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kissing
hi i'm 13 years old, almost 14..and i've never been kissed before in my life. not on the cheeks or lips or ANYWHERE! and i've never even had a boyfriend in my life either. but i want one SO badly! i dont care if my first kiss isnt "real" or whatever..i just want puppy love! i dont care! i just want it to happen..i dream about it so much everynight. and i feel like such a loser because it feels as if every other 13-14 year old girl in the world has been kissed except me. even some of my more unattractive friends have...idk. i dont think i'm hideous or fat or mean or any of hte above...but i dont know ..something about me must turn guys off..just please help idk what to do. and if i'm ever going to get my first kiss soon
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Well, I won't bore you with the usual 'your time will come' speech. Fact is, I'm a sophomore in high school and I've never been kissed either. =/ I'm like you, I wish it would hurry up and happen, at least so I can judge for myself if I like it, you know? And NO, you're not a turn-off, but maybe you aren't putting out any good vibes. Heck, I oughta go try some of this. I wish you well!
And PS: You are not alone, even though it feels like it. There are adults who have never been kissed.
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dont wory its totally normal most of my friends are like that im only 14 and a lot of the people i know havent. know it seems like that youre the odd one out but to honest everyone goes thru things at different times. just kissing any guy wont make you feel better italways makes it beter to wait and then it would be ten times as special
kim
hope i helped :)
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first of all, dont worry about it! i mean if you think about it, if you want to kiss someone so badly and you just kiss the first person thats willing to, it wont really matter that it was your "first kiss" because it wasnt special. most girls your age havent kissed anyone either, so your not left out. and guys your age are still going through that stage where they want to kiss girls, but are still shy. just give it time, i promise it will happen!
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Hey, I know how you feel. I'm 13 and I'm like you. I've been asked to go out many times, but I've always rejected them because It's never the one boy I want. Just play like spin the bottle and most guys wouldn't know you want to kiss them so you just kinda have to be out there. You'll have your first kiss soon enough that's what most of my older friends tell me. Wait it'll happen
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I had my first kiss when I was 15... you're not that late, and the more you worry about and obsess over it, the less likely guys will be to want to kiss you :P
Just relax, what happens happens, you're not going to die anytime soon...
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Don't worry about it, I was in the same situation. Throw a party, or go to a party where they're playing spin the bottle and put yourself out there. Bring it up when your with your friends and just go with the flow. Usually its not that guys find anything thats a turn off, they just dont know that you want to kiss, hooked up, etc. Show them that side of you :]
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It's definately ok. I haven't been kissed either, and I'm 13. It's no big deal though.
Seriously, people our age shouldn't be dating either. I had one boyfriend, and it's not like we were serious. We NEVER kissed, we hugged once, but we were always on the phone / IM.
Don't worry about it yet.
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You really don't care? Then it's very simple. Just start asking guys out. Yes, some will say no. Find one you like and ask him out. You may need to make the first move. And believe me many people who are 13 or 14 haven't been kissed.
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Don't worry at all i never got my first kiss until i was 16 i think thats because i never thought about it. When i was 16 i flirted with this guy i liked and i sent him an email to fill in about me and he did and we ended up going out. So i suggest if you like anyone in school send them that questionaire and flirt with them, sometimes boys are affraid of pretty girls because they think they will get rejected or something.You don't want to kiss just anyone it should be someone you like. Flirt with someone in school, and im sure you will have your first kiss soon don't worry i was in the same positon but it soon comes. Hope you get your first kiss soon lv sweetcorn x
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you should become more out there talking to guy you like, JUST soclizing( i know my spelling is horrable) i know it's hard to not be shy ( i'm not saying you are, i'm) but some times i would be easyer to sit near them at lunch and just enter there conversation at the right time. or they will get mad and tell you to mind your own buissness.
ps for long therm rlations go with more sensable ones, and if it make you feel any better i haven't ether
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I think you should start finding a guy you are interested in. Start talking to him alott. Become friends, and stuff. Find eachothers interests, hangout, all that stuff. Maybe you'll like him and want to continue the friendship to a higher level. If that happens & you are "boyfriend & girlfriend" if things are going well, I bet you'll kiss. I hopee this helped.<3
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