I don't get it as a severity (sp), but it's not exactly too light either. What can I do to prevent this sort of thing happening to me? Thanks.
Maybe your just freaked out if you watch or have seen scary movies. Whenever i babysit, stay home alone, or talk walks i always bring a friend(s) becasue it takes my mind off everything. So try that and if it helps thats good but if it doesnt help then you might wanna see a phsycologist. (sp)
hope i helped!
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Whats a goood wayy to get a little fitter in a week? also all my weight is in my lower body like my hips and thighs and buttttt. how do i fix that?
you can try a lot of things first try to watch what you eat if you eat a lot of junk food try not to and eat a lot of healthier foods lyk fruit...and exercise if you cant get into a gym try maybe everynight to do sit ups and try to make a goal for urslef!!
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I have had this friend for 6 yrs. She told me that she had started smoking and asked me to also. What should I do to help my friend
No I did not start smoking.
well obviously smoking is bad for you and if she was one of your best friends she wouldnt be encouraing you to smoke in the first place.
Stay friends with her and just see what happens. If she starts to get really bad, that its your decision, do you wanna be friends with her or no?
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im pretty self concious about my hair. lately, it hasnt been looking as good as it should and its frusterating for me. im getting a haircut but that will be in a while. in the mean time, i would like to know if there are any very affective hair products. my hair isnt frizzy but its dry and the ends look bad. is there something that will help my hair look softer and shinier?
hey, what i think you should do is try to use as many different shampoos or conditionars and see wich ones make u feel confident about. If i was in your situation i would ask your friends if they could help u maybe have some new hair styles! You should also try TRESEME it helped my hair because i burn y hair because i straighten it every day and when i started to use it, it was back to the way it normally is.(not dry or dead). Going to the hair place helps because if you just get a trim, it gets all the dead ends off. Hope i helped!
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Soo, my sisters boyfriend went in my purse monday. and stole my keys. then ever since i cant find my braclet that my boyfriend got me, i am 99% sure that it fell out when stupid stole my keys, my problems is how do i tell my boyfriend because he got me somthinf or my birthday to match and i dont know how to tell him because i love him sooo much...
help please. whats the best way to tell him????
he hates my sister and my sistesr boyfrind so no worry so breakin up a relationship..
i feel like its all my fault.. help!!!
if you like you boyfriend so much, you should be able to tell him the truth about what really did happen. You should also tell your sister about what her boyfriend did and ask him to leave your stuff alone.
good luck =]
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ok...me and my x-boyfriend's relationship was going great...but 3 months into it he started to slip into depression...i ask people what i should do and somone gave me the brilent idea to complament him and try to get him to feel good about his self...so i did just that...than...2 weeks later after i was complamenting him he dumped me and went out with my best friend!! and now he thanks me everyday for helping him "meet the love of his life" ...he said he would have never walked up to my best friend if he didnt have confedice... and it makes me feel like he was just using me!!.. should i be upset? or am i over reacting?...
meaning that this is u x-boyfriend and your best friend then you have a right to be a little discouraged. But dont ruin your days over it. I mean theres other guys out there and he was just a jerk because he was probably using you.
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ok heres the situation. your 15 yrs old. u never liked your dad, you hated him and you had this huge fite. and then he beats you wif a wooden stick until it broke. your mom was yelling at him and everything. and he hits your mom because she tries to stop him from hitting you. and then and then... a couple days later they act like nothings happened. yout mom doesnt want anyone else outside the family to kno this so she doesnt calls the police. you realli cant stand it that everyones living on fine and you get mad seeing your bruises. wat do you do?
you should consider telling someone because it is not right for you dad to be beating you and have your mom and his wife watching the whole entire thing with out telling anyone. I mean you should at least talk to your mom about it first and ask her to please talk to him or have her call the police or notify someone about it becuase its night right for this to be going on.
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