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Lonely
Is it bad to feel lonely. I just lost a few of my freinds, (backstabbing) and i feel like everyone just gangs up on me and treats me like I'm absolutely nothing. I'm just depressed. I dont't know. What should I do?
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I know how you feel.
I moved to a new town in 2008
I dont have any friends and sometimes I feel lonely. Even though I have a husband who is always around.
You just have to get out there. ignore those who are treating you like crap and make friends they dont have to be the popular ones but someone you can talk to.
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:[ i know how you feel.
and yes, thats SO cliche to say, and you're probably like, "yeah right." but its true. i have been screwed over SO many times, and ive been backstabbed even more than that. my ENTIRE life people have let me down and gone behind my back and all that sort of stuff. i cant even tell you how many times ive felt absolutley alone.. ive lost friends and changed friends so many times and unfortunatley, that lead people to gang up on me and think things about me that arent true. people treat me like im absolutley nothing too, and ive been harassed.. ridiculed.. its not fair, and im sorry you have to go through this because i CAN relate; and its not bad to feel lonely. it really isnt. sometimes, its healthy for yourself to feel lonely because it gives you a sense of want.. you can FEEL things and you want to NOT be alone. realizing this is probably the best thing for you, because people who are always surrounded by friends and family and such usually dont experience how it feels to be lonely, therefore they wont know how to handle it.
you will.
and i have been depressed before too. but i never let it get bad. but if you're becoming really depressed, you need to go see a therapist or someone who can help you. and dont feel ashamed to ask for help and talk about your feelings with a total stranger, because its HEALTHY and will help :]
but i also think you should let it be. dont talk to those people.. just hold your head up high and never let anyone bring you down. youre better than them, dont let them get to you. write down how you feel.. maybe in a journal or in the form of poetry of some sort. draw, scream, sing, run, go for walks, listen to empowering music. but you have to look on the brightside.. these girls are going to end up being known as the "haters" and people will eventually see their true colors, karam is a beeyotch. but also.. stand up for yourself ! most people would say ignore it, but i say face it. thats how i am. im very confrontational, and i always feel better after ive stood up for myself. dont let people walk over you, but i still say you should let it go after time and then go talk to new people. make new friends.. it sounds hard, but its really easy :] and if one day those girls decide to apologize to you, then so be it. but until then, theyre not worth your time. you deserve more.. you deserve better.
good luck :] be yourself and never forget that you are SOMEONE. youre not nothing. dont let them make you think that youre less than awesome :] hope i helped, and if you need anyting else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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I've been there before, and it pretty much taught me that the friends I lost obviously weren't very good friends to begin with if they were treating me like that and talking about me behind my back. If anything, you should be glad to have them out of your life; who needs friends who constantly backstab them anyway? Focus on the friends you DO have left, and value them. As long as you have a couple good friends in life, that's all you really need. Quality > quantity; meaning it's better to have TRUE friends than just a bunch of friends. Also if it helps, try to keep yourself busy doing things for yourself and don't worry about the people you lost as friends; karma will get them eventually and I'm sure they won't end up with very many friends in the end.
Good luck <3
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No it's not bad to feel lonely it happens to some of us and is apart of life the friends that you lost weren't meant to be in your life if they were backstabbers you don't need people who are you going to hurt you and bring you down..try and think positively if you think negatively then the situation won't get better & you won't be making yourself feel better either you could try telling whoever gangs up on you how..you feel they won't know unless you tell them tell someone you trust how you feel it's not healthy to keep what your feeling to yourself it's better to get it out in the
open there are plenty of other people out there so i'm sure you'll make new different friendships(:
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