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This may be long, and I do apoligize but it means alot and I thank anyone who gives me advice.

I am a 20/f who has dated her bf for over a year and 4 months. We were very much in love, and it was evident in the relationship that he was even more in love with me than I was with him. Soon though I began to love him just as much. We were trully happy. We planned a vacation together for January but due to conditions not under our control, he said he couldn't, and if we could go next year. I was upset because I was looking 4ward to relaxing and asked to go with friends, which he did not like saying "You're ditching me! You're just dropping me!" After feeling he controlled me, I gave him his promise ring back, & he gave me his back later. This hurt him alot. I never knew it would make such an impact. He took this as a breakup. In a few days he came back and we made up and everything was great. Later that week, he broke up with me (2 days after xmas). I was so upset. After that he didn't contact me on new years, and finally I did, saying I missed him. He wrote "I obviously miss you too!" So I called & asked why we cant be together, and he told me that I hurt him, and all the nasty things I said to him when we fought, he had enough of. So I cried, but we continued to txt each other every few days. He seemed to care when I was sick, or wished me a safe flight when I went on vacation. I then wrote him a 3 page letter telling him how much he means to me and how I'm sorry for hurting him, I gave him his ring back hoping this would bring him back. 2 days later he told me "we should stay the way we are, and that i really hurt him, and broke his heart. he also wrote "time 4 something new I guess" That killed me. When i told him I loved him he answered "I cant say something I don't mean." Recently Ive seen on fb he's talking to someone else, but he never deleted our default pictures together & deletes all her comments tht refer to them hanging out. I don't know what to do. I love him, and I know I hurt him but I can't be chasing after him, If I am receiving no love in return. He's my world and I'd do anything for him, but I feel he's just giving up on us.

I'm really sorry sweetie, but people heal at their own pace. If you stop contacting him, I'm sure he'll try contacting you. (That's just how men are~ if they're not being chased, they'll get worried and chase you back)

If he does have another girl, then the relationship is most likely done for now. Maybe he'll date her and realize that you're the only one for him~ or maybe not. You just need to let him live his life for now until he realizes that you and him are meant to be. If he doesn't come back, then you need to live your life and do your best to get through this. I know it's tough, trust me. This exact scenario happened to me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years, except I was in your ex boyfriend's position. The only difference is that our relationship was long-distance, so it's a lot different.

I'm sure this girl he is talking to is a means to get over you, that or maybe he really likes her and he's done fighting with you and feeling like you don't care. A lot of guys run from girls because of the fighting. Guys just don't want to hear it and they think relationships are supposed to be easy, but they're wrong. If he truly loved you, he'd try to work it out. So maybe you should just try to move on because you guys would be back together by now if he was IN love with you. Fighting causes people to drift apart, it sucks I know because some things you just need to let out and fight about, but guys tend to distance themselves from fighting.

If you do choose to move on and get over him it's not going to be easy. Some things you can try to do are drawing, painting, jewelry making, anything to stay busy and happy. Go see movies, keep your friends close (it really does help having your girlfriends around) spend quality time with your mom, dad, or sibling(s). Anything that makes you happy. If it makes you happy to find another guy~ then go out to a club with some friends and just have a good time.

I'm really sorry you're going through this, but I believe true love finds a way. Just don't think too much about it, once he thinks you don't care he'll start talking to you again.

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15/f.

i've been losing a lot of hair lately. like when i get out of the shower & brush my hair, i lose like 20 hairs. i don't yank it when brushing it. i brush it how your suppose to; from tips to roots. & during the day i can just run my fingers through it & lose about five hairs every time. also, during school hairs will fall onto my shirt & everytime i look down i see hairs all over my shirt. my hair seems to be getting very thin too. it's starting to really concern me. is there a problem?

This is not meant to worry you, but it's a possibility. A girl I knew last year had a disease called Alopecia, which is a disease that effects nothing except your hair~ causing extreme hair loss. Typically it goes away, but sometimes you can relapse and get it again. I'd visit your doctor if you're THAT concerned that there's a lot of hair falling out. I get hair loss too, but not every time I pull at it. Usually when I get out of the shower or when I'm in the shower a lot of hair comes out, but that's natural. Just get checked by your doctor to make sure, since this is just an advice site we can only give advice, I suggest asking your mom or dad about it and asking them to make you an appointment if they think it's serious.

Sorry if this worried you, the chances of you having Alopecia are slim, but I wouldn't take the risk, I'd get checked. I also agree with the person who answered below me, it could also be from not getting your hair cut. But if that's the case then your hair wouldn't be thinning as you say it is.

Good luck

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hi all
so im 17/m and recently became friends with this girl whos 15.now i know from other friends of both of us that she really really likes me .we've been talking,mostly through the cellphone and she kinda hints to me that she likes me at times.well the problem is that ,even though she is cute and a really nice friend,i don't really like her and do not want to start a more serious relationship with her.now i need to like let her know that im not that into her but at the same time i don't want to jepordise our friendship.so any advice:)?

By texting her like that, you must be doing something to lead her on. You can do one of three things; either let her know you're not into her like that, stop texting her AS much, or don't text her at all. Either way she's going to get confused or hurt. There's no easy way to let a girl know you're not into her the way she's into you, so whatever way you decide is best is what you should do.

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Okay, so recently to sum my story up short, My Boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5years. In the past I have caught him maybe 2yrs ago lying about girls he had slept with and he put it all out on the table who and what he lied about. 2 years later here we are he lied to me again saying he was going to sleep Friday night because he had to "work" saturday morning an I didn't trust him at all because his whole story about working had been changing, because he lives out of town also! He just recently moved away as well, so he said basically he couldn't come into town because he had to work. I trusted that he said he had to work even though things were sketchy! SO I called his friend later that night he picked up the phone an hungup an I heard music playing , eventually he called an chewed me out saying he was sleeping an stop calling him. I just so happened to check his account and see he was lying and at a nude bar? I kept thinking why would he lie, I caughthim an drove all the way to south carolina to fix things with him NOTE:i didnt do anything wrong, I think any female would have done the same an checked up on their bf of 5 YEARS. So he is wanting to break up because I went on his online banking and he foundout tuesday I tried logging in again and he changed his password so I couldn't go on an I assumed maybe he was hiding stuff and questioned him about it? I wrote him a long email saying if he wanted closure I will give it to him an called him that night to talk, this time he wasnt yelling at me on the phone he listened an just commented saying I dont trust him an never did, an that's why he did it an tried to get away with it because he knew I wouldn't approve of him going out like he did. Well needless to say we ended the convo on good terms he said he would call me and hasn't called yet, it's been about a day now! SO I want to know am I wrong? What can I do to fix it? I told him I would go to counseling to do whatever it took to make it work an would trust him but at the same time he has to gain that back from me? I don't know what more to do I have talked to al kinds of people at work, managers everything and have no clue what to do?? ANY advice would be appreciated , Thank you SO much!

Honestly the main thing TO do is to not make the whole situation your life. I know how it feels when a guy you love has betrayed your trust and you feel like your world is just over, that there's nothing beyond your relationship and a life with the man you love. But I've also learned that there IS life after guys~ as much as you don't want to believe it. I truly think that it's time to let him go, as much as you love him and have been with him for SO long. I just don't think you can trust him. Guys cheat once, I'm sure they'll do it again. And I'm sure that night he was going to a nude bar, he would have done it AGAIN. Why else would he go to a nude bar except to look at/hook up with 'hot naked girls'? I really think you could find someone a lot better who treats you with way more respect than he does. Any guy who yells at you and cusses you out the way he has, means he has something to hide. Which of course, if he's cheated in the past multiple times, he has something to hide.

You need to ask yourself these questions:

Do you see a future with a man who has repeatedly cheated on you with girls? And knowingly did so?

Do you want to be with a guy who has an interest in other girls?

Do you want to be with a guy who yells at you and disrespects you?

When you guys grow older and have kids, what happens if he cheats again? Think about your future kids and how strenuous that would be on them.

Even WITH therapy, and psychiatric help, do you really believe he can be 100% faithful?

I, however, do not believe therapy really changes men who cheat. If you did seek therapy, and he agreed to go, things would be great for a while, a few months tops, then he'd probably lose interest again and cheat. I was also cheated on by a guy I really loved and it killed me, so I know how you feel. My situation differs from yours because he cheated, then dumped me like I was nothing. He had cheated on all his past girlfriends, got a tattoo of one of his ex girlfriends (the one he cheated on me with), asked her to marry him, then cheated on her too. As much as a guy SAYS he will be faithful and loves you yadayadayada, they'll never change. Cheating is the one thing that girls should never forgive, can you live with the fact that your boyfriend touched other girls who weren't you? Guys who cheat knowingly do so, even with you in mind I'm sure he did it anyway and probably doesn't regret it even though he may have said he does.

Please think of yourself in this situation and not your boyfriend. The last thing I want is you, for the rest of your life, crying and stressing over this guy who obviously doesn't deserve you. He may say things that make your heart stop and make you smile, but how long do those moments last before the next fight? How much longer till he cheats again? How will you know?

Keep all of that in mind sweetie, and I hope you make the right decision instead of waiting too long and marrying him, then regretting your decision.

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Is it bad to feel lonely. I just lost a few of my freinds, (backstabbing) and i feel like everyone just gangs up on me and treats me like I'm absolutely nothing. I'm just depressed. I dont't know. What should I do?

I've been there before, and it pretty much taught me that the friends I lost obviously weren't very good friends to begin with if they were treating me like that and talking about me behind my back. If anything, you should be glad to have them out of your life; who needs friends who constantly backstab them anyway? Focus on the friends you DO have left, and value them. As long as you have a couple good friends in life, that's all you really need. Quality > quantity; meaning it's better to have TRUE friends than just a bunch of friends. Also if it helps, try to keep yourself busy doing things for yourself and don't worry about the people you lost as friends; karma will get them eventually and I'm sure they won't end up with very many friends in the end.

Good luck

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Okay, So....Recently my Fiance of 5 years decided to go to full nude bar without letting me know. To start off it was brought to my attention he had to go to work saturday morning so he wouldn't be able to come into town, (He is living away due to his job relocating) so I am still in our home town, doing the long distance thing right now! He usually comes into town every weekend an recently this weekend he told me he had to work saturday morning an couldn't come into town, which i thought was wierd considering the job he did would be cancelled because of all the rain we had coming! He called me friday night an told me he was going to bed, I didn't trust that he was going to bed because why would he go to sleep at 8 at night, (We live together & That is not normal) I know him better than that so suddenly I expected something was going on. So about maybe 2 hours later I check his account just to see if he was lying or not an 3 different bars pop up on his account 1 being a nude strip club, and I immedietly flipped out because he lied to me and an disrespected me an broke our trust! I called him over and over, no answer...And so I drove to where he works (4hours away) and he apologized an explained he feels like he can't tell me things because I may get upset, an I told him now it makes it harder for me to trust him because he lied to me, an it's hard enough living away from him during the week! I have been lied to maybe 3yrs ago in the past from him about cheating an he hasn't lied since...now this is going on an I don't know what to think, maybe we should go to counseling, I don't know but will he do it again? Or does he know I am pretty blunt that this is the last time I let him betray me like that? I would appreciate any feedback left, Thanks for listening, I had alot on my mind an just need a set of ears!

If you've been together that long, and he's cheated on you and has recently lied to you, why do you even want to be with him? Who wants to be with a guy who has said he loves you for 5 years and then cheats on you? I'm sure that's not ALL he would be doing that night if he went to a nude bar. Are you really okay with the fact that he was going there to stare at naked girls all night? In my opinion, I wouldn't work it out. I'd end it and move on and find someone who can actually respect me and the promises he makes. No FIANCE should be going out to nude bars and lying to you about it.

As much as I want to say that you can work it out and things will be okay, guys are very repetitive; they're doomed to repeat their past. Meaning if he has the chance, I'm sure he'd cheat on you again even after you get married. Things will be good for a while, but then he'll do something AGAIN to betray your trust and you'll just forgive him time and time again. If he's cheated once and done things behind your back, how can you ever even remotely trust him? Sorry if this is very blunt but I don't think that people can ever truly change, just think more about what you're doing and figure out what is best for you. All I'm saying is, if you end it now, you'll spare yourself a lot more heartache in the future when you could be spending years of your life with someone who respects you and means what he says.

I wish you the best

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I hate one of my wife's best friend. We just went out with the couple and I had a terrible time. My wife and I ended up having a huge fight over this. Any ideas on what I can do?

The one thing I'm sure you don't want to do is upset your wife and push her away. Other than you, the only other people girls have in their lives are their families and best friends. If you don't like her best friend, then you're going to have to deal. If they're all going out, don't go along with them, you DO have a choice. I've learned the hard way that you can't force someone to do something they don't want to. If this woman is your wife's BEST friend, you're not going to split them up just because you're her husband. When it comes to your wife's friend, don't argue, just drop it. Get over whatever it is about this woman you don't like because all it's going to do is upset your wife and make her argue with you. Not everyone thinks the same and has the same opinion; there's a reason she is your wife's best friend.

Sorry if this seems harsh, but it's the truth. You need to let your wife have friends, just because you don't like her friends doesn't mean she won't be friends with them anymore.

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Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We love each other very much and we've been talking about giving oral to each other, I know it should be based on if we're comfortable with each other but I just want to know what other people think, am I too young? thank you for you're time, your response really means a lot to me.

This is NOT me telling you TO do it, but I was fifteen when I first did anything, so it's really not all about age. I think you should do it when you're ready. As long as you've been in a committed relationship for 6 months I'm sure that you can easily decide what is right for you. You are the only person who can protect your body, so just make sure you're safe and won't end up hurt in the end.

I, personally, do not regret my choices. I do, however regret the guys I did those things with. As long as you love him, make the choice for yourself. You're almost 18 years old, a legal adult. You're definitely old enough to make your own decisions, just make sure you make the right one. I hope everything works out :).

Good luck

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Okay so me and my boyfriend have only been dating for like a month or so.We just started doing sexual things..not much.I just gave him a handjob and i don't plan to go any further until next month.The only thing that I noticed is he doesn't shave !!!! I shave completely and i never have any hair down there and i don't mind that he has some hair,but he has ALOT and I don't know how to tell him to get rid of it without being awkward.it doesnt bother me that much,but i still find it sort of unappealing.He hasn't had a girlfriend before me in like 4 months,so he hasn't done anything since but you'd think he'd shave now that he has me! I was thinking about waiting a while when we are more comfortable but i don't know how to say it! help!

Well, they say the key to a great relationship is communication :P. So I'd definitely ask him whether or not he prefers to have hair down there on his body or not. If he says he doesn't mind either way, tell him how you feel. The worst part about this situation is it's ultimately his choice, but since you're his girlfriend, I'm sure he'd shave or at least trim if he knew it's what you wanted. Your conversation could start by you asking if he prefers a girl shaved or unshaven, which would possibly lead to him asking the same question about your opinion of guys (typical response). Then just let him know you'd prefer less hair.

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So like uhm.. 16 days ago I had sex with this guy i talk to It wasn't the first time we had.. but the condom broke after her busted inside of me.. so I took 3 pregnancy tests.. one didn't work.. one said not pregnant and one said yes pregnant What should I do ! ? what is the likely hood that i am ?

I agree with NinjaNeer, there's no way to tell if you're truly pregnant until you see a doctor. Google 'Planned Parenthood' and figure out if there is one close to you, if there is go to it and get a pregnancy test. They range from 5-10 dollars and will give you an accurate result. If there isn't one near you, either buy 2 more pregnancy tests and try those, or talk to your mom about seeing a real gynecologist. They can for sure tell you if you are or are not pregnant.

It is both possible that you are and are not pregnant. Anytime a guy is inside of you without protection can lead to pregnancy. If you are comfortable enough to talk to your mom about this subject, talk to her about going on birth control. It isn't 100% effective, but it will definitely ease your mind if something like this were to occur again.

Good luck!

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13/f
well... about two days ago it started hurting to walk then today i found out that there is a little lump, about twice as big as a pin head on the inside of my thighs, well in between downstairs and my thighs. it really hurts to touch and its red. has anyone ever had anything like this? what should i do??
any help would be appreciated.
thanks in advance
:)

No worries, it's definitely a pimple. Lots of girls get them on their thighs, it's fairly common. You can get pimples everywhere. If you were thinking it was a tumor, etc, it definitely isn't. Tumors are skin-colored and do not cause you pain when you touch them. Pimples are red and sensitive to touch. In a day or so it should get a white head, which further proves that it's a pimple. It should go away within a couple weeks.

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I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend's also 17.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months (4 when we first had sex). We were going to wait to have sex until we were 18 (for practicality but also for privacy reasons), but that didn't work out so well, lol. We had sex once (we were each other's firsts) and were completely safe about it. We both agreed it was amazing and a week later when we were alone again, we had sex for the second time and it was even better. I didn't see him the next week because he went on a family trip so, you know, I missed him a lot! When he got home this past weekend, we started getting really intimate. Right when we were about to have sex, he announced that he didn't want to have sex anymore and that he wanted to wait until we graduated. I thought this was really weird, but he wouldn't say anything more about it. The week has gone on and he's been the same old guy. He's sweet, and thoughtful, and amazing... and guys, I really love him. He just won't talk to me about it. To tell you the truth, I really like sex. I don't want to wait a year. However, he mans a lot to me and I don't want to ruin this. Any advice on why he's doing this or how to get him to talk? Thanks so much!

I think maybe he feels guilty about it, and though I'm sure he REALLY wants to, he wants to wait even more. I think you should just ask him flat out and ask him whether or not he's feeling guilty and why he suddenly had a change of heart. Though it is his choice, he does kind of owe you an explanation. After thinking about it, maybe he's afraid to get you pregnant, which is why he wants to wait till you guys have at least graduated to take the risk again. Things DO happen and you could end up pregnant, I'm sure he's just thinking about both of your futures and doesn't want a pregnancy to ruin your future.

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I am 14, this question doesn't need advise, but i have a dream :D

please could you all check out my youtube channel :
http://www.youtube.com/user/SarahClose1

If you could check it out, and subscribe? you would be helping me out majorley :)

I'd like to gain as many subscribers as i can, and someday try for a record deal. I have a crazy plan of what i'd like to do over the next few years, if you could check out my channel and tell me what you think. You would really be helping me achieve that dream.
Thank you SO Much :) (L)

You're really good :) Keep working at it, you'll get a record deal one day.

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k well my boy friend has been very distant with me and it was really hurting me.i talked to him about it and it would only get us into arguements.
about 5days ago i just had enough and told him we should go on a break and the thing now is that hes disapeared.he wont answer my calls he wont txt me back hes blocked me on msn.he hasnt even told me its over..he just ran off without a word.this whole time i thought we were on a break to see what he wanted.
anyway its obvious he doesngt want me.its just that i feel like iv been used.itd be easier if he actually used his words and dumped me instead of disapearing without a sound.
i just wanted to see what you all thought and see if anyone had some tips on getting over him since iv been crying all night last night.i cant pain the pain go away.i know i need time and need to keep myself busy bla bla but i just need some other tips to stop feeling so hurt
thank youu for the time

I know how you feel. I guess he got what he wanted though without having to actually break up with you. I'm sure he was too much of a wuss to actually say the words to you.

Getting over exes takes time and a lot of tears, but you'll make it through. Hang out with your friends, trust me it'll make you feel better. Especially if you have a best friend who really cares about you. Go out to eat, movies, laser tag, go karts, anything fun :). Busy yourself, do things you've never done before. Try photography, jewelry making, anything. Go to a Michael's or some type of craft store and just buy things. You could buy paint brushes, paint, and a little jewelry box. It really does help. And honestly, if your ex did that to you, he's not even worth thinking about. Just remember that it takes time, you won't just be over it within a week. We all heal at our own pace.

Lastly, if the jerk tries to come back into your life weeks or months from now, DON'T let him back in. It never ends well as much as you miss him and how he made you feel; there are always other guys who can make you feel even better and who will treat you with respect. Guys are repetitive, if they do it once, they're doomed to repeat what they've done.

Good luck girl

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so my boyfriend and i were laying down and i was laying ontop of him, and we were making out and we both had jeans on.. i had underwear on too (so i was fully clothed and so was he) i think he cummed, and there was a wet spot on his pants, it was little i think. but the very next day, i had my period.. could i be AT ALL anyway pregnant????! (im not going to a doctor or getting a pregnancy test or the morning after pill.) im just kind of freaking out since im literally a really good girl. pregnancy can NOT be an option.
thank you in advance!!

I am 1000000000% sure there is NO chance you are pregnant. Sperm can't travel through clothing. As long as you had clothes on you're fine.

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I am in a long distance relationship, with this guy I really love, he is coming to see me soon, he wants to have sex, he is really big and I am a virgin :/ is it going to hurt alot? If so how do I prevent this?

The one KEY to being with a guy whose 'big' is to just relax when it's happening. Just let your body be loose and lay there. Don't be nervous because it's not something to be nervous about if you really care about him. Also tell him to use lube, it makes it easier for him to get 'in there' because your first time you may be way too nervous to be stimulated. I'm going to tell you honestly, the first couple seconds it's going to hurt a little and feel weird, but after a while it shouldn't be so bad, just remember to stay relaxed and not tense up. When you tense up, it makes it even harder for him to get inside, if at all. Also, put a towel underneath you in case he pops your hymen (or G-spot).

If this long-distance relationship started over the internet, PLEASE be careful and make sure you've at least seen him on web cam and know his actual age. I'm hoping you've already met him in person before he comes to visit you. As much as I don't want to seem like a mom and tell you things that you think you already know and don't want to hear, there are A LOT of weird people out there and you never really know. Just be sure.

If you have already met him, I'm sorry for jumping to conclusions. Just be safe.

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Hi. I'm 18 and my bf is 19 and we've been dating for 10 months. Here's the story... =\
So the other day I was at my bfs house and he was on his Myspace and I looked at it and saw that he was talking to this girl (which bugged me because they use to like eachother and they've kissed even ugh) and I said "what the heck?? Why are you talking to her??" and he was like "oh um because she got her drivers permit." so I say "oh really? Cool... Let me read the comments :)" and he deletes them ALL right after me saying that. So I'm like "uhhhh why did you delete the comments??" and he said "idk." and do I'm thinking awesome. Whatever. Ugh. Then today I started thinking about it again so just now I went on his Myspace and saw that she wrote a comment that said "everyone is good lol" so I'm like "HEY what he said would be on HER Myspace comments!!" so I go to check it out and SHE DELETED WHAT HE WROTE TO HER!!! ...except one comment from him that says "ok cool cool. So how is everyone." so, obviously they had a conversation before that that he was responding too.
What?!!

First off, if a guy goes and deletes comments he has written and then asks the girl he wrote them to to delete the ones he wrote her, there's something going on. This happened to me before; I was at my boyfriend's house and while I was asleep he was messaging this girl (who he then cheated on me with). When I got up all of a sudden he Xed out of the instant messaging screen and said "Oh that was someone I didn't want to talk to right now."

If I were you, get out now before he has the chance to really hurt you. Demand to know what was going on because that is very shady. As much as I want to say, "Oh it was probably nothing, don't worry" I really believe that the situation is shady and you deserve to know. If your boyfriend has feelings for another girl, I doubt you'd want to be with him anyway. Do what you believe is right, but do NOT let him off the hook. Sometimes with guys like that, he'll lie and say stuff but I can't really tell you what to and not to believe. I'm sorry if this seems mean-ish, I just hate guys who are pathological liars. There's no reason for him to even be IMing some other girl while you're over anyway.

Good luck girl

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Hey, so i used to love sims, but i lost the sims 2 disk. When they came out with a sims 3, i thought maybe i should get it, but its stil $50. Before i buy it, i wanna make sure its worth it. A lot of people said that its worth it...if you had the right specs. I just got a regular macbook in august, but i didnt like update it at all so i dont know if i have the right RAM or graphics card, and im not computer savvy so i wouldnt know what these 2 things do ahah. I wont waste my money getting a graphics card if im not a HUGE gamer. Now, in your opinion, is it worth it? and do i have the right stuff? thankss

Yep, you definitely have the right software, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Also, I really love the game, but sometimes if you play it too often you can get sick of it. But after reading other people's reviews, I'm going to start playing again :P. The graphics are great and there are a lot of new features so if I were you I'd purchase it.

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Guess what time it is? Yep time to name the baby!

I found out today that I am going to have a girl, and I need help coming up with a list of girl names that end in the letter "Y."

It is what I always wanted but now that the time is here the only one I can come up with that seems fitting is "Accidentally" LOL!

Thank you please?

Well there's:

Lacey
Kiley (my fave)
Halley
Hailey
Darcy
Chelsey
Abby
Kasey or Casey
Stacy
Zoey
Carly
Holly
Emily
Ashley
Maddy
Gabby
Libby
Sadey
Mary
Marcy
Bethany
Macy
Jenny

If you need any more options just mail me!

Hope I helped.

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ok so my mom has her girlfriend and we kind I don't get along because of the way she treats her kids... I mean she beats them for no aparent reason so I don't like that because my mother don't do that's to us so I don't think that's fair.. So my mom punched me in the face for not taking my medication so I wanted to make a couple calls. Then my mother & I talked the next night that led to straight bull... I mean she basically kicked me out to live with my dad in NY and I lived in MD... I have three little sisters 2 seven yr olds and a 12 year ok I been gone fie a week and I miss them soooooooo much...!! How can I get my mother back... I miss her and love he please help

Depending on what state you live in, child abuse is against the law. Your mother can be put in jail for what she did to you and I think you should tell the police. They'll dub her an unfit mother and your sisters would probably come live with you and your dad, but at least they'd be safe. Obviously your mother's girlfriend isn't a fit mother at ALL. No mother should hit their child, especially not for the dumbest reason that your mom hit you. Who hits their child for not taking their meds? If your dad knows exactly why you were sent to live with him, talk to him about it and see if he'll help. Good luck

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