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there is this girl at my college, she's so hot, red headed, and extremely nice and kind to me,I think I have a crush on her. I see her around and she's also at this math tutoring center which I sometimes go to even if I don't need help. Would it be OK if I secretly took some high quality pictures of her and even video tape her with my Iphone without her knowing so I can have some nice pictures and videos for my own personal satisfaction? Or is it illegal? (link)
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Don't do that. It's not right and its creepy. Go talk to her
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My boyfriend is always telling me i'm having sex with someone else because I feel looser than normal and I have been with no one else. So is it even possible for a man to be able to tell by the feel of the vagina? Now i'm curious (link)
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Uhm if your boyfriend is telling you that he is a jerk!
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how do you spank a child what position and what implemet (link)
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Do not spank. Bad idea. Use other disciplinary actions. Such as time out, taking away toys, using your words.
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i have never used a tampon before and i am just wondering if it hurts? please be honest (link)
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Get the smallest sized tampons! The yellow ones! Put it in correctly and it shouldn't hurt. Good luck!
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I think my boyfriend has been cheating on me. He has been acting very strange around me lately and he is very weird about me being around his phone he hurries and snatches it up as if im going to find something. (link)
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Don't jump to conclusions. Ask him if he is cheating on you. If you don't like his answer leave him. If you are having doubts, you should reconsider your relationship. Faithful guys don't hide their phones from their girlfriends.
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Okay, so my name is Allison and I am 13/f. Well there is this new guy named James 15/m that just moved to my town. Well me and James have been dating for abot 3 weeks now. And i think he is wanting to have sex. When its just the 2 of us he always makes remarks about how sexy and stuff he thinks I am. But he seems to kinda force me to do things with him like let him finger me, blow jobs, etc. I want to know if I should go through with sex and stuff. Oh, by the way he does drugs and steals and does other things I am not proud of. So, thanks:) (link)
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No. Please leave him.
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Please help me on how I can lose weight. I'm tired of being fat and I need to lose it NOW. I don't need gestures on how I can just "not eat desserts" or anything like that. Just please tell me how I can lose weight. Please name the excersize and how many calories burned (I don't play sports. Just excersizing please). I can't go to a doctor or my PE teacher or my mom or anything like that. I don't want my mom to think even more that i'm fat. And my mom will have to go with me to the doctor. And my PE teacher hates me. So please help me before I starve myself (I don't need a gesture on that. If I can't find any excersize, that's what i'm going to do no matter what)... (link)
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Waking for 30 minutes everyday, running, sit ups, jump rope, push ups, eat healthy, drink lots of water. Let yourself know everyday that you are beautiful no matter what:)
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Well right now, my life is very stressful. My family is moving to a different, smaller house, and we've got a lot to do. My stepdad left for good a week ago, and we're having a hard time with money, which is why we are moving. I am a senior in high school, and I have been stressing about college, community service hours, and everything else in school.
I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now, and we are sexually active, but sometimes on and off for two weeks. We use protection (condoms), and it's been eight days since I was supposed to have my period. Sometimes it's late, but only by two or three days. I'm not really worried about being pregnant, because I think I would honestly know... Is my stress causing my period to be very overdue? (link)
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Get a pregnancy test.
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12/F well I have a 18 year old boyfriend and he wanted to have sex and I'm to scared that if I say no he won't love me anyway now he's always expecting me to have sex with him and when I don't want to he asks me if I don't love him anymore and he has naked pictures of me and I don't know how he got them what must I do(my mom doesn't know about our relationship) (link)
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You need to stop talking to him. He is a pedophile. He is a bad guy who is doing bad things.
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Can you get a girl pregnant if you nut in her ass (link)
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No. But u can catch sexual transmitted diseases. Use a condom.
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ok today i started using tampons...and i left my tampon in for 2 hours.i know it says 4-8 hors but i was curious. when i went to pull it out it hurt.i tugged at it slowly and finally got it out. is this normal? (link)
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It is not normal for a tampon to hurt. A tampon should feel almost like its not there. Make sure it is put in all the way and put in right. If you are a virgin you may need to reconsider if tampons are right for you. Make sure u put the tampon in straight towards your back. Be careful. Good luck
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I just bought these long black leggings but im not sure what to wear them with ? like with shorts or boots ..and is it ok if i just wear them as "jeans"? (link)
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You can wear them with boots, shoes, flats, anything:) just make sure whatever you wear on top covers your back. Leggings can be revealing and u may not want that. U can wear sweaters, long shirts, hoodies, anything:) black matches with anything good luck!
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a guy friend asked me " what are you up to tonight"? after he saw me with my friends like he saw me and he said hello and i replied back and I kept on talking to my friends and then he asked me " what are you up to tonight"? and I said just with friends and he said oh okay. So what did that mean? what is the underlying meaning of that particular question? Why do guys usually ask this? And this was at his work, just so you know. And def not a conversation starter.... so what did he mean and how should one answer this particular question? Did he wanted to do something or why did he really ask> what was the point? Why did he care what I did or do with my friends? (link)
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I answered this question several times for you hun.
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Umkay , So I See That You Are An Femaale .. Idk If Youre Older Than Me . But Im 15 I Will Be 16 September 16th . And I Just Thought Its Time For Me To Make MY OWN Decisions . . . So I Have A Boyfriend., We've Tried Havinq Sex And IT HURTS SO DARN BAD ! We've Done It Like 4 Times And NOTHING Has Changed . I Mean He's Stuck It All The Way In And It Feels The Same Everytime .. I Just Wanna Know If Im Doinq Somethinq Wronq , If So , What ? And HOW WOULD I ACTUALLY KNOW WHEN I'VE BROKEN MY VIRGINITY WHILE HAVING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE ?
Please , Anyone ? (link)
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It is natural for it to hurt very bad the first time. Almost every girl is born with a hymen a thick layer of skin protecting the inside of the vagina. The penis is supposed to break open the skin. If he has completely put it all the way in then most likely it has broken and that is the pain you are feeling. It may hurt for a while it is normal since you have not been sexually active a lot. To minimize the pain you may use lube. It is a clear gel you put on vagina that makes it easier to have sex. Also maybe you need to tell him to be more gentle when you have intercourse. If the pain continues you should stop having sex and wait a while. If the pain does not stop you should talk to your doctor. Good luck hun
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Giving someone head
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I agree with the person below. If you don't know then it shouldn't be done. Also, your risking getting sexual transmitted diseases
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Hi,
I am in a relationship with a guy form last 2 weeks. We never talk to have a sex in this period. In this weekend he calls me in and hotel for a diner. After diner I come to know that he booked a room in that hotel for us. I refuse to go with him. After that he can't make any call from last 3 days. Is my decision break our relationship? Sex is essential for any early relationship? (link)
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No. What you did was perfectly fine. You should never feel pressured to have sex. If a man cares for you he will wait. Don't talk to him ever again he is a disgusting dog.
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So I'm not a bad kid. I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm a good student, I got all A's last year and I do not smoke, drink, or do drugs and no sexual contact. I work hard in school and horse riding. I try hard to please my parents. My parents did hit me and spank me with a belt when I was younger. I'm not bad to my parents, sometimes I may talk flippant however the meanest thing I've said to them is that they are annoying. They get mad at me and offended by the smallest silliest things. They hit me and insult me, and I have lost a lot of respect for them. I cannot take it anymore and I've started cutting as of late. I honestly never thought I would I thought that it was stupid and pointless but I guess now it somewhat helps as stupid as that sounds. I have contemplated suicide a lot. I'm so depressed and alone and I have no one to talk to. I don't know what to do but my realtionship with my parents really sucks and there's not much to do to make it better and I don't like living this way. (link)
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I am so sorry. Noone should ever have to go through that. It seems like you are such an amazing, kind, hard working young woman and you deserve more respect. You give your parents respect they should respect you as well. Abuse isn't just physical it is emotional also. Seems like they are breaking you down and hurting you. Everyone needs a compliment here or there and u aren't getting any recognition for your great accomplishments. You need to call the police immidiately. You are getting both emotionaly and physically abused. Do u have any family members you can turn to? If so go to them. Do not kill yourself. You are on this planet for a reason. You seem so brilliant. You may not think anyone care for you but I am a stranger and yet I still do not want you to kill yourself. You have a future ahead of you. You can be so successful and prove your parents wrong. Prove to them that you can do great things. Live. Enjoy it. You have it rough but there is so many other that have it worse but yet they are still fighting. Find someone to talk to. Get help
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Did you ever have sex
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That's a personal question. I'm not going to answer that.
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Female/ 15
So I'm 15 years old and my chest is incredibly flat . -.- All of my cousins (even younger ones) have breast size in 38 B and up. Most of them are skinny and have decent breast size I'm a little bit chubbier and boobless. Is there some diet or anything I can do to help increase my breast size or make them grow ? >. (link)
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Your only 15, your breasts still have time to grow. Don't worry. Also, there is no diet that will make your breasts grow. Losing weight will make your breasts smaller.Wearing a push up bra may help. What's most important is that you shouldn't worry about what's on the outside. It's what inside that matters. If your beautiful inside your beautiful outside. A women's breasts doesn't make her who she is. be confident with what you have.
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As true as this may be, or NOT!!!! It's my brothers business if he wqants to end it all. And mine as well. I think about ending it all the time, Life sucks then you die. Why NOT make it sooner than later. After all nothing is going to change, and I wil still be alone unhappy, and still wont be able to pay my bills. There is no solution except death! The only way to leave all the problems I have is death. SO my friend, unless your willing to pay my bills, bring my family back to me, bring love back into my life, and give me a normal life tha FO (link)
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Do not kill yourself. Look im a stranger I don't even know you and I am here asking you to stay..your on this planet for a reason. Stay. Live it and find your purpose. Don't be a coward and kill yourself because life is hard..people in the world have it WORSE than you and yet they are here, living. Think about that.
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