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I need help. I am going through a lot at this time of my age. My parents are at the edge of getting divorced, school is getting very difficult and the problem is my whole entire family is counting on me( i am have a extremely very big family).. I have my whole life planed out such as my carreers and the steps i will be taking. so much is going through my mind and i really need some to trust and talk to not only for a day. Any suggestions.
P.S. i have even bigger problems than this and i am only 13. (link)
Everyone may seem like there really counting on you btu everyone is goin through a hard time. when my parents divorced i almost got sent to a hospital for sucideal people and like awhole bunch of other stuff. life got really hard but im gettin through and talk bout it or write it out. and ur pillow can be ur best friend and it wont say a word. lol but u know try to live a lil u have only one life and its a short on(but its the longest thing u have). if ya wanna chat send me a message i could help you or maybe i can find someone who can


Do all your questions return to the asker being gay (i.e. you're one of the stupidest dumbasses on the planet) or are you just being super-moronic at random. Either way you're a horrid idiot. (link)
omg i hate that. totalhottie needs to get a life and y did this site delete my question askin if she was gay???????????????????


Hey yall,

First of all I want to thank all the people who helped me with my last question.I loved the advice.Thank you!

Ok my next question is about me and my bestfriend.
My bestfriend means alot to me, I mean i've know her for 4 years but.Recently she moved away from my neighborhoo,and not in walking distance.So when she moved I started hanging out with my new next door friend.We now hang out all the time like me and my bestfried use to do before she moved.My bestfriend is now taking it as though i'm tryna replace her. But i'm not.I mean she said that she don't like the fact that i'm slowly replacing her and I need to choose who do I want to be friends with more.Who should I choose? My bestfriend or my close friend.Both of them mean alot to me. I'm confused!

Love Apple (link)
Didn't you know that you can have more then one best friend?


I think my big toe is interesting. I know that's weird, but I can't help staring at it. What should I do?! (link)
think about it realy really long and after awhile you wil forget wut ur thinking and also try this...
so to a street curb or something else that isnt to high. stand at the edge and pertend ur falling off a a cliff. dont just walk jump and keep ur eyes closed. its really fun and funny if u gte someone else to try it and they pretend to hard:)


i'm a 16 yr old wo has been bullied for 9 nine years. Mostly fopr the pure reason of my apperance. I live in a family of five in a one parent family. I arn't the kind of kid to ask for everything maybe coz i no we cart afford it. At school i have at least 90 kids bullying me about my appearance and teaseing me. We i started igh school i had a group of friends but now the popular person in the group lost a bit of weight and turned into a bitch saying i could never get that size because im a size 16. Sjhe is aware i am being bullied. Now i have no friends at school cart go to half my lessons coz its so bad. I arn't jelsous of them i just no why people say be proud to be different if ppl just bully u. Ive been to the doctors about depresstion and the school nurse. A man who deals with suidal people sat in on one of out conversations but i guess i wasnt that important. I cart look ppl in the eyes anymore i have so much pain in my heart and feel so unhappy for something i cart change. I no the bullying wont stop but i just want to no why i souldf be the one feeling lonely upset and made to feel different coz i have ginger hair and dont wear adidas. (link)
ok u know that sayin i maybe fat ur ugly i can loss weight. well if it is a weight probly the similarize ur eatin portains. also if u shop for pants around july 23 there the cheapest,, u can chan ged ur whole look and then u may feel betta. im the same but no one bullies me. i hold my head up high a nd just say hi to people who look nice then u make the greatest friends tha t way. if ya wanna cgat and trade storys email me at issa88@msn.com or give me urs uif ur shy


my guy friend...lets call him gary...he likes to wrestle with me but i dont like it cuz i get hurt most the time and im really bad at it. everytime i finally sit down he tells me 2 get up or he pulls me up and keeps wrestling with me. how can i tell him i dont wanna wrestle without him getting mad or pulling me up and doing it anyway?

signed,
ouch (link)
My brother used to do the same thing next time he tries do it outside. When you two start try and get his eyes into the sun then u will win after awhile he will get mad and stop


i like this boy in my class and thar is this outhe girl that likes hem to but i like hem more he sead that he did not like her but she still wont leave hem a lone he sead he wood reather go out with me then her but not this year what dew i dew when i now he likes me but he wont tack to me i haft to tack to hem and we have a lot in komen but he still wont lisean even thoe he likes me what do i do.


Sinded love is heard (link)
hes a loser i wouldnt even try to go wit him


Does it hurt to get your ears pierced or your nose or your cartilige or whatever????? (link)
no it dosent but the alcohal may sting a lil when they use it to clean the area and the nose it really depends


I told my friends and family that I was thinking of becoming a lesbian and they just laughed. What do i do to make them believe me? (link)
just show them


MY BEST FRIEND IS MOVING TO NEW YORK AND I AM ACROSS THE U.S. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
do wut i did cry for a few days cry wit ur friend and do ur best to stay in tounch unfortunalty my friend forgot how to call but you really need to try and keep in touch the pain will go away


I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused (link)
wut eva you do DONT DO ANYTHING STUPID!!!1 its not ur fault there the ones who have parents that arent around and dont care bout them so its not your fault its just there way of gettin attention and everything will change in h.s. just hold on until then
tt4n


I have a lot of debt (long story) including some that are now on my credit report. I am near bankruptcy, although I am not seriously considering it at this time.

I was wondering, if I had extra money to pay off debts, which should come first?

Current credit card debts - because the average interest is about 20%

Student loans - although the interest is low (around 5%) this can never be included in bankruptcy.

Car loans - although the interest is lower than credit cards, your car can be reposessed and a car is essential if you want to be employed.

Bad debts on the credit report - they have given up trying to get me to pay. If I pay these, my credit rating will improve, but at this point there is probably not much advantage.

Save money instead of paying debets - I can see saving for an emergency, but I think there is not much point in this situation.

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you can put ur credit card debt on a different card with a lower interst it will save you money and depends on how long you have to pay off ur student loan to c if you wanna pay for that


ummm lets see is any one here lds? because if u r i would like to chat (link)
ld?


OK IM 13 IN 8TH GRADE AND IM 5'6 AND WEIGH 130 LBS THATS LIKE SO FAT IM TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT I WANT TO GET DOWN TO AT LEAST 115 IM JUST FAT IN MY STOMACH WELL KINDA OF AND IM MOSTLY MUSCLE CUZ I LIFT HEAVEY THINGS AND PLAY SOCCER SO MY LEGS ARE MOSTLY MUSCLE BUT I THINK IM TO FAT FOR MY AGE I MEAN IM ON A DIET THE FAT FREE ONE BWECAUSE I WANT TO LOOK GOOD IN MY BIKINI BY MAY OR APRIL SO DO U THINK IM TOO FAT AND COULD U TELL ME SOME GOOD WAYS TO GET SKINNY I WANT TO LOOK LIKE PARIS HILTON BECAUSE THE BOY I LIKE WHICH IS MY NEIGHBOR SAYS THAT SHES HOT AND UR PROABABLY GOING TO SAY NOT TO CHANGE MYSELF FOR HIM BUT I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR MY NEIGHBOR HE IS THE MAN OF MY DREAMS!!! HELP ME !!!! (link)
you want to lose weight well i have a way and its weird it works till ur like at the rite weight and u still can eat wut eva u want
all you have to do is eat on of them green apples every mornig and since ur in soccer you wont need to walk after skol but if ur off of soccer like walk round ur block like 2 time if small and this way you can eat wut u want lose the weight then look great
*have phun to*


Has everyone who posts here forgotten the basic rules of grammer?

Do they not know how to turn off CAPS LOCK?

Do they not know how to capitalise the letter I?

I refuse to answer any question that is unreadable because the author cannot be bothered to write properly. (link)
okey dokey


well i used to live with my step mom. she was very abusive in many ways (ie) telling me i was worthless, throwing things at me, forgeting about me all kinds of thing she once made me stand in a corner from sunrise to sunset for 6 days straight but im getting off topic...im now no longer living there i was able to move in with my father who i realized that i wanted to live with after i could see through all the brainwashing done by my mother.... now its been a few months since i last saw her let alone talk to her...yet after all of the pains she has caused me i keep trying to reachout and make contact with her. i called her to wish her a happy new year and merry christmas and she never called me back to even say hi. yet im still filled with a conpulsion to call her once more and try all over agian. each time i do this im thrown into a depression that is hard to get out of. should i keep trying to reach out or should i go about it another way. please help

lost in fl. (link)
do u really live in florida if so contact me at issa88@msn.com
and wut skol u go to if you do live in florida cause i know a few people who have the same situation


I clicked their names ask them a question and all fo a sudden it appears int he public, im so madd! (link)
that has happen to me to


I need to go out of town for like a week. Is it worse to give my plants tons and tons of water before I leave, just just give them the normal amount of water and let them wilt some when they run out and hope I can bring them back to life when I'm back? (link)
fill a 2 liter bottle of water and attached a straw at the when to go to leave shove teh straw in the soil so water can drip out slowly and ur plants wont be as bad when you get back or have someone look after them for you


I am a 31-year-old divorcee with a 4-year-old son. I also am charged with caring for my developmentally disabled 33-year-old brother, who has the mental capacity of 8-year-old. My son's father is moving next week, and taking my child with him. I will not see my son again until Christmas, and then after that not until April. I am devastated that the family courts here in Seattle have allowed this to happen (no, there's nothing wrong with me...my ex just won), and I am now at a loss as to how to handle this. I can't stop crying, I can't take the time off my new job to go to therapy, and I have to be careful falling apart at home because it scared my brother.

HELP? (link)
ok first you can still talk to your son i know its not the way u want it but at least you can keep in touch and until then you can refiled for ur son and plus with you big borther u should win next time. bout your crying just try and think happy thoughts like butterflys. you can talk to your brother to he make act like an eight year old but u kever know he might be able to make you feel better to and if you need any support u can chat wit me ill be able to listen so if you have yahoo here my s/n insanerubberducky@yahoo.com
chat soon i hope


Look I have this boyfriend his name is Buddah and he has a drinking and drug habit and wont stop until he get's probation.Also there's this perfect boy in school name Maurice and he want's to go with me,So should I break up with Buddah and go with Maurice or stay with Buddah??????? (link)
go wit Maurice u dont liek whats buddah is doin so go out wit maurice and c how it go's




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