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I've known this boy for a couple years now & I started developing feelings for September of 2008. I thought it was just going to be another one of those little crushes.
It's been eight months now and I still can't get over him. When I liked this boy, he told me he liked me too, a whole lot. We never got into a relationship because we lived too far away to be able to see each other as much as we'd like to. In the middle of October, he told me he also developed feelings for another girl at his school and of course I was crushed for I was even more in love with this kid by then.
They went out until the end of December-ish & he recently told me that he does not like that girl anymore.
My problem is that I can't get over him & it's been eight months. I've never completely fallen head over heels for anyone this bad before.
The only two options I'm letting myself have are
1) let him go - if this is your answer for me, I'd like to know how to get over this kid. Whenever he talks to me, my heart lights up. I fix MY schedule to have time to talk to him.
2) fight for him - if this is your answer for me, what am I supposed to do?
3) if there's anything better than the two, please please tell me. I'm killing myself over this kid & I'm just ready to stop.
Thanks so much in advance for whoever answers this.
15/f if it helps. (link)
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Haha, you wont believe this...
I'm going through the EXACT same thing.
Okay, well not exactly, but pretty darn close... See I'm 13/F and this guy (Ill call him joe) is 14/M. So, if you think 8 MONTHS is pathetic, well I've liked joe for almost 3 YEARS now... Yeah, yeah, I know... Well even though the first two years were just innocently crushing years, this year has been nuts... He says he likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend... Well, that should have been a wake up call, telling me that I should give up right? Well, it didn't work like that...
See, he said he didn't want a girlfriend, but he sure treated me like one. One day, this guy in my grade came up to me and was being completely nasty, and totally preverted (I won't even tell you what he said to me) when I tried to ignore him, he pushed me against the locker, and joe, who was with me, pushed him off of me and punched him in the gut... Plus joe was always flirting with me (just like your guy) and I would also schedule my life around talking to him (like you) so signals were very mixed.
Well, I learned something through this experience... And that us that boys are upfront. Joe said he liked me, and so did your guy, and you can be sure they genuinely meant it, but what did they like you for?? With joe, it turned out that he only wanted some action and the ego boost he would get from yelling his friends about how he "scored"... With your guy, he could like you for anything, good or bad, but he defintely does not like you in a way that means he wants to date you. He could be using you for anything, or he could be being sincere, but in the end, you are going to wound up hurt... And it sucks. Whatever his reasons are, you guys agreed you would not date, abd that is what is going to happen.
My advice? Let him go. I know its hard, trust me, I know. I liked joe for 3 years and I STILL haven gotten all the way over him!! But I know thats what I have to do (and you do too) because we can't hang on. There are TONS of guys out there who are better for us, and clinging to these relationship dead ends is not right. Butt see, the thing that makes this harder than a normal break up is that there is no closure. There is no "its over" because there never was a real something. There were feelings (and strong ones I'm sure) but there was no title, and THAT is why its so darn hard. You have to throw away something that was never actually there, it was only felt. But you have to let go, and even though its hard because your brain knows that holding on is wrong, but your heart hasn't reached that stage yet. It will get there, and one day mine will too. Heck, I'm young, you're young, let's go flipping live it up! Save the friendship, throw away the hurt, and go find a hot boy!
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Okay here is the thing my ex and I broke up over a month ago. I had this guy friend Tony who invited me over to watch a movie and talk about things. He kissed me a cried and so he stopped. we ended up having sex some point that night. well it ended up he just wanted sex so i quit talking to him all together.
David.. I meet him talking to him online. we hung out a few times. he keep grabbing my face because i keep pulling away to kiss me and he kissed me for like 30 minutes well we ended up having sex. he really likes me a guess but im not attracted to him and i get annoyed easy with him
Dustin.. My best friends brother and my ex's cousin. my ex doesnt talk to any of them. We all drank at his sisters house one time but i was dating my ex at the time. I seen him and his sisters baby shower for a minute on saturday. and we talked for just a minute. I texted him that he and i should go drink sometime but he didnt get it because he doesnt have service where he lives. I called him yesterday (sunday). i went out to his house we went dirt roading and ended up having sex but he didnt force me i told him i wanted to. and he didnt even kiss me until i was positive. we talked for hours before that. im attracted to him just hearing his voice gives me butterflies. he asked me if i was wanting to date someone and i said i wasnt sure. which i am sure. he had running around to do in town today and asked if i wanted to come and of course i said yes i wanted to see him.
i dont want to be judged on what i did with having sex. im just looking for advice. i dont know if im pregnant or not. i doubt it. i havent got my period but i dont know what day i started last month.. thank you for taking the time to read. (link)
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Well, truthfully, none of these guys sound all that great.., and because I am sure you are a beautiful and wonderful girl I think you need to find a good guy.
I agree with the previous advice. I think you definitely need to take things slower in the future. Sex should be saved for marriage in my belief, but that is my religion and I am not trying to force my views on you at all but I think you should at least be sure you love someone before you get involved physically like that. Whether you know it or not, sex stirs up some complicated stuff in your emotions which is probably why you feel so confused right now.
Also, if you didn't use protection, yoy might want to consider taking a pregnency test...
I am not trying to judge, or speculate, I only want to give you my thoughts, and wish you good luck.
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hi i was wondering if anyone knows of any good skin whitning creams? i need to get rid of my dark circles.i actually have natually fair skin however,i have really bad dark circles so i force myself to wear make uo to cover them up.And i was wondering where is the best place to buy them, as in what parts of the world carry the best stuff?And please dont write replys saying "love your skin" (link)
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Love your skin!!
Tehehe...
Actually, to be quite honest, try Walmart. No joke, they've got some beastly products. Walmart is boss.
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Ok. So I am curious to know if there is a way to shave without getting all the little red bumps and redness on the legs and vaginal area. Also, is there a way to slow leg hair growth or to keep legs smooth for more than one day at a time? I rate high for good answers!
-MEJ
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I actually disagree with the previous advice. I LOOOOOVE the Venus embrace!! But make sure you replace the blade every once in a while. Have you been using the same razor blade for an extended amount of time? If you have, switch it. If that doesn't work, soak your legs in warm water for 10 minutes BEFORE you shave. It softens up your skin and causes less irratation. Trust me, it works like a charm. Good luck!
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I hate it when he looks or talks to a girl. it bothers me! ugh i hate it so much.
all of the stupid girls in school like him.. i feel like hes never gonna be mine 100%. we've been going out for almost 8 months and im not happy at all, i mean like im happy with him.. we're both in love and stuff but i feel like my head is gonna blow up.. everyday i start thinking crap.. and i fill my head with stupid dumb thoughts about him being with another girl and stuff.. he tells me that he only wants me and that he loves me and yeahh im just scared :[
what if i stop being jealous & i finally trust him 100% and then boom.. he cheats on me? i will feel like garbage, like nothing. that would destroy me. i dont know what i would do :/
i need help.. i hate being jealous. I DONT WANT THIS ANYMORE :[ its ruining my relationship.
every day we fight bc of me. bc of my jealousy.. bc of girls. :(
I dont want to lose him. ever (link)
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Hey
Well listen, you trusting him 100% or you being jelous all the time is not going to stop him from cheating (if he wanted to and it kind of sounds like he doesn't). Trust or no trust, if he wanted to, he would. But see, by not trusting him, you are only sabatoging the relationship. So if your worried that trusting him will make him more likely to cheat, it won't... I hope that makes sense. What I'm trying to say is that, you will never be able to stop him from talking to or looking at other girls, you can only control your reaction to it. Also, if it makes you feelsny better, he probably gets super jelous of the boys you talk to, you just don't know it. So talk to your boyfriend, together, if he really understands that this jelousy is coming from a sincere place, then I think you two can work it out. =]
Good luck!!
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okay so i broke out really really bad recently and i've been breaking out bad for about a month now. i don't know what to do? is there anything i can use to help clear acne that works good?
i tried proactive but it doesn't work for me. (link)
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Well I have horrible acne and the only thing I do to keep it under control (it never really goes away) is by washing it with a simple Clearasil face wash in the morning and at night and right after I wash it I put on some Clean and Clear mosturizing acne cream and I use a spot treatment acne vanisher. It works pretty well for me but I don't know, evsryones skin is diferent.
Other tips:
• Some shampoos and conditioners (like the Dove line) are really oily and can cause bad break outs along your hairline area or anywhere the shampoo or conditioner runs along your face. The BEST brand to use that had no oily acne-causing substance is the Head and Shoulders line. And I'm not gonna lie, that brand has some AWESOME scents!!!
• Touching your face is horrible for acne, sometimes when you lie down to sleep, you know how you rest your cheek on your hand or something? Don't do that anymore
• Acne products take a while to work, so be patient, don't get frustrated with a product and skip on to the next one, I would give it a month or so before chucking it.
• Makeup is a big no-no for acne. Blushes, concealers, and liquid or powder cover ups are absolutely horrible for skin. They will cause breakouts and make existing ones worse. I know it is tempting to cover up your breakouts to hide them but I ditched all kinds of face makeup for a week and it did miracles, I swear.
If all else fails, talk to your parents about asking your doctor for some acne pills and creams or ask about seeing a dermatologist who will give you stronger pills and creams and more tips to keep your skin clear.
Hope I helped and I love feedback!!
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So I'm a junior in high school and I play the violin. I live in Georgia and every year there is a statewide all state conference for the best music students. So, this whole year it was my dream to make it and I practiced so so much. My friend, Sarah hates the violin and doesn't practice nearly as much as I do. Well guess what? She made it and I didn't. I'm so upset and feel decieved by life. Any personal experiences to share or things in general to cheer me up? (link)
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I know exactly what you mean. I work super hard in school but one of my guy friends NEVER studys for tests and stuff. Well everytime a test comes around, I study study study, he barely skims the material and what do you know? He gets a better grade than me... It is SOO frustrating. But see, things like this seem to work out okay. Even though he does great on tests and quizes, I end up getting better grades in the end because of his lack of... passion I you would say causes him to not do the homework. I'm not going to say that everything will work out perfectly when you want it to, but eventually (whether it be years for you or when the report cards come out for me) someone will notice your dedication and talent and all of that work will pay off. Trust me, its karma. =]. Hope I helped!!
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Ok, so, I know that someone over 18 can't date a minor, but, is there a certain age that you can't date [younger] if you are 16?
I found out that my ex [who is 16] dated a 6th grader [they just broke up this year] and they had sex. Is that legal?
I'm just really curious, because I heard it was, but I'm not quite sure. I've looked on google. but I couldn't find anything on it.
-I'm not looking to get her, or her ex gf in trouble, I'm just really curious.
Thanks! (link)
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Ewww!! She would have been like 11!! Thats not illegal, but that's just plain disgusting!!
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I REALLY REALLY need some guidance and I've asked a lot of people for help but NO ONE helps me. They just think I need to eat bc I'm so skinny. But what I'm going through is a disaster. I was diagnosed with anorexia. I was eating 600 calories a day and I was very, very obsessive. I almost died.I had been doing that for about a year. If I would have kept it up for 2 more weeks, I would have lost my life!! I already lost my period and every week I have to go to the gyno until I get it back because since I haven't gotten it, my ovaries are full of cysts and I may have to get surgery. But, now I've gotten a lot better. But, as far as the eating disorder, things are pretty bad. I go thru phases where I binge one day and eat uncontrollably and when I ruin my diet for the day, I go crazy and tell myself to eat everything in sight and the next day I punish myself by not eating at all the entire day. It is a terrible habit but its the hardest cycle to break. There has to be something someone can say or do to help me. I will be going to therapy, but financially, I'm a little restricted right now so its not gonna be as soon as now, and NOW is when I need it. I feel like if I keep this up, I'm going to die. I'm treading a thin line right now, and someone just needs to tell me something. I want to stop this more than you can ever imagine, but its such a hard cycle to break and only someone who has actually had an eating disorder can understand. So if you can tell me anything at all to get me through the day, I will appreciate it. You could be saving my life!! I've already had 3 giant cookies and a sandwich today and I feel like crying!! Its like I have no control of myself and I hate feeling this way... I know I shouldn't skip meals or anything like that, but I'm at a hotel and my cousin just ordered a cheeseburger, and its like I want some and at the same time I don't and its like the food just won't digest and I get anxious because I'm full and then I eat more. Please help me!! (link)
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You need to calm down. Everything is okay. Now, I have never had an eating disorder but the way you described it sounds like true hell. I only wish I could give you a hug right now, haha. I'm not a doctor so I am not going to try and advise you on what and how much you should eat. But I will try and help you calm down a little in your brain. What I think you need is to find someone who has suffered anorexia (and has fully recovered!) and who really understands what you are feeling. And talk to them. Let them give you support. All I can do is tell you that I am praying for you and that even if you know it or not, there will always be someone who cares about you and wants to see you succeed. Let that be your motivation. Take a deep breath and think about your last therapy session. Use your tools. The fact that you asked this question proves my point that you want to live and you have what it takes to overcome this disorder. I believe in you and I know your peeps back home do too. Hug them. Love them. And for goodness sake, if you want the burger, eat the burger, haha. You have so much to be thankful for. You almost died, BUT YOU DID'T that means someone is looking out for you. You are strong. You can do this.
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So I have bulimia, and this morning I woke up with a bad sore throat. It hurts to swallow. The thing is, I thought that you have to vomit a decent amount of times before this would happen. I generally do it only a few times a month. Maybe I do it more often than I realize? Anyone have any ideas as to why? (link)
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Well, when you puke, it brings up acid from your stomach, which burns the lining on your throat. This lining doesn't really heal so it doesn't matter how spread out your puking is, you are still doing extreme damage to your throat each time. My mother's friend was bulimic, and she can't talk anymore because its too painful. You should REALLY be getting help for your problem, because bulimia causes SO many problems, its really not worth it.
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I really, really, REALLY have a MAD crush on this guy in the 8th grade. I am in 6th grade! He barely talks to me, but sometimes he'll say "bye", help me cheat at cards, and one time he borrowed my pen without asking (because he knows he doesn't need to.. he's so cool!). I think he might like this girl but I hear they're just friends. Do you think that he thinks of me as "some kid"? How do I make him like me, even with the age difference? (link)
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Well, this sounds like more of an older brother/friendship relationship. Now, you may be a little disappointed to hear this, but this is actually a VERY good thing. Because let's face it, an 8th grade boy is not going to have boyfriend-girlfriend feelings for a 6th grade girl, and even if he does he will not act upon these feelings... YET. See, if you keep this friendship-and- maybe-more- relationship going, then in a couple of years the age difference won't matter so much (13 and15? Not bad...) and you will already have a relationship base to build from. Just make sure that for the mean time, keep being yourself because its apparently working. Don't try to be loud to get him to notice you because it will only make you look obnoxious and childlike which will bring more attention to the age difference. Be yourself and wait a year or two where age gaps don't so much, where the relationships are taken seriously and much more fun!!
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I met a really great guy through a friend. I was on a trip and roomed with her and got to hang out with him everyday for about 3 days. Then, the next week I got to hang out with him for a whole day because we had to sing in a concert together. He was really sweet and I started to think he liked me. Whenever we were with everyone, he would talk to me and we'd kind of drift away from everyone else. We had some really good intellectual conversations, and we have a lot in common. He'd let me wear his sweatshirt if I was cold and hugged me a lot. I had only known him for a day and he asked me for my number. He goes to a different school, so I never see him, but we used to text each other. Then things went bad. There was a picture of us on facebook, and some of our friends were joking around and commenting things like, "oooohh look at the secret lovers" and stuff like that. Then one day, I log in and we're suddenly not facebook friends anymore. I think he might have blocked me? It might have because now things are awkward because of the picture? What should I do? I really miss him and want to be friends again. He was the closest thing to a boyfriend I've ever had. (link)
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Wow. Dont you love it when you find someone going through practically the same thing you are?? I am in the same spot as you, wondering why he is ignoring you and feeling so worthless because it feels like he is ashamed to be close to you. Yeah, it sucks. See, I have a huge crush on a boy and we would hang out and talk online all the time and I really thought he liked me. But then his friends started to make fun of "us being together" so our conversations turned into simple "hey"s and he blocked me online. When I confronted him about it he told me he tried to ignore it because he really loves talking to me but that he was just trying to getting his friends to stop making fun of him. I was so prepared to just let him go but the next day he unblocked me and it seemed like everything was great. Well I was wrong. Again. I am still currently blocked (i have been for the past 5 days) and it hurts. I wonder if it was something I did, am I annoying? Do I talk too much? Why am I not worth the teasing?but you know what...screw it. I talked to my friends and these questions changed. I realized that he is the one not worth my time, if he doesn't want to appreciate me then its his loss. He isn't worth this pain, and I only wish I knew that before he broke my heart. Now I dont know if this has helped you at all, but you sound like a great girl, and trust me, it isn't you that's not worth it, its him. You most likely haven't done a thing wrong, he is the one who screwed up. So I guess I am giving both of us advice when I say forget it. If he can't put up with the teasing for someone he supposedly cares about then he isn't worth your time or tears. Now he may unblock you and its your choice if you want to forgive him or not, but keep in mind, you deserve someone who cares about you, is that him? I hope I helped, goodluck.
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Hi, I'm 17 and female.
I have this amazing, wonderful, boyfriend boyfriend that I love very much. I think I'm ready to have sex with said boyfriend, but I'm a little nervous because it would be my first time (it'd be his too.) I'd be totally comfortable talking to him about this, but I don't know how to bring it up.
So, does being nervous mean I'm not ready for sex, and how do I initiate a conversation about this with my boy? (link)
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Um, not to be rude or anything but aren't you a little young to be having sex? Sorry, but this sounds like a really stupid idea, and maybe the reason you are nervous is because you are only 17 years old... I think you need to take a second and see that you are way too young. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will wait until both of you are actually I don't.... mature. So if you want my advice I think 17 is too young for sex. Not to mention it's a sin... but whatever I'm not your mom. Good luck with whatever you choose.
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so i have no idea what to dress up as for halloween. i dont want to be slutty but i do want something hot. my dad will freak out if its too bad so idk what to do!!please i need ideas! (link)
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I asked the exact question!!
some good responses I got were:
one of the Pink ladies (grease)
a girl from the TV show Saved By the Bell
Goldilocks
little red riding hood
super girl/ bat girl
a _______
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Well you previously told me to ask him in person what's up but the thing is we've talked about it before and he tells me that he's just typically really shy and doesn't know what to say, but i don't know whether that's bad or not, but also he is a really emotional kid, and whenever I'm upset, he's always concerned I'm upset at him, and when I'm sad, he like gets really sad and upset. I don't want to make him sad by saying this cause my friends tell me I'm just making a big deal out of nothing. Should i still talk to him in person? (link)
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Well, even though he is your boyfriend he may still feel uncomfortable around you. I know it sounds weird but that could be whats going on. If that is the case here's what I think you should do. Just accept the fact that he is shy in person, but don't let it control you. You can help him come out of his box if you take it slow and encourage him. If he doesn't know what to say to you, help him out by asking a ton of questions (questions that don't require one word answers, such as, "What did you do in practice today?" or "How was your day?") questions such as "How was your day" or "Did anything exciting happen to you today?" make it easy for him to respond and easier for him to ask you back (even if he asks you the same question you asked him). After awhile you won't need to set him up for a conversation, it will come to him more naturally, and he will begin to feel more comfortable around you. Tell me how it goes.
katwashala
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So me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and i really love him. when i met him, i knew he was the one for me. I am 14 years old, and i know thats young for a long term relationship, but he is so different from any of my other boyfriends. Problem is he is really shy and only says how much he loves me in text or aim. Occasionally he will say i love you when its just me and him but when were in public, he barely even talks to me. I don't know if its because he's shy or if its because he really doesn't love me like he says he does. He tells me he wants to marry me and be with me forever, but he's so shy in person and I'm the type of person who needs to talk to their boyfriends in person a lot. What should i do? Why do you think he acts so different in person than on text or instant messaging?
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Well, it is probably a lot easier for him to express how he feels in a text or on IM because it is not face to face. He probably has more confidence when he is texting you because he doesn't have to worry about having the right facial expressions, not getting too emotional, or having his friends make fun of him for sharing something so deep about himself. It is most likely the friend thing. Boys at this age get a lot of crap for things that they say and do with their girlfriends. Now, as for what you should do, I would talk to him about it in person, but make sure you are alone. I would say something along the lines of "It kind of makes me think you are ashamed of me when you shy away from me in public." and let him tell you his side of the story. If you want to ask anything else go ahead and ask, I'd also like to see how this turns out for you.
katwashala
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F/17
okay.
so i like this guy that i only see in the halls. Im thinking of talking to him, but i know if i do its going to be extremely awkward and there will be long pauses where im just standing there with nothing to say?
This is probably how it will go::
*during lunch*
-Me: Hi, (introduces myself)
-Him: Uh....(introduces himself)
-Me: So..bla bla bla...
-Him: *looks bored, annoyed, or like he needs to go some where*
-Me: Uhh...*awkward pause, and i really dont want to let him go*
So, does anyone have any tips as to what i can say or do to have him be interested in me? Hes really shy, hes usually alone when i see him, he's a senior and we dont know each other what so ever. I really want to get to know him because he seems like someone I could really connect with. Weird, I know, but I just have that feeling. So im asking for some really good advice.
Please! :]
Thanks in advance. (link)
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Easy...be as random as humanly possible. A lot of boys find randomness cute in a girl, so bring up something totally off topic like "Wow you have large feet, what size do you wear?" or something like that to make him laugh. Be random and act cute. That's my advice.
~Katwashala
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k...... so, 1 of my friends asked this guy out 4 me, and he said, "i dont know" so then, a week later, my other friend asked him, and he said, "i dont know, maybe"
so, i looked maybe up in the dictionary, and it said possibly. i looked up possibly, and it said presicely, yes or no.
i asked his sister the next day, and she said that she thought it meant yes...... and i dont know what 2 do about this........
i wrote him a note that said, ""will you go out with me? circle, yes or no."" im giving it 2 him in 2 days.. is that a bad idea??? --HELP ME PLZ!!!!!-- (link)
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The reason he hasn't been saying yes is because he probably thinks you aren't really serious about dating him. This might be because you are asking him out through other ppl. Well asking him in a note would be a horrible idea. He will definetly think that you aren't serious. Ask him in person or don't ask at all. If you are worried about asking him out heres a tip.
don't just say "Will you go out with me?" ask him out specifically like "Hey do you want to catch a movie with me?" or something like that. Also to clear the air, in your situation I would start off with something like this
"Hi ______. Look I am sorry I have been asking you out through my friend, that was wrong. So here I am and I would like to know if you wanted to hang out this weekend?"
Thats all i got
~Katwashala
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WARNING:long sorry just wanted to give full story or most of it
ok so im pretty much 14(my bday nov 9)
im not attracted to guys around my age i dont knw i just think older guys are cute and are more mature.well there are these three guys one well call d he is 18 or 19 and the other well call is x but i dont knw how old he is and lastly well call him j and he is 16 or 17.at first me and d werent like friends like we hugged and said hi but ya knw.he just kinda messed with me like put his arm around me and sang to me cause he knew i liked him haha just who he is.well now he flirts with me and kissed me on the cheek twice and he knws my name and one day my friend was like why do you kiss b and he was like have i ever kissed you and i was like only on the cheek and he said see i only kissed on the cheek i havent kissed her yet and kinda smiled at me and all my friends think he likes me.now x he is kinda new haha the first time i saw him me and a friend were waiting at the place cause it opened at 8 and he was alreasy there and he kept looking at me and finally he was like ya im lookin at you and i gave him a look like me? and he was like ya you(i knw kinda weird)but when his bro(i only knw it was his bro cuz he told us) got there they started whispering and lookin at me well then they left and he was like watch my stuff please so i did.that whole night he kept smiling at me and yesterday we had our second hug.we talk and flirt and he always looks at me.all my friends think he is mad sexy and are kinda jealous and they all think he likes me but im not sure cause he dont really knw me and he flirts with other girls.then finally the last on j.he used to always flirt with me and stuff then he ended up breaking up with his girl and i saw him lookin kinda bored so i went to talk to him and he was like how old are you and i asked him the same but he was like i asked you first so i told him and he was like damn i cant mess with you and told me how old he was and then the next week he was dating his ex now he doesnt really talk to me or whatever and its seems he flirts with his girl around me but looks at me to ya knw like see if im watching or w/e.and i saw him in the hall last thursday(i go to his school for math) and he walked next to me but didnt say anything but smiled and kept walking and called his friend and kinda looked back at me so i guess you can say im totally confused so i need major help!thank you (link)
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Well clearly, to me, d does not seem like a nice boy. After all, he pretty much told you his only intention was to mess around with you. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it, you can find better. However, if you really think this boy is serious, tell him you would like to give him a chance when you are a little older. You are only 14!
~katwashala
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im an 8th grader and i started to like a girl a few monthes back,and i came back to school and found out she was movin to arizona(i live in missouri)shes moving in 1 month, and i think she has a crush on me to, so my question is should i ask her out or not (link)
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Yikes a month? Well idk. You see, how would you feel? If YOU were the one moving and right before you left your crush told you they liked you. I know I would beat myself up over it because there would be nothing you could do about it. I mean wouldn't you feel a bit frustrated and be thinking "NOW you tell me???". And I'm sure you would be feeling regrets. So if you care about this girl, the best thing for you and her, is to save her the agony and stay friends.
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