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I hate her crush!
My best freind likes this kid. He likes her back. Well, me and him argue about stupid things alot and he bugs the heck out of me! He's just so annoying and will yell at me online and stuff. He's a year younger then us. He is considered "gay" in his grade. Well, I also think he is two timing her for this girl in his grade. There was this dance last night and he was with her dancing with her the whole time! My freind likes him so much though. Should I talk to her about it or should I talk to the guy about it.. but I know he will tell my freind. Should I keep it to myself?? Plese help!
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Since its like your best friend and not so much you, let her decide and if you dont like him go along with it and dont express it. Theres really nothing else you can do about this situation.
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hey i think you should have like a little meeting with both of them together and talk about it untill you figure out what it going on...i know you care about your friend a lot and want her to be happy so do the best thing possible!! hope i helped
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If you're really worried about your friend's feelings then you should tell her. You don't want her to get hurt and then realize you could have helped prevent it. If she's really you're best friend she should listen to what you have to say. But you have to be prepared that she may not accept it. But like I said, if she's a good friend, whether she accepts your opinion/information or not she won't let a guy come in between your friendship.
Try and just talk to her one on one calmly and rationally. You don't want to end up in a fight with her about it. Try and bring it up subtely, don't be completely outright and say you hate him or anything. Just say you saw him dancing with that girl and that you're only looking out for her.
I hope it works out.
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I think you should talk to your friend about it because she is your friend and will trust what you say. She has to right to know. Make sure you tell her that you arent positive he is two timing her but you saw him dancing with the girl.
Maybe you could tell her to talk to him about it.
If they settle things out just ingnore him if she really likes him dont get involved and express how much you hate him it could cause problems in their relationship. Just block him online and ingore it.
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Omg I know who this is!!!
Make him seem like a douche bag and tell her facts about him!!! Then she won't like him no more!!!!
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Talk to the guy, and ask him if he has a girlfriend. Ask him what he thinks of your friend and if he likes her, and if he would ever considering going out with her. Tell him about how you two are good friends, and that you don't want him two timing her. See if you can set up a time for your friend and the guy to meet/see each other and talk.
If the guy and your friend end up going out, and you feel like he's cheating on her, you need to say something to your friend. Say something like, "I know you like him alot, but have you ever seen him with other girls?" That's much better than straight out tellling her that this guy is a jerk.
Whatever you do, don't let this guy interfere with your friendship. Either way, she'll probably realize sooner or later if this guy is worth her time or not.
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You should talk to the guy about it. Talking about it to your friend might get her upset. After you talk to the guy, tell your friend if you found anything out. Hoenstly, I can't even understand why she would want to go out with someone younger than her, it just seems weird. But she'll do what she wants, and eventually, I hope she realizes that that kid obviously isn't worth it.
[EDIT:] Just ask him if he's going out with anyone, then ask him how he feels about your friend, and if he even likes her back. And you could tell him if he ever hurts her in any way, you'll cream him! Haha. Well hope I helped.
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