Diagnosed with residual schizophrenia, I looked back onto my life and saw the pain and misery I went through. I force myself on this site in order to vent out that pain, through helping others.
Gender: Male
Location: West Berlin, Germany
Occupation: Currently layed off
Age: 19
Member Since: February 15, 2010
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I want to make a special dinner for my husband and surprise him with a night he will remember. I have everything I need except acoustic love songs for him! I mean I know what I like, but what love songs of the acoustic variety would HE like. He always does everything for me. So I know that if he has selected songs before they were just for me.
Help?
As many ideas as possible? I will rate everyone. (link)
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In loving Memory by Black Sabbath
If you listen to Black Sabbath enough, and actually get to memorize the acoustic parts in their song, usually at the end or in the beginning, they sound really romantic. The rest of most of their songs are usually blues and stuff that romantics don't like. unless the song is Rock and Roll Angel.
More songs:
No Stranger to Love from the Album Seventh Star (This is a hard to get album. You can hardly find it anywhere online.)
Guns and Roses (I personally don't like them, but friends have told me that they have some acoustic romance.)
Bon Jovi (Again, you'd have to listen to them.)
I don't really show love through music, so good luck.
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Okay I am 17 and I got a speeding ticket about a week ago in a rental car I wasn't registered to use. On the ticket it does say I was unlawfully driving it but it says my offense is speeding. Will I be fined for using the rental car? And can I just send in the payment or do I have to call the court house first. (link)
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You should make another case with this. You need a good lawyer, and you might be able to sue the court back. Although unwise to sue against the District Court, you can sue them for giving you the wrong ticket. You could only sue them however, if the cost of unlawful driving is a hundred or so higher than a ticket for driving in a car that's unregistered to you.
Back to your questions, how did you get caught? Were the authorities conducting random checks? Or did they pull you for speeding (and you just left that out)? If they pulled you for speeding, and forgot about the unregistered car, keep it that way. You can get your license suspended if you had a record. Otherwise, you may be fined for both speeding and the rental car.
I don't understand why you are asking us if you can send in the payment. Usually, on the ticket, if you can take the time to actually read it, it will tell you the terms depending on your state.
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I sprained my wrist playing softball and it is swollen and VERY painful. How long does a sprained wrist take to heal usually? I am a girl and this is my first sport so I guess I am new to the whole sports injuries thing. I feel like such a jock! XD (link)
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Depends on your diet, and how fast your body can heal itself. It may take as little as one week to 4 weeks. My best bet (since this is your first sport) is that you should heal in around 2 weeks. Just eat a lot of protein (if you sprained the muscles in your wrist) and drink lots of milk (to restore and strengthen the bone area, to prevent further damage).
Then again, I'm not a physical doctor kind of guy, I'm more of a...dream doctor. A gypsy. But glad to help in the knowledge I have.
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i had a dream last night and i only remember a little bit of it, it bothered me. ca anyone tell me what it means? 17/f
i was dropped off at my house by my bus with my brother and sister. we were walking up to my doorstep when in our driveway, we passed a green car that didnt look very nice, and in the passenger seat there was a lady with a little gray dog, she had on a fur hat and stuck her nose up at us as we passed. i got a weird feeling, like i was scared and i speed walked to my doorstep where my sister was slowly opening our door. my brother was also infront of me and i was telling my siser to hurry up and open the door, i looked behind me and the lady and a man were running towards us.. finally my sister opened the door, and i made sure her and my rother were inside before i shut and locked the door qucikly. my brother and sister went upstairs and i crouched down by the door and the lady was looking through the little window on my door rubbing the glass, and trying to see inside, so i laid flat on m stomach and crawled into the kitchen where i got up and saw my sister, i told her i was scared and i was going to call the police and she was like, okay. so i tried calling th epolice but i would dial 988 or 998 0r 991, and then finally i dialed 911. the ohone rang and finally the line collected, i told them my full name and whee i lived and what ewas going on, and that there was a woman and man lookinginto m house and screaming at me through the door.. when i finished telling my story, i started crying and a man on the other line said, WHAT? and i hung up, then i dialed 911 again and a lady picked up and asked me what ws wrong and i told her my story...
then i think i woke up, because i dont remember anything else. does anybody have some ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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Basically, you want to escape from fear, in your dreams. All it means in real life is that you are insecure about yourself, and that:
1. A part of you is dead or is going to die.
Or
2.You have been through a harsh time in your life, like losing someone close to you.
Since you can remember the color green, which I am assuming is the most prominent color in your dream, I'll tell you what it means. Green can mean a variety of things, from life, to pea plants. In your dream, a snobbish woman is portrayed in a green car. This means that you view a person or several persons to be jealous of something you have, or you could be jealous of them.
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hey, i did HORRIBLE my freshman year...
okay my sophomore year...
good my junior year....
and GREAT my senior year and i did okay on my SATS.
i want to become an actress but what colleges do you recomend and do you think i will get into college?
my GPA was a 2.25 freshman year.. which i think will ruin my chances. i am also a cheerleader and i love penn state and the university of notre dame (link)
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Education doesn't play a big part in the acting business. Acting, in the sense of movies that is. If you're interested in Drama however (plays, musicals, etc.), then colleges and universities I recommend are found at this site. http://www.a2zcolleges.com/arts/Drama/ny.html
I remember that I researched this and found some good ones, but I lost that paper, so yeah. Good luck browsing.
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So, I am fifteen, female. I live in the smallest town of Pennsylvania. This place has nothing to do, literally, no bowling alleys, no skate parks or roller rinks, nothing at all. Seeming as I can not drive yet, I am alllllllllllways bored. I can't take it anymore. Seeing the people on the Olympics and how dedicated and passionate they are for what they do is making me want to get out there and do things. So basically, all I want to know are things I can go do outside that can keep me occupied for long periods of time, I can't go anywhere because, again, I don't drive. I just want to be able to go out and say "I am so passionate about __" but I don't know what that is yet. So just name some things I can do outside that I can do for a while. Thanks a bunch! (link)
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You're fifteen? Sounds old enough to go clubbing on teen night. Provided that there is a dance club in your area.
The most obvious thing is sitting right in front of you. INTERNET. There are many online gaming sites, like gaia.com and so on. You can also try Social Networking like Facebook and Myspace. Seeing as your 15, you should have no problem during the age check.
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18/female.
You should know that when I like I guy .. I distant myself and won't talk to him unless he texts/calls me first .. yeah I know doesn't get me far at ALL .. but I can't break it.
So.. there is this guy i've liked for so long .. we flirt all the time but don't get to see each other that often since we're both busy. We don't go to the same school either .. he's actually a yr younger than me. I haven't talked to him in like three weeks :(
ANYWAYS - my problem is that I had borrowed something to him about a month ago and had never gotten it back. I actually forgot he had it until now. I feel bad just texting him saying "do you think I could have it back?" To me, that just sounds kind of like a bitchy move .. but maybe its just me because I think everything sounds dumb when I'm talking to a guy I like. I remember telling him a few weeks ago he could have it for another week .. but then I needed it back and he was like haha okay .. but then I forgot about it and obviously he hasn't said anything. We never text each other just saying like "hey" so that would be strange for me to do .. and then ease my way into asking for it back.
I don't know what to do .. how can I ask for my stuff back without me seeming like a retard. I could say something like I forgot you had it .. but then what .. but now I remembered and it'd be nice to have it back??
I look into things way too much .. but could someone please help me on what to just text him saying ... because then after I ask him it'd be nice to talk to a little bit .. so I don't really just want to be like do you think you could give it back to me? Because he'd probably just be like "yeah" (link)
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A bitchy move would be:
"You know, you're really acting selfish and stupid since we broke up..."
A smart move would be:
"Hey, let's get together. And could you bring me back that ____? {insert more conversation here}"
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Is this all just a dirty prank, or is it related to supernatural activities, or just mere coincidence?
The reason why I think that I might be haunted is because a few years ago before my adopted mother's father died, someone called through the phone and said "I'm going to kill you" and it was during the time when her father and I weren't getting along well and I said "I wish you were dead" but I didnt say anything about killing him. && My adopted mother thought that it was me that called and threatened him. The phone call was actually a few months before he died, but I didn't find out until a month later after he died and she thinks that I did it.
Yesterday my mom found my flash drive and apparently there were pornographic pictures in it, but she told me that she deleted quite a number of them and now she thinks that i'm a porn-a-holic, which I'm really not. I have no idea as to how those kinds of photos got into my drive, but I do leave my stuff unguarded sometimes and I don't usually take it out of the house unless its for school. Whenever I DO take it out of the house, I keep up with it because it has my school work in it and I don't want it lost. When I do lose it, it's usually when it's in my house.
Could softwares like Lime-wire download that into a removable drive? I specifically remember what I put on that drive, and it was for sure not porno. (link)
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Ghosts, or the souls or remnants of a deceased person that still remains, are the same way they are when they died. They do not understand why they have died. They have feelings, like a person does. A ghost cannot haunt a person, they are attached to the location or object that was involved in their death. Unless you killed someone, or was involved in a killing, (whether you could have prevented a death, but didn't, etc.)
Yes, you can get a virus onto a flash drive. And it is also possible that it could download images onto it, if it had access to internet. Very rare, but possible.
These two events are very separate, ghosts are different from viruses. But the phone call, of when the person says, " I'm going to kill you," May be a prank. I remember many prank calls that I did when I was young. If you feel unsure, you can trace that phone call back, through your phone company. If it's a prank, you are legible to sue for public disturbances, although it has been over a few months, I don't think it would matter.
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How do you get your rating up? It seems like no one rates people anymore! (link)
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Ratings don't really matter anymore, as the majority of internet users are getting younger and younger, and love to spam these types of things. The only way to raise your ratings, is to keep on giving advice. And good ones to.
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I'm a dude, My voice is fairly deep but depending on the day I can still hit higher octaves. I'm not sure why it varies but I can't always sing the higher notes. Any tips/thoughts/suggestions for increasing my vocal range?
Thanks (link)
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Every person has two pairs of vocal cords. The second pair, when mastered can be used to sing/talk most octaves and pitches. The second pair, can also sound monstrous, and deep in some people, like the monks in that one country I've read about. You can't "increase" your vocal range, it usually depends if you can master your second vocal cords. Your first one grows then stops growing as a result of puberty. How old are you? If you're young, this is normal. Also, a tip to sing higher, is always helium. But that can kill you when you use too much.
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Ok, so in my sleep I moan really sexually, really loudly and I toss and turn a lot and I don't sleep consistently...
Like, I'll get a few hours(if that) at a time, then I wake up abruptly then can't get back to sleep for hours...
Is there anything I can do or take to fix this because it's really giving me the shits and it freaking my boyfriend out a little.
xxx (link)
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If in your dreams, if you can remember them, you are thinking about sex, then in real life it means that either you aren't getting enough excitement or thrill in your life, or that you might want it at the moment. If you can bear the moaning for a couple of more days, then you can try to sleep more. Or if you're really desperate, pop a pill and an extra, (just not enough to kill you, but to knock you out. a 1/2 more is usually enough) or visit a doctor to conduct sleep studies.
Source- Dream Reader.
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My boyfreind's 21st birthday is in a little less than a month, and im trying to find some really good ideas to do for it. We have been together for about three months so i don't want it to be totally over the top, but i do want it to be something really good. He'll be 21, but i'm only 19 so I won't be able to go out with him for his birthday, so i'm looking for other things to do (link)
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Hm...19...and 21. Not much you can really do, besides the simple things, such as movies, dinners, hotels. If you're willing to break laws, I would suggest you buy some Bacardi Rum, and check out their site on how to mix. Otherwise, not much.
Since you can't "go out" with him for his birthday, you can buy things, and wrap them in a nice and creative gift basket.
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I am fourteen, and my best friend has been really mean to me, she punches me in the stomach, pressure points me, squeezes my arm, and it's her way to take out her anger!! The other day she broke into my other best friends locker and tried to steal her gum! I don't want to rat her out, but I need to get her controlled!!
She rammed her violin into me because I didn't give her the answers to our math test! I told her she needs to figure it out, it's your test. Was i right about doing that? Should I remain friends with her? What do I tell her? How do I tell her? Please help me!! (link)
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And this is your best friend? There are three approaches to a problem like this.
1. The aggressive and easy way (my personal favorite). If you have a stronger body physique, and she hurts you, you can always hit her back. Prove your dominance over the girl, who obviously has no respect for you. It's not recommended, but she has some issues.
2. The nice, but hard way. Report it to someone you could trust, (but also has authority). Also, confront her nicely about the way she treats you. You shouldn't remain friends with her, because despite what everyone says, people do not change. They usually just undergo a cycle, in which there is a "Break" period, and then usually return to the "attack" period.
3. Neutral- Don't do anything. Ignore everything, and it will be all right the next day. This will never happen. Not in a lifetime.
My best bet is to go with #2, as it's the most "morally-correct" way. I'm still strong for number one though.
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So on my campus I recently have just started cooking in the campu kitchen, when I cooked my first meal a guy that lives there asked what I has cooked nad then came back out and asked for some. The next friday I came in with the groceries and he asked what I was cooking that night and I told him and he asked would I give him some. I know that there are speculations of him using me for a good meal but no, it is not like he has never talked to me before I am justa person that is very reservedsome "avoidnace personality disorder" symptoms so I know I am not the most lively and approachable person. I feel as though he wants to come into the kitchen and talk to me but it may be a little awkward because everytime I cook my gay male friend is in the kitchen with me so it is alittle hard to hit on some one like that. Do you think that he is into me alittle bit or is it just all about the meal in your opinion? (link)
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Depends. If he likes you, then how do you feel about him? Are you also attracted to him? Are you also gay? Are you and your friend both close to each other, and by close, i mean in a relationship? The outcome depends on you, unless of course you're willing to be more specific.
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and he asked me out.
this is very very strange, but i liked him. but once a person asks me out i all of a sudden stop.
and think there creeperish and all this crap.
ugh, i dont want to be like this. can someone please tell me whats wrong with me and how to fix that?
thanks. (link)
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Typical teen behavior. They haven't ever been in a real relationship, and think they know all there is about sex and drugs. They think that any sentence in which a person "watches" another person is a stalker.
Ok, what you say is that you LIKED him. Well, do you still like him now? Or was it just puppy love? And also, if he asked you out, what did you say? I mean, if you said nothing, then he would get the message that you don't like him.
Anyways, what you can do is to just remember this:
"You are still young. You haven't found all there is to life yet. Just date, and have fun."
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Okay first of all, I live in Australia.
I don't have regular visits to the dentist and i brush my teeth about once a day(im too busy to do it more) but sometimes i dont brush, and i don't floss either. And i know what your going to say: "Well what did you expect". I just need help.
I woke up this morning and my mouth was full of blood, and i had a small blood clot. I brushed my teeth, then washed my mouth out with salt + warm water then i washed my mouth out with mouth wash, and the bleeding has stopped, for now. Theres still a small red thing where it was bleeding from and if i press on it, it will start bleeding again, so i won't do that.
Can anyone tell me how to get rid of it? I don't know if its gingivitis either because my mouth doesn't hurt and i don't have swelling at the moment but it most likely is gingivitis. Dentists cost ALOT and i dont have any dental insurance or whatever, all i have is a medicare card(i dont know if america has it so i dont know if you know what medicare card is) and I don't think my bulk billing doctor can help because he aint a dentist.
Can anyone helpp? The dentist isn't an option because i have no money, especially ranging from hundreds of $$. (link)
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If you are really that economically disadvantaged, then you can attempt to cure said gingivitis with lemon juice. Fresh lemon/lime juice is recommended. To prevent gingivitis, consume the right amount of gingivitis.
In the case if it gets worse, and is not gingivitis, visit a doctor, or dentist immediately. This may be severe fever blister (unlikely, you would have many of those spot in/around your mouth) or etc.
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what is the best/fastest/smartest way to loose 5-10 pounds?
and not gain it back.
what is the best diet?
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The best and fastest way, is to just eat the recommended foods. The pyramid, when used correctly, can help you lose as much weight as you want (but not enough to make you anorexic). That, combined with exercise, is the best and smartest way to do it.
The best diet, is to just eat and follow the Daily Value guide, found at mypyramidtracker.gov. A car that drives 5 miles per gallon, will drive you five miles, regardless if you have 1 gallon of gas, or twenty. Don't overeat the amount of vitamins/nutrients/etc.
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Hello, I am 16, and i am so sick of my life i really am. So far i ahve llost alot of my close friends,well what i thought was my best friends. They all left because well im not sure really.But have you ever just wanted to give up? yeh thats what i want to do really.give up. not sure what to do anymore. this life that everyone is talkinga about,this great life,is nothing but a lie. (link)
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Yes. Life is a lie. We are born from nothing, and die as nothing. But what you are experiencing is either depression or depression-like disorders, or dramatic teen angst.
You have no self-confidence, your pride has been shattered from the abandonment of your friends, and the truth has hit you hard. Most people will never realize, that we live to die. You are one of the few can see that life is a "lie." But that doesn't mean that you should mope around like that. You shouldn't go around "depressing" up other people's air. What you can do is, pretend to be happy. Pretend you actually care about life. It will satisfy the greed of the ignorant people of the world. If you are truly depressed, welcome to the club. I have residual schizophrenia. I'm a walking emotional freak. There are many people who think like you, and proven to be wrong. All you have to do, is find at least one reason to live. Whether it be good or bad ( I need to do the laundry, etc.) and just do it.
If you're problem is not mentioned, and is about a relationship, you should just calm down, and sleep. Teen angst can be solved by sleep.
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Right, my fiance split up with me... his friends said that i cheated on him with one of his other best mates, which i didn't... i wouldn't cheat on him... but he wont let me talk to him at all, i just really need to speak to him and talk things out with him... how do you think i should go about it... i want to prove to him that i wouldn't cheat and that i love him more than anything... something amazing i can do, which will show him this... Help Please?
and i'm 16... so keep that in mind when you answer it. Thanks x (link)
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16....and you have a fiance? Chances are, he is the type of person who accuses you of cheating on him, because he is cheating on you. People blame other people, as a way to relieve their stress.
You should relax, if you really love each other, then these things wouldn't happen in such a way. {Romantic} Relationships are not only just loving each other, it's also solving conflicts in a way that does not hurt the other partner.
Also, you are only 16. Don't freak out. You're still young, and have lots of years to live, so just date for fun. At that age, you may feel that it is "true love" but in a couple of years, you'll regret it. Unless of course, it really is true love.
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i have ben haveing black brown discharge for nearly a week and it smells very bad. im 16 and a virgin. i looked online and it says its for pregnant people, im not pregnant. i have no pattern in periods, never have. but im also highly anemic if that could have anything to do with it? i dont want to go to a gyno so what could be wrong? (link)
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The way you describe it sounds like blood. Blood that has been "stuck" inside of you, and had a delayed discharged. Of course, I'm no doctor, (still studying med school) but you can either follow me (not recommended) or talk about it to your mom/ someone who you can trust. (Preferably a female, but it's up to you.
and when you say you have no patterns in periods, you're wrong. As teenage girls get older, their menstrual cycle starts to develop a pattern. Puberty happens at different times for different people.
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