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im 13 and ive lived in the same small town all my life.i know everyone.i want something diffrent.i want to move.but then id be leaving my friends and ive asked my parents abput moving and they say there planted here,and why get rid of somthing good.i want to leave and see more things in my life.i feel lost and that im needed somewhere else. i dont know who i am and i think that if i move that ill find what im looking for but i dont know what im looking for.ive lived here and ive done my deeds now someone else needs me.carolyn my friend says that god needs me and if i dont fallow my heart then i wont ecomplish on earth what god put me here for.i dont really know what im feeling and how do i stop it
katie plzzzzzzzzz help me
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The unsettled feeling such as you describe usually starts a little older, but if you are mature for your age then you could be feeling it now. You are growing up and emotionally moving apart from your parents. Moving won't help you find contentment, because it starts inside you, in your heart, where ever you are. It's not something that you can find by traveling to a new place. My suggestion is to find ways to help people, when we help others we also help ourselves. I think you might be bored with things at home. Volunteer at a church nursery, nursing home, day care or help younger neighbor kids with their homework. When you graduate from HS plan to attend college in another state..that way you will get to see new things, but for now you can create contentment at home.
Good luck and let us know how it's going!
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i know it might seem hard but maybe it would be better to visit other places when you have holidays but a lot of people dnt like the area where they live. but it will be better to just stay where you are and thne you will appreciate it more when you finaly can get away
hope your ok
kim xx good luk
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Summer is coming soon. You could approach your parents about going away to a camp, even if it's just for a week. It may not be exactly what you're looking for but it will give you a chance to get out of town and see a little more of the world. It might help with the restless feelings you've been experiencing.
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I have a few friends who grew up in small towns, so I know how you feel. Just wait a while, tough out the next 4-5 years, and go to school somewhere else. It will let you keep your roots in your town, but you can still expand your horizons. I know it sounds hard, but you have your whole life ahead of you to explore!
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