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hey!! my names kristin! this advineators site is sooo awesome...i love answering peoples questions cuz i feel lyk im helping them.and it makes me feel special (even tho if i didnt help you..IM SORRY!) lol..but if anyone has a question just ask me cuz ill be more then happy to help you!!!!! :)luv, kristin
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how long should i wait b4 i tell a girl how i feel about her after she breaks up with someone she really loved.the only reason they broke up was because he was moving to another state. thanx
dan
hey. well you should wait 2 or 3 months...by that time she should get over it. and if you see her at school looking happy and her acting lyk she forgot about him then i would tell her that u lyk her sooner.
hey i got great advice for the colors on my bathroom but now i want like cute decorating stuff like what to do with it not just like colors!!!!!
thanx Gg
hey..well if it were me i would decorate it with lyk the cute little rubber yellow duckies...and i would lyk paint my bathroom yellow..lol...but if u dont wanna do that then ....you should lyk decorate with lyk candles that smell good annd lyk...lol i dunno! lool i would do the duckies...but its up to you!
okay im not fator anything..im only 105 BUT like my stomach is so weird looking like its thin and tight then like rigt under my belly button theres this huge buldge..i hate it..how do i get rid of this? cuz like it looks so nasty its like all skinny then BAM this buldge/roll thing under my belly button..HELP!
hey..omg lyk i have the same thing...im 85 pounds and im 14...and lyk im real skinny and then theres lyk this "pooch" under my belly botton...lol i dunno what it is...i herd from somewhere that it could mean that ur getting a six pack but ..lol...i dunno..i hope thats what it is..and when i told my mom about the little pooch thing she said lyk right b4 you get your monthly period ur stohmach cuold be bulging...lol but i dunno..im clueless too..
i have a blood blister on my pinky toe, and it looks liek a little brown dot under my skin, how do i get rid of it?
hey...omg i hate them things...there lyk soo annoying cuz there just there....yea lyk one time i had one for the longest time and didnt wanna pop it so it was there for lyk 6 months...lol but eventually it popped...and you pop it with a pin..lyk a safety pin or something...or something else thats pointy that will pop it..it does hurt..but it just feel lyk a little prick in ur skin...lyk a needle or something..
hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.
Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help!
hey...yea this position really does suck. i kno how u feel..ive been in it before (except im a girl so i lyked a guy..lol) but yea anyways..maybe you should ask your best friend to tell the girl that you u lyk her (if u really dont wanna tell her). or maybe it would be easier if u wrote her a note telling her that you lyk her instead of telling it to her face to face cuz thats prolly gona be real diffulcult for you. also if you wanted to, you could wait till she and ur best friend break up. but i think you should write her a note. and just tell her that youve lyked her for a long time and that you just wanted her to kno. and just be lyk..if you dont lyk me as a boyfriend then i hope we can still be really good friends and maybe take it futher someday if you want to. or something lyk that....and then just say something lyk "if you dont lyk me its ok ...cuz i just want you to be happy"...im in the same situation now...my friend is going out with this kid i lyk...and it really does suck...he alreayd knos that i lyk him...but i mean..we..but i hope i helped and tell me what you decided to do!!
hey! well i have blonde hair, and about a year ago i got highlights just to make my hair color a little bit lighter, and i got them redone about 4 months ago. but now my hair is growing in darker, so its a light brown, and my roots look really bad cuz there is like a line where my hair goes from blonde to brown. well i dont know if i should just get more blonde highlights, or if i should get low lights(brown hightlights) so that it blends better. plx help! thanx
omg i have the same problem...i got my hair highlighted last summer and my hair was blonde then but lyk all thru this year my highlights grew out and my hair was growing in lyk a lgiht brown...and its still lyk that now...and i dunno what i wana do cuz lk right now half my hair is lyk light brown and the other half is a dark blonde...its not that noticeable...but if anyone does notice it...it does look sutpid and i dont wanna get it highlited blonde again cuz then it will keep on growing out and ill just have to keep on getting it highlited...but i prolly will let my highlites grow out all of the way...lol..hope i helped...keep in touch and tell me what ur gona do...i need lyk more suggestions cuz im still sorta undecided..
I am always biting my nails all the time. I have tried fake nails. But I cant have them on because I play so many sports. Is there a way I can stop? I do it even when I dont realize I am doing it. I also know its not healthy at all. Any tips will be helpful... thank you!
hey...well when i had problems with biting my nails... i always kept nail polish on...and when i tried to bite my nails they tasted bad cuz of the nail polish..and thats how i stopped !! you should try it..i gaurantee that will work!
Ok I'm going into the 8th grade and I think I might need a backpack for this year. What kind of backpack and the namebrand should I get? I don't like messenger bags so exclude that. Thanks
hey! well i think u should def. get a jansport cuz there the most popular school bags (well at least in pennsylvania..lol) and the most durable ones...they came in soo many cool colors and there big so all your books will fit! there so cool...you should def. buy a jansport...you can buy them at lyk any sproting good store or lyk and target or walmart or something..there all around..youll find them somewhere!
okay so today i went to my bff's jackie (we'll call her) and we went to her nfs house jo (we'll call him) so jackie and i went to jos house and he had some friends over and the're all kinda into a bad crowd and i really don't fit in with them or do the stuff they do. well they had these bomb things they made and there all swearing and hidding and r all talkin that "omg the f-in cops r gonna come! lets go into the woods" and so then i was gettin all scared so i really wanted to leae but i didnt wanna go with out jackie so i was droping hints like crazy tell her that i wanted to go. but i knoe she wanted to stay with jo so i kinda held off for awhile.. but then when the threw the first explosive that was it i just left and so jackie came with me.. i really wanted to cry bcuz i knoe thats the kinda crowd i knoe im not supposed to b in and i don't knoe y i ever hung out with them in the first place. did i do the right thing? even though all of jos friends and prolly jackie think im a goodie goodie or a wimp! how to i ever talk to them again with out them making fun of me??
hey! well yes, you def. did the right thing. i would have don the same. and just talk to jackie about it. and tell her that you will never approve of that kind of shit. when jackie is hanging out with joe and all of joe's friends then just dont go. also, i would talk to jackie about joe and his friends and tell her that joe is bad news (even tho it may be diffulcult to tell her this)...if she does get mad at you at least you kno that you said what you felt. and if they make fun of you..o well at leats your doing the right thing and there not..just dont ever try and be someone that your not just to fit in with a crowd...its worng and youre better then that!
My brother (he's 20) has been dating this girl (she's 22) for about 2 years on and off. The only reason they got together was because my brother found out he was the father of their now 3-year-old. They can never seem to stay together for more than 3 months at a time. But each and every single time they break up, they end up getting back together. They are together now and I found out today that he's going to ask her to marry him. The problem is this girl has caused nothing but problems for me & my family. I have an aunt who won’t even come to family gatherings if my brother's girlfriend will be there. She likes to cause problems and not a whole lot of people in my family even remotely like her. She's also had my brother thrown in jail for no reason at all when they were separated. How he can take her back after that is beyond me. I don't think she's good for him at all. I know he can do a lot better than her. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to see him marry this girl but I also want him to do what he thinks will make him happy. What do you guys think I should do? Sorry this was so long...
hey! well, maybe you personally should talk to your brother one on one about it...and tell him everything that you just said. ask him if he really even loves the girl or are they just getting married cuz they have a kid. i kno you might not want to but i mean remind him that she has gotten him put in jail and that she does create problems with the family. and if he still wants to marry her...then let him...its totally his decision..and if he loves this girl SOO much then no one can change that...
can you answer these: 1. whats cyber sex and what do you say during it? do? 2. whats oral sex? is it just talking? what do u say?
hey well cyber sex is lyk over the internet...its just lyk talking about sex in lyk a horny way over the internet ....oral sex is when girls suck guys dicks...and also when guys lyk kiss girls pussys...
my friend is so annyong and i dont know how to get ride of her and she is allways comin up to me and bossin my around and she has such a nasty mind and i have no idear wher she gets it from but she blamin a lot o nasty stuff on me like i went on a nasty website wat the hell is the matter with her mind i cant get rid of her because she is allway like commin up to my door and askin my mom where i am an d just lets her in and then she like she the fuckin boss tellin me what to do like its her fuckin house and i am fuckin fed up wit her shit n if i say i dont want to be her friend she will just keep comen back i did not say anny think or what i said dose not matter i mean how the fuck can i get ridd of her or stop her from bossin e around and or stop her from from blamin these nasty things on me plz help PS I ONLY RATE FIRST 9
hey...well if you dont really want to be her friend...then tell her.let her kno all the things that annoy you about her...and maybe she'll try and work harder to stop them..or when she comes over..just lyk totally ignore her and lyk watch tv the whole time...lyk she needs to get the idea that you dont lyk her and dont wanna be her friend anymore. and also, tell your mom that you dont lyk her anymore and tell your mom that you guys are just growing apart and that you cant stand her. ask your mom to please not let her in when youre not home becasue you dont feel lyk dealing with her when you come home...dont let her be your friend when you dont want her to ....your better then that!
My hair is too plain and i am going back to school soon and i want something different then just in a pony tail does any body have step by step hair tips to give me a better look?
i am desperate!!!!
well you could get a perm lyk wavy hair...thats what im doin..and lyk i dunno look online for maybe some hair tips...or lyk curl your hair...or something....you can make your hair look awesome and cute...just look for something to copy off of!!
You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways.
hey well the answer simple....if you dont wanna throw up then dont eat lyk 5 hrs before you go on the plane ride...so this way you wont have anything to throw up!!!
I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do?
well , you cant make someone lyk hyou ....and if your best friend doesnt lyk her lyk that then you should just tell her how you feel about her...and even if she doesnt lyk u lyk that at least she knos and she can keep her options open...ya kno? and even if your best friend and here do go out you should still tell her..cuz its best that she knows how you feel about her...
Hey! I have thick, wavy dark brown hair that goes a few inches past my shoulders in the front..does anyone know how to scrunch hair..well with like the type of hair I have? Please Help =D
well, if you have wavy hair then it shouldnt be that hard to scrunch it and you prolly wont need a lot of gel.....just put some gerl on your hands, rub your hands together and just lyk scrunch your hair so the gel gets on your hair...if you want to lyk really really scruch your hair then put tons of gel and hairspray...but make sure you scruch all of your hair....its easy once you get the hang of it...and itll look awesome if you do it right...
At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee
hey...well just start talking to a person...or if you see a person sitting by themselves at your luinch period then just ask her/him if you could sit with them....im going into hs this year and i wont no barely anyone...and im soo scared cuz im afriad i wont make any friends...cuz im shy too...but thats what im gona do...if i all see a person sitting alone at the lunch table im gona ask if i could sit with her..or good ways of meeting new people is introducing yourself...or maybe asking someone to be your partner in gym class or a school project or we...there are tons of ways of meeting new people you just need to be confident and believe in yourself that you can achieve your goal...
i dont know how to flirt and i wish i did... how do you flirt??
lol...well theres no lyk right or wrong way of flirting...some girls laugh at stuff the guy says wheb other people dont think its that funny....some girls hit the guys...some girls touch them...or some girls are just around the guy they lyk all the time....theres lyk no right wya to flirt...you just do it...so lyk dont "try" to flirt with the guy...when you do it you wont even realize that youre doing it...its just a natural way of acting around a person you lyk..
Should I have sex at 15
no i dont think you should, i mean live your life and cherish your teen days!..15 is to young...i kno lots a teens are having sex early these days...but to have sex you need to be in love...really really in love...and you might think that you are but really no teen can feel the full strenth of love that a married couple have for each other.im 15 and im waiting till i get married to have sex...or maybe ill do it when im 18 or 19....but i have to kno that HES THE ONE! if u have unprotected sex at 15 and have the baby life will be diffulcult...everything will change for you. and your parents could be against you and mad at you for having sex and getting pregnant....and then lyk just thing how life will suck...youll have to pay for clothes for the baby and everything else, you might have to quit school and get a job, if you dont ever go back to school you may end up working in some low paying job, lyk a fast food restaurant. definitly never have unprotected sex at age 15..its just so wrong..but most of all dont even have sex..sex is a meaningful thing and your supposed to have it with a person that you really really love! i hope you choose the right decision and dont let me down or yourself! keep in touch with me...but remember what i said...
this is goin to sound REALLY werid and maybe distubbing but i need an outside opinon,
i have seen my cousin, 2 times in my WHOLE life, me and my family stayed there for a weekend the second time, me and him slept outside in the tent cuz there was no rooms in the house, seperate, or anythig so we jsut slept out there and he kept putting moves on me! and touching me like, ( a boyfirend ) would do, i was getting really uncomfortable then when i was goin to sleep he pulled nice in close to me, and then he started kissing me then we started to make out i then id stop and tell him this is wrong he said we barley see each other so its allright but i didnt' agree i went back to trying to fall a sleep and then he started goin down my pajama pants and he FINGERD me, for liek 3-5 seconds cuz i pushed him off, i don't feel comfortable to even talk to him on the computer anymore and i can't TELL anyone cuz they'll think im like discusting what do you guys think?
well first of all i think its just WRONG for him to be doing that....if you tell someone i dont think that theyll think ur disgusting cuz it wasnt your fault it was his for doing all that stuff...a guy and esp. a cousin shouldnt be doing that stuff to you when they barely even kno you...