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Q: ok so this is like my 5th period and i've never had cramps really bad. today im having really bad cramps. whats the best thing to do, to stop the pain? its unbarable!
--->luvsu
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try relaxing or having a warm bath if its really bad all the time your doctor can always give you things to help
i hope you get on ok
kim
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Q: Hey, I know you hate love questions but this is extremely important to me so if you could help.. it would just be highly appreciated =] =]
So, I'm planning a get together with a few of my friends this Thursday. One of my girl friends and one of my guy friends. I also wanted to invite my crush, Calvin, who I've liked since September. We've went out one before(January), and I've liked him since September.He lives up the street from me and I want to invite him, but I'm very shy and I dont know if I should call him or just walk to his house on Thursday. Help please?
Thanks
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i think you should call him and ask him if he wants to come and if he can then youl have a good tme and youll feel better for it and if he says no so what? go and have a good time anyway
kim
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Q: okay.. im sorry if this is long. but i need help mucho bad.. and sooner than later.. so okay..me and my friend always fight.. and well me and him just got into a fight.. and it was because in the begining of the year me and my friend made a bet. it was about a dance.. and my friend said that i should go with him.. and i said no he wouldnt want to go with me. and i was like i bet you 200 dollars. and so yeah.. he found out about it. and well i guess he got mad.. and now he's like not talking to me.. and idk.. i really want to try and fix our friendship.. but im not sure if i can.. any ideas on what i should say.. and im gunna see him tommrow so it would help if the ideas where in sooner... but its okay if there not.. ill rate 5's for any serious answerss.. PLEASEEEE HELPP
thnxx!!
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appologise for making the bet and say you realise that it was a stupid thing to do and it would be nice if you could sill be friends and good friends forgive eachoher so it shoudl be ok
i hope you sort things out
kim
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Q: Does anyone know any tips for writing history essays? Like, anything that will help me get better marks?
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make sure you explain everything well and give evidence to support things and make sure you go into dtail when it is possible nad be accurate in what your saying
hope it helps
kim
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Q: im 13 and ive lived in the same small town all my life.i know everyone.i want something diffrent.i want to move.but then id be leaving my friends and ive asked my parents abput moving and they say there planted here,and why get rid of somthing good.i want to leave and see more things in my life.i feel lost and that im needed somewhere else. i dont know who i am and i think that if i move that ill find what im looking for but i dont know what im looking for.ive lived here and ive done my deeds now someone else needs me.carolyn my friend says that god needs me and if i dont fallow my heart then i wont ecomplish on earth what god put me here for.i dont really know what im feeling and how do i stop it
katie plzzzzzzzzz help me
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i know it might seem hard but maybe it would be better to visit other places when you have holidays but a lot of people dnt like the area where they live. but it will be better to just stay where you are and thne you will appreciate it more when you finaly can get away
hope your ok
kim xx good luk
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Q: ok I wanna know do I go for older guys all the time for a reason? Like do I do it b/c I think it's kool? Or do I have a problem? Also I tend to fall for guys hard.Like when I have a crush on them I always seem to really show it. & idk what to do about any of it. :/
Age:17
F
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a lot of girls like older guys and itsmainly bcos they r more mature and its nothing to worry about. if you fall for someone hard try to think less about them or do something about it to stop it from being all you think about
hope i helped
kim
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Q: is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13?
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its not wrong you just have to be sure that youre ready and its with the right guy. so you dont regret it later
hope i helped
kim
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Q: i have not had my period in 4 weeks and 6 days is that bad?
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wait a week and then if its not come then go get a pregnancy che just to make sure
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Q: so i recently started going out with this guy. and we go to 2 diffent skools so we see each other on the weekens. we started going out on the 26th of march btw.
so he came to my skool with me on monday to meet all my friends and for fun and stuff, and cuz he doesn't have skool.
so i have this really pretty friend and i thought they were flirting and she is alot prettier than me, seriously she is almost a model and shit.
and i think she likes him and i think he likes her back. and i really like him and i don't want her to steal him from me. or for him to like her while we are going out, cause that is weird. it would be like everything is fake and stuff. so i don't know what to do.
his friend said he wouldn't cheat or go for another girl, but i am not worryed about that. i am worryed about them liking each other.
what should i do?
i don't wanna scare him off or somehthing, maybe i am wrong? but i am pretty sure there was flirting and i am really sad. i cryed for ever and every song i heard made me sad. i feel like a baby. :(
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Hia, look if your friend is flirting with your bf then she cant really be a gr8 friends can she? id make sure you were certain that they liked eacother before you do anything. but if your going out with him hes yours and your friend should know that. if his friend has told you that wouldnt cheat then mae you should give your guy some credit
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Q: hi i'm 13 years old, almost 14..and i've never been kissed before in my life. not on the cheeks or lips or ANYWHERE! and i've never even had a boyfriend in my life either. but i want one SO badly! i dont care if my first kiss isnt "real" or whatever..i just want puppy love! i dont care! i just want it to happen..i dream about it so much everynight. and i feel like such a loser because it feels as if every other 13-14 year old girl in the world has been kissed except me. even some of my more unattractive friends have...idk. i dont think i'm hideous or fat or mean or any of hte above...but i dont know ..something about me must turn guys off..just please help idk what to do. and if i'm ever going to get my first kiss soon
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dont wory its totally normal most of my friends are like that im only 14 and a lot of the people i know havent. know it seems like that youre the odd one out but to honest everyone goes thru things at different times. just kissing any guy wont make you feel better italways makes it beter to wait and then it would be ten times as special
kim
hope i helped :)
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Q: I like this boy named Luis(as you might know) But I want to know if he likes me. I afraid to ask him to go out with me and stuff so I was wonder if he was ever going to ask me. He is shy around girls and Ishy around some boys. him one of them. He flirts with me and i flirt back. and when the teachers make us sit by each other we'll lean on each other but I'm not sure if that's Liking someone or not. Do you think he likes me?
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its hard to know if sum1 likes yo without them telling you even though it might seem like the worst thing to do just ask him out the worst he can do is say no and then you wont always be thinking what if....?
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Q: I Need alot of help right now with this guy but i would rather not post it. Anyone on here that owuldnt Mine Helping me Thru Instant Message? I would really appreciate it.
17f
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you can tlk 2 me
email kim_vause_05@hotmail.co.uk
im on a lot of the time but if im not jus leave me a message and ill get back to you
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Q: ok so i am 13/f and i know girls can be nasty..
i am on a sports team for school and the first day was today.. its a 7th and 8th grade team and there are 3 other 7th graders that are on it that i am close friends with.. butttt there are about 15 8th graders. half of them are wicked nice and i've known them for a whille. but the other half seem to have a problem with me and my friends. truthfully we never did anything to them! i dont even know most of them and have never talked to them! last year they were jealos of our boyfriends, but im single right now anyways. they talk crap about us during practice and they get my bestfriends ex to call us names. i wanna make it through the seasons w/o any cat fights.
thanks ill rate high*xo
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in this case i think it is best just to tell them face to face that you dont like the way they are acting and that you want to get along and have a good time dont just ignore it or they will just think they can get away with it and do it more often
i hope you work it out
kim
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Q: okay...i started talking to this one guy. he's really cute and nice. i have always thought that he was hott. so i started talking to him and i told my friend that i was starting to like him. so now she started talking to him and she likes him too. she's prettier than me and always gets the guy she wants. she did this last time i liked a guy too. she started talking to him and then he kind of started ignoring me and only paying attention to her. then in school today she told the guy's friend that i liked him. which i dont think is right cause the the friend will tell him and i dont want him to think that im weird cause i just started talking to him like 4 days ago. plus i dont know if the guy still likes his ex girlfriend cause she is always around him. well my friend flirts with him online even though she knows i like him. she goes from guy to guy to guy. and one time even a girl. what should i do about her? i already told her that i really like this kid and that i am mad that she is trying to take him. plus she is probably gonna go out with another kid soon? what should i do about her? and what do i say when the guy i like askes me about what his friend will tell him?
PLEASE I NEED HELP.ILL RATE 5'S
K THANKS IN ADVANCE
LOVE YOU.
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If she goes from guy to guy all the time maybe shes not as confiden as she shows. it happends a lot so the best thing to do is to ask im out..... the worst he could do is say no right? if she goes from guy to guy a lot then it doesnt sound liked she will be stuck on him for a long time and it will pass but if she keeps on doing it tell her it upsets you and maybe you can sort it out
good luk
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Q: Well theres this guy....
I'm sure most of you are tired of seeing that, my apologies.
Anyway, I've known him for almost two years now and hes one of those guys who teases me all the time, in a friendly way and I'm starting to fall for him.
It's just that when I'm not around him I want him more but when I'm actually near him I dont want anything to do with him.
Does anyone have an explanation as to why I feel this way? I don't even know if I like him or not.
Thank you very much. =)
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its hard to know how to act around someone when youre not sue if you like them but im sure lyk evryone falls for the guy they least expect which never helps all i can say is just do what you think is right and youl know if you do like him after a while. if youre sure you like him let him know then maybe you will find out wether or not you want to be around him or not
good luk
kim
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Q: Things have been really not too good lately. I'm 15, female and I know this is the time when everybody changes. But OK I have 2 BFFs - like, I have other best/close friends but these 2 are like my best best friends if that makes sense - well anyway, I am not too fond of change and seems like everything is changing. Last week was our spring break, these 2 girls and I usually would have done everything together, but we didn't hang out that much by ourselves, only in bigger groups and only sometimes. We don't feel like BFFs anymore. And another thing, one of them is switching schools next year to go to a private school, so IDK. Can someone just help me, explain to me whats going on? The one girl, Michelle, was kinda being mean to me and they don't seem to tell me stuff anymore. Should I just forget about them and hang with other friends? But they're my BEST friends and I will miss that. Also, not Michelle but the other one, her dad was just diagnosed with cancer so maybe thats making her act weird and I want to be there for her but Michelle has no excuse. I'll rate 5s for anything that helps, sorry if its long and confusing! But tomorrow in Italian we're supposed to pick partners for this big project and Michelle's in my class so I don't know how that will go .. so just help me please! Oh, and I haven't talked to them about it and I don't think we could really TALK about it. But, anyway, Thanks!
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its hard to think now that one day you might not be best friends. it might seem stupid telling them so maybe just arrange to do more things wif them so you dont feel like your becoming seprate people. but its always a good thing to have a lot of friends so if some arnt there you will hav someone there for you. maybe your friends fell the same way to? why not invte them over and just talk about things you cant stop change so dont try to just think of i as a way to make more friends
i hope you stay friends
kim
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Q: ok so i REALLY love my boyfriend..but lately since i told him that his best friend rapped me..he started getting...controlling and like now whenever i say somthing hell scream and say BITCH SHUT UP...then hell say "oh im sorry baby" and everything is fine but he hit me a couple of times..i told my best friend and she told me to break up with him..but i LOVEE him! and..if i i do decide to break up with him..im scared hell like..kill me or somthingg!
plz help me.i dont know where else im going to get help!
~lila
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if hes treating you like that then even though it might be hard you have to realise that its not right and no1 should ever be treated like that tell him you feel hurt and then if it continues tell someone else and break up.
good luk
km
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bio
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hi im kim im 14 and i live in leeds and im friends wif anyone reali :P im tall (ish) ive got blinde hair n green eyes n i fink i just know everything bout ever1 of ma m8s which cn b gd or not ya neva know but im here to help so... cya kim x
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Gender: Female Location: leeds Age: 14 AIM: MSN: kim_vause_05@hotmail.co.uk Member Since: April 10, 2006 Answers: 37 Last Update: May 14, 2006 Visitors: 2259
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