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Ex Fiance who doesn't believe you wouldn't cheat....
Right, my fiance split up with me... his friends said that i cheated on him with one of his other best mates, which i didn't... i wouldn't cheat on him... but he wont let me talk to him at all, i just really need to speak to him and talk things out with him... how do you think i should go about it... i want to prove to him that i wouldn't cheat and that i love him more than anything... something amazing i can do, which will show him this... Help Please?
and i'm 16... so keep that in mind when you answer it. Thanks x
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16....and you have a fiance? Chances are, he is the type of person who accuses you of cheating on him, because he is cheating on you. People blame other people, as a way to relieve their stress.
You should relax, if you really love each other, then these things wouldn't happen in such a way. {Romantic} Relationships are not only just loving each other, it's also solving conflicts in a way that does not hurt the other partner.
Also, you are only 16. Don't freak out. You're still young, and have lots of years to live, so just date for fun. At that age, you may feel that it is "true love" but in a couple of years, you'll regret it. Unless of course, it really is true love.
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If he can't believe you, he wont. Even if you get him back this time, you can bet he'll flip out and 'punish you' agian, the next time he suspects something rediculas.
There is nothing amazing you can do to prove your point, unless you can get one of his friends to admit to the lie.
Take a deep breath and give him some room. If he begins to realize how silly he's been, he'll come back and give you a chance to explain. But if he doesn't already doubt the lies about your cheating on him, there is nothing you can do to fight that degree of crazy. You can't prove the sky is blue to someone who is crazy enough to believe it's orange with green spots.
Just stick to the truth, hope for the best and let it play out. If he doesn't come back on his own, nothing you can do will make him.
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