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Q: Okay well this guy who claims he "likes" or "loves" me or whatever.When we talk it seems like he really does like me but then he'll suddenly tell me that he has a crush on some girl and then he'll be like are you mad? and then ill just say i dont care when i really do because he's kinda messin around with my feelings you know? and then like the next time we talk he'll jsut ignore the whole conversation we like just had the day before or like just a minute ago.I mean he tells me when he thinks certain girls are hot and stuff it just kinda bugs me but i try to look past it because i know guys have their hormones going and like they dont usually like or one certain girl,but i was just wondering if he really does like me,and why would he tell me about what other girls he thinks are hott or he likes like whats the point of doing that? or is it just a thing all guys do ?
thank you.
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all guys do that. it is just their hormones.
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Q: For the past 2 years ive been afrade of being locked in small areas for a long amount of time
when i go into elivators my heart beats extremly fast and i get realy worried that im going to get stuck
my parents always say "its just your mind messing with you" but its really annoying and my friends think im weird
Ahhhhh!
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Try not to think about that kind of stuff. Think good things like there is a hott guy or girl next to you or something like that.AbBeY
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Q: i have an interview with academy sports and outdoors tomaro @ 11:00. is it okay to wear jeans? or should i go for something a little nicer?
thanks.
♥BLAiR
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i think they would be fine but if you dont no then i would wear maybe something a little more nicer. AbBeY!!!
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Q: So I have two really great friends. At one time we were all friends together. But last year, I was stuck in the middle, and my two friends stopped being friends. But I was still friends with each of them. Both of my friends have different 'groups' of friends, whom im in both groups. I'm having a party this Summer, and I want to invite all of my friends. (Which are my two friends, and BOTH of their groups.) I'm really stuck between who to invite, cause I love them both, but I know some fighting drama will most likely go down if they both come, and it'll all just be ruined. I really love both of them, and I feel if i don't invite one or the other, someone's feelings will get hurt. What should I do?
(PS - I can't have two different parties.)
Thank You!
xoxo
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Talk to them about it ask if they can all just be friend just for this party.Tell them you can only have one party and you want to invite all of them.AbBeY
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Q: A couple days ago, on myspace, I was on my friends page, and I saw this guy [one of his skater friends] and I thought he was hott and he lives in my town, and he's my age, so I figured I'd add him as a friend because there are good chances of us already knowing each other. Well it turned out to be one of my ex-boyfriends from a few years ago. You know. We dated when we were young. I was like 13-14 or something. Now I am 17 & He's 18. Well when we were together he liked me a lot and he was really sweet and everything. Like a perfect boyfriend, but we were young, so it really didn't matter. Well now we found out who each other is, and we can't believe we are talking again after these years have gone by. Well the problem is, I have been talking to him again for a couple of days and we talk on the phone and stuff, but he tells me how cute I am, and he brags about me, and he TELLS ME HE LOVES ME. I don't know what to do. I don't want to ignore him anymore, I just want to be friends because I have my most recent ex boyfriend whom I love very much and he just got a job for me and everything.
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Tell this guy how you feel and im sure hell understand
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Q: I'm in really bad pain. My head is stuffed up, so is my nose. I've been achey all over, my head hurts. I've been so cold, yet so hot at the same time. I also have no appetite and my throat is killing me, feels like I have a ball in the back of my throat. I'm light headed and dizzy, I don't now what's wrong. Do you? Please help.
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its either really bad allergies or a cold or maybe even strep.Try a docter.AbBeY!!!
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Q: so story is me and my boyfriend were having unprotected sex saturday (27). yes i know, very bad, but we were just trying it for a second. he kept going and finally pulled out and was like oh shit. i looked down and the cum was coming out. i asked him if he pulled out in time but he didnt know. now im freaking out because i havent gotten my period. i was due the 27-30. we looked ovulation up and it said the days before your period your infertile. could it just be stress that is keeping me from getting it or should i go to the doctor? please help. i rate 5's
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i would see a docter to be safe because you never know. Dont be scared it will be ok.AbBeY!!
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Q: alright so heres the deal. me and this guy used to go out. we went out like 6 times, and one time was almost for a year. He's always the one dumping ME, but somehow we end up back together again. Six months ago,he broke up with me so were not currently going out, but i still really like him, and i think he likes me again, too.Maybe he changed, but Im not sure if i should just keep giving him chances? but i really like him. Do you think its a good idea if we go out? Or should i just get over him? THANKS ALOT.
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I think you should tell him your true feelings . You cant just let him go.Then you would be more misserable. Let him know how you feel.AbBeY!!!
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Q: I'm almost 16. I had a wonderful boyfriend of 8 months. We have been through everything and survived it all. & now he's sick of trying. I need to show him that we can do this, forever. I'll give lots more details if you want to help. Please don't reply if you're just going to tell me to move on.
-Gabohh
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Sit down with him and talk with him. You've had a wonderful relationship for 8 months and you wouldnt want to mess this up would you.Ask him what needs to be changes and what you could do better. AbBeY!!!
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Q: Okay. This is kinda gross. My feet smell and it's a disgusting odor. It's really embarressing if you go to someone's house and have to take your shoes off. Is there a way I can control the odor? Please help!!
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Try lotion!! With a good scent
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Q: Ok, so theres this guy and I like him. He flirts with me a lot, but idk if it's intentional or not. We have a really small class and I'm the only girl he admits being friends with. We used to talk a lot. He told me he thought I was the prettiest girl in our class {but keep in mind we have a super small class}. Then, I wanted to go out and he pretty much said no bc he thought I was ugly. Since, then we're still friends, but I have no self esteem. Guys give me compliments, but it doesn't matter bc I always think back to what that guy said. I'm just confused because there's always "accidents" in which he'll hit my ass or boob, but I'm the only girl it happens to with him. Everyone thinks he likes me and that I like him. I just don't know what to do, I moved on but then he kept coming back and flirting so, what should I do? sorry its long, I do rate!!
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Well start by having some confidence and raise your self esteem. Tell him how you really feel. Hope I helped!! AbBeY!!
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Q: 13/m ok well my gf was at this party and she was cold and went to sit next to this guy who she has known since she was born (btw i wasnt at party with her) anyways she was cold and he said come sit next to me ill warm you up and so she did and she went over sat next to him and he asked do u wanna kiss and she said ok not thinking and they madeout....and me and her only madeout 1 time and she makeout with him 5 times in a row like stopped and did it again 5 times then they stopped then he grabbed her hand and like made her give him a handjob....well....she felt REALLY bad after it remembering me and everything and she told me and told me she was REALLY sry and she thinks shes a whore and i should break up with her but i love her to much and i made her swear never to do it again as long as we were going out and she agreed and so now i dont know what to do!!!
should i break up with the love of my life cause she made a HUGE mistake?
but she told me instead of keeping it a secrete and i donno!!!
HELP PLEASE!!!!
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i think she did the rite desision of telling the truth and i think you should stay together a while longer and if she does it again then break up!! AbBeY!!
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Q: When you shave are you supposed to shave the upper part of your leg too? I never have because the hairs are so light you can notice...but are you supposed to?
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You dont have to but if they are noticable i would
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Q: Well this is my first time babysitting by myself w/ younger kids. I have done a little 6 year old with my friend, but now i have a 2 year old girl and a 4 year old boy. Im sorta nervous b/c i just saw when a stranger calls! lol. So my question is: is there anything i need to know before i go? How much to charge, emergencies, cautions, questions to ask the parents? ill rate! thanks so much!
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Well You should charge maybe 5$ an hr , then ask parents when they will be home, where will they be, phone numbers,stuff like that
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Q: Heyy. I just wanted to know what clothing stores you reccomend. I'm looking to buy new clothes for summer. Maybe links and such. Just cute clothes from different sotres that you like. Just not super duper expencive. I like Delias, but I can't fit into they're jeans (too big), and I like forever 21. I even like Abercrombie. I would aslo like to know some stores that you might think I could fit into they're jeans. I'm rather small. 00's don't fit me, unless they run small.
Thanks so much for your time!
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try aeropostle or hollester or even weat seal.
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Q: I was mothers-helpering for my neighbor. I had no clue how much she should of paid me. When she gave me the money, I felt she over paid me. One time, for just an hour, she gave me $8. Today, for just 45 min, she gave me $6! Is this too much? (Mothers helpering is when you watch the kids while one of their parents are home) The kids didnt really require that much. There are 2 of them (one 1 year old and one 4 year old.) How much should she pay me per hour?
Also... when I babysit them.. how much should she pay me?
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It depends on how long. I would say maybe 5$ an hour
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Q: what age can kids start to babysit other kids?
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Q: I'm sorta going to try a diet. Liek eatin 4 small meals a day. And maybe walking around the block 2-3 times a day. Do you think this will work?
And if not can u explain why not please??
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Dont try to eat small meals just eat healthier meals instead.AbBeY
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Q: Okay, so I'm having a party for the end of the school year and I want to invite guys. Here;s the problem, the ratio of my close guy friends to close girl friends is about 5:15 or 1:3. Thats'a going to be a realy awakrd gap for the guys because some of them aren't great friends with the others, but I still want to invite the guys. Should I add at the bottom of the invitation, "Invite some of your guy friends, or it will be uneven numbers, but tell me whose coming."?
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You should say maybe "to make it funner invite some of ur buds" then put a mx like5max.AbBeY!!!
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Q: okay, so i have curly and frizzy and not very shiny hair ..does anyone know a good product for straightening? something that can get it unfrizzed and straighten and make it shiny if possible? i need something that really works, please help! i will rate highh!
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Try a very good straightner. Then get this stuff . it is called Redken Smooth Down. It helps staighten hair and takes away the frizz.
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bio
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\abbey and water.jpg)
Ask and i promise ill answer the best i can!!!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: St. Louis Occupation: Student Age: 13 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: May 30, 2006 Answers: 48 Last Update: June 17, 2006 Visitors: 4031
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