Hey. I'm in my early twenties. I'm currently pregnant with my first child...Well for a couple more days atleast :-D! I live in sunny Sun Diego. I'm married, to a Sergeant in the Marine Corps...
I am here to help and get help. I'm not trying to portray that I'm a perfect person with no problems, but I have been through alot so I figure I'd help people learn from my mistakes...
I've been through alot, from my father death, to my best death, to middle school/high school/college, bad relationships, good relationships, engagment, marriage, deployment, pregnancy, stress and depression...
I am deffinetly here to help 110 % so if you want to talk dont hesitiate i'm here for all of you...xoxox
E-mail: blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.
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Location: California
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1. can you get stds from a guy if you give him a bj and hes a virgin and hes never done anything sexual with any other girl besides you?
2. also can you get hpv from giving a bj (b/c i know that some guys are born with it)?
3. andd i know that hpv causes cervical cancer.. but is that only if you have sex or can you get cervical cancer from getting hpv through giving a bj???
thanks!! xo (link)
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Relax. If he's a virgin, I'm almost one hundred percent sure, your not going to get anything because he has not came in contact with another women. Many men are born with HPV but it is usually spread from sex. I'm pretty sure you're fine...Enjoy it dont stress it!
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well im 15/f
and i've never had sex before
but i do use my vibrating shower head as a vibrator, just about every night.
are there any harmful affects of doing this?
and also what are some other things that i can do around the house to get the same pleasure?
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I'm not sure that all the water going up your vagina is the best idea. But using your fingers and such will turn you on just as much....
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Me and my bf have been going out for a year and like seven months anyway, i was just wandering can you start doin a blow job and finish with a hand job? i dont want any cum in my mouth so yea thats the problem. and can guys give me some advice or tricks to hand jobs...things girls do to you during a hand job that just drives you wild and you love it!! (link)
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start off with a hand job then go into a blow job and tell him to let you know when he needs to cum so you can get it out of your mouth no biggie!
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hi, on sunday i am going to hawaii, and i was wondering if my verizon cell phone would work there. my dad wasnt sure because it might just work in th 48 states, but its a verizon phone, and idk we have like afamily plan. (link)
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They will work no problem you dont have to set anything up. I've been there plenty of times with no problems at all :0D
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ok I shaved some of my pubic hair [i'm a girl and 13] once with a razor just to see what it would be like, and i THINK i used either shaving cream or soap but it was probably soap. it's so thick and coarse! like if a shave a patch off you can see the hair under my skin so thick and about to grow in, and when its all shaved down there it looks like little black lines under my skin. If you have continued to read this w/o getting grossed out, you are a special person I can tell you that. What is a way I can shave where it will be nice and smooth down there? (link)
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Shave with the grain and then redo it and shave agains the grain, and you'll be good to go!
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so if we had unprotected intercourse yesterday, and i was not able to go to a clinic today for the morning after pill, if i went tomorrow would that be too late? oh crap today is friday isn't it. . .would it be open on saturday?? ok NOW i'm REALLY starting to freak out.
should i talk to my boyfriend about my concern? he doesn't know that i was pregnant with my other bf's kid but had a miscarriage. (link)
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Well. If you know you guys are close enough to handle this situation together then let him know if you think it will just stress you out more and cause problems then dont tell him.
You can take the morning after pill up to 72 hour after unprotected intercorse. If you really think that you might be pregnant...Question, how long ago was your last period as weird as it seems let me know...
They might be open on a saturday but for a limited amount of time so find out as soon as you can!!!
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like i'm totally serious..... not even one!! you see, i go to this school that's all girls, and I guess I've never really gotten along with girls that well. But, someone the other day told me the reason why is because I'm very pretty and they're jealous of me. But, there's other pretty girls at my school, and they all have friends. But, I just feel a little bit lonely at school. Outside of school, I talk to people and stuff, and it's funny because I have a boyfriend but whenever I go online, all these guys IM me, and nobody from school talks to me, but I still feel bad. Why won't anyone hang out with me?? thank you (link)
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Honestly dont be sad about not having alot of girlfirends. Girls suck I use to be an outcast too for a year or two in high school and i realized i'm better off without having all these shitty ass girlfriends, they just cause drama and cause problems in your life. Stick to being the beautiful outcast...:-D!
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i am going to a party the 23rd and on myspace 4 girls that i thought were really nice and everything are plotting something to ruin my reputation, i don't no what to do but they think i'm a boystealer i mean i'm really not i just hang out with guys all the time because my sisters always did because they used to say how much easier it is to be friends with guys then girls and i like it too. But should i go to the party i mean its the first time ill get to see all my friends all summer and i usually just don't cheat myself of having fun. But please helP!!! i really don't want a bad reputation going into the high school!!!!! (link)
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Exactly what are they plotting. And really how bad can it be? Your friends with guys just because they are bad with the oppisite sex doesnt mean you have to miss out on a party...you should go enjoy yourself...and hopefully whatever they plot to do against you backfires on them and makes them look like completly idots!
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i'm sorry if this is long, but i really, really would appreciate some help because i'm going bananas....
ok, i'm trying to remain calm while writing this because i'm about to scream at the top of my lungs. My boyfriend and I have been together for more than three months. We are very, very close. We talk on the phone every day, and pretty much he is my best friend and I love him so much. But, he can be very forgetful, and I know that he doesn't do it maliciously because his mom and I talk too, and she tells me how forgetful he can be. he does not have a good memory according to his sister, his mother, and his friends. So, pretty much, I believe it if that many people are saying the same thing.
Now, I have to start from my first encounter with a boy to really send this message accross. I was thirteen years old when I had my first "encounter" or first started talking to a boy. I really liked him, and this is such a special time in a girl's life. My mom completely had to take over. I guess me going to an all girls school has something to do with it. But, whenever I went on the computer to talk to him, she would follow me into the room, sit next to me, and bring in the entire family into the room to tell me everything to write to him and when I didn't write what they wanted, they would start screaming at me, doors would slam, and you get the idea. I'm not exaggerating, this is just how it happened. Well, he got away all thanks to her just because she liked his best friend better for him. so keep all this in mind
ok, so my boyfriend the other day forgot our anniversary and I was really, really upset about it. But, he felt so bad and he was even like almost crying. So, I felt kind of bad. But, I forgave him because I remembered that he was forgetfull. But, on Wednesday, his sister, whos visiting from colleage, invited me to go to their beach apartment (we live in miami), and she told me to save the date. But, yesturday he didn't call me to give me the address of the apartment. I don't want to call him anymore, I want him to call me, but what should i do.... i need a really good solution and right now honesty is NOT the best policy. He needs a wake-up call and someone has to call him, preferrably a guy, and tell him that he likes me or something. He needs to feel jealousy, rage, and want to keep me away from them. I just need a plan...... BY TODAY!!
Now, back to my mom. All she does is bother me and tell me that he's cheating on me because he didn't call me for one day, and tell me all this stuff and telling me that these are signs of resentment, and i'm done following her advice!! She ruined everything with my first guy, and she's divorced.... so she thinks she knows everything about men, but not all men are the same, people are very different and show things differently, and I don't want her advice on this. I don't want another episode of last time, so I really need your help..... please and thank you
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I think you need to relax. Men are the most forgetful creatures on this earth. They really are. If my husband didnt live with me and I didnt bother him to call me all the time I'd probably never hear from him.
I understand about the whole thing, that girls what guys to call or guys are suppose to call first but in all reality they dont. Men dont worry about little details like women do.
Dont let your mom stress you out on things like this. But dont blame her bad advice on her devorce it might be a completly different story. My moms devorced and sometimes she gives me great advice and sometimes it's the worst advice in the world.
Pick up the phone and call him tell him you want to hear from him more, you want him to call you sometimes. If he really felt that bad about missing your anniversary then he will deffinetly feel bad about not calling you. Honesty is the best policy unless you want your relationship to end and not on good terms.
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I stayed with a woman I met while she was on holiday. Into the second week, I had a visit from two of my male friends, and after dinner we all retired to have a drink. I went to bed early but the woman stayed back chatting to the guys. Later I found out that under the influence of liquor she had oral sex with the guys. She was drunk enough to be free of her inhibitions but not too drunk to know what was going on.
She did not say what happened but I got to know through reliable source and when confronted, admitted. What was significant was up to that time she was even happy to get pregnant with me and have a baby. However, I do not think she is an ideal mother.
She does have her own share of her family problems, both parents being divorced and re-married but her relationship to her father and step mother is at a very low ebb.
She feels that her father has let her down by not supporting her at any point of her life.
Her behaviour is inconsistent and unstable for a good relationship, and she constantly remind of the 20 year age gap we have although first she said it is unimportant as she finds me attractive intelligent and charming. She is also aware that I have numerous affairs.
However, I also get the feeling that she is looking to find more men although she feels she has a lesser success than me.
Sex between us is fabulous, first rate but we do have frequent arguments. She expects me to agree to her version of mild explanation on morality and on what took place and at best is very inconsistent when it comes to such a issues.
My question is can I trust her not to behave like that or consume heavy alcohol which may impair her judgement.
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First, I dont think you should blame her past on the situation. Both my parents are devorced and my biological dad was never in the picture, thank god for adoption. My biological mom hasbeen in and out of relationships like it's cool and has been married three times.
But when i found the right guy what my parents had put me through or what had happened in my past with them was erased and i started to rewrite my past and furture.
If she alread got out of control once with alcohol, there is no saying wether or not she's not going to do it again. Unless she really does regret the past and what she's done. Even then you cant be sure.
PS. i deffinetly dont think she's ready to be a mother, if she cant keep true to a commitment, how is she suppose to stay true to 9 months od pregnancy and 18 years of rasing a child?
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ive been going out w/ my boyfriend for about 7 months, and im still a virgin. i have been thinking about losing my virginity to him a lot lately,and he's a virgin too. so, does it hurt badly when you lose it? or does it depend on the guy? any info or tips would be fine! (link)
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It hurts some women and doesnt hurt others. It's no an aweful pain, sure it hurts but it's worth it in the end if your sure it's the guy you want to lose it too. Just make sure he takes it slow that will make it less painful. It's not to enjoyable or comfortable the first couple of times, but once you get past that it's amazing!!!
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When is the best time to have sex during ur periods so that u dont get pregnant?? Is it fine to have it the day when the first drops come? (link)
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Basically, without protection you have the same change of getting pregnant on your period then you do any other time...True but it sucks.
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when doing stuff with a guy, how long should you doo it for or like what if he doesn't cum..then when do you stop? i dont want to hurt him but he takes a while! (link)
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Well, usually you dont stop until he's done. It usually does take awhile...Just keep switching things up!
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how do you know if your pleasuring a girl when you have sex? (link)
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Well you should be abble to tell by the difference in her noises, or the tightning of her vagina around your penis. You can also tell by some women because when they get into it they start thrusting...
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i dont know if i can ask a question like this. its kind of important-ish..
while in school, how do you guys use the bathroom if youre doing number 2? and if it might get noisy and there are people in there, especially for girls the ones who loiter and stare at themselves in the mirror and apply their makeup?
is there a solution to this? (link)
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Well there really isnt any way to avoid the situation, but what i use to do is flush the toilet when i went number 2. Maybe once or twice them the noise is covered. Try going during class or during a busy lunch time when everyone is talking and loud....
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So this September, my mom and I have decided we're going to take a cruise to Bermuda. There is only one thing that is holding us up to buy tickets, finding someone to come (as in one of my friends). Well, the problem is I don't have a LOT of friends, but I have a good amount; and none of them can afford this. So I would like my boyfriend to come along, and I have been with him for 1 year and 9 months; so it is not like she doesn't know him. (I'm 15/f he's 17/m) Well, I'm having difficulties on how I should prove to her that she can trust us. April of 2006, I had a pregnancy scare, and she has mostly given us our trust back. But, since then, my period has been regular, never late, and I have not done anything with him for her to not trust us since that one mistake. I've also been helping her out around the house a bunch for the past few months. So I think these things should prove to her that I am responsible now, and I know what to do and what not to do. I've been honest with her about everywhere that me and my boyfriend have gone, and what we have done while we were out. He is the only one that can afford to go on this cruise with my us. Also, on September 18th, it will be our 2 year anniversary, so I think it would be a great way to spend our anniversary. He will be 18 by then, and I will still be 15, but I'll be turning 16 in November. So my question is, what can I or my boyfriend and I do to get her to allow us to go together on this cruise?
Thank you so much, and thank you for taking your time to read. (link)
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I see where your mom would be coming from if she said no, seeing how there is a age gap between you two. But then again my mom would have let me, so maybe you'll be okay. Sit down with her and lay everything out on the table. She'll see your mature enough to handle the situation and mature enough to confront her about the situation and maybe, you never know things will turn your way!!!!
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hii, uhm i have a problem. my friend is having a pool party towmorrow and i have my period. youd prob all say use a tampon, but i hate using them they hurt me so much. there are also going to be boys at this party who will try to push me in. what should i do? (link)
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Well, think about it. Do you want the chance of being completly embarassed? If a tampon hurts you try buying the smallest size, i would say tampon pearl easier to insert, and put on foot up on the toilet and the other keep on the floor and bend down a little and insert, thats the only way i could get one in my first time and i was 8 when i did that. And all i had was cardboard ones.
Take some tylenol or motrin if you think it'll help with the pain...Dont risk the chance of being soo embarassed....
PS. if you wear a tampon remember to tuck the string in and keep checking!!! :-D
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how can i get myself to STOP masturbating.
any ideas are great.
15.f. (link)
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why stop. it's healthy...is something wrong???
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Here's the situation. I lost "it" to my first boyfriend [[*we'll call him michael*]]back about 7 months ago. we ended up breaking up and my parents found out all about our relationship and it started a huge family feud and no trust with me and my new boyfriend (who was actually a good friend of mine for 2 years and now we're together and we'll call him Scott). well we worked it out and everything is fine. Scott assured me he wasn't like that and in fact he's a virgin and wanted to wait till marriage because he wanted it to be something special and with the one he knew he was going to marry. well, with our previous history, and we've been together a few months, tonight we were home at his house alone and things just got really hot and heavy and to make a long story short we ended up having sex and weren't protected cuz we weren't expecting it and he doesn't have condoms on hand since he wasn't expecting to ever need them.
now i'm scared to death that i might get pregnant. with michael, i actually was pregnant at one point, but i had a miscarriage [[*not an abortion*]]. and i swore i would change after me and him broke up, but me and Scott just got caught in the moment and didn't realize till it was too late. i feel awful about it and now i'm terrified. is there anyway i can do something to ensure i don't get pregnant?! we're not gunna do that again and. . .if i get pregnant again, i'm no way in heck going to have an abortion, but i just don't know what we'd do! we're both financially unstable right now AND i just patched everything with my parents. i really need advice ya'll!!!
i'm 17 and he's 18 (link)
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we'll it's kinda a wait and see thing. you could call your local women's center, or planned parent hood and get the morning after pill, you can start taking it up to 72 hours after unprotected sex...some people think of it as an abortion but in all reality it really isnt. expecially for your situation. email me if you need to talk!!!!
I got pregnant at 18.
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i jerk off almost every day is that helthy? (link)
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Yes. My husband does it three times a day wether we have sex or not. I think it's just a guy thing...
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