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theres this kid.
and he asked me out.
this is very very strange, but i liked him. but once a person asks me out i all of a sudden stop.
and think there creeperish and all this crap.
ugh, i dont want to be like this. can someone please tell me whats wrong with me and how to fix that?
thanks.
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Typical teen behavior. They haven't ever been in a real relationship, and think they know all there is about sex and drugs. They think that any sentence in which a person "watches" another person is a stalker.
Ok, what you say is that you LIKED him. Well, do you still like him now? Or was it just puppy love? And also, if he asked you out, what did you say? I mean, if you said nothing, then he would get the message that you don't like him.
Anyways, what you can do is to just remember this:
"You are still young. You haven't found all there is to life yet. Just date, and have fun."
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It seems like you're one of those people who's all about the idea of a relationship but back out when actually faced with one. If you want to get out of this cycle, try to keep negative thoughts about the other person out of your mind, unless there are actual things that you cannot stand about that person. Try working on the relationship and enjoying what made you like the person in the first place. Relationships are a delicate balance sometimes, but part of it is just looking within yourself to not be judgmental and embracing parts of the other person you might not like. So I encourage you to try and make a relationship work because backing out of relationship after relationship will only continue this cycle of lack of commitment. I hope this helps.
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You have the simple case of, you want what you can't have. Now that he does like you, you can have him so you don't want him. You should still say yes, you never know maybe you will start to like him again if you date.
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