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Q: This may sound disgusting, but my pee is hardly yellow at all and its really freaking me out. Please!!! help!!

If your pee is clear then that means that you are hydrated but if its another color i would suggest going to a doctor

Q: I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all.

OMG same i love hanging out with boys (no it's not like we are hitting on each other but they are just sooo much easier to talk to then girls) so no its alright i would just be friends with them both and just hang out with them both (not at the same time) if you hang out with them together let me tell you boys change soooo much they won't talk to you like they will be nice and everything when your not around your other friends but then when you are with both (boys+girls) the boys will act like they dont even know you (or at least thats how its like with my friends that happen to be boys)

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Q: i just found out my bf is gay! i don't have anything against gays but i mean... it's my BOYFRIEND! what should i tell him and how should i react. this is really hard for me!
please help!
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Oh god that really sucks..but you should just except him for who he is and just tell him that you know he likes guys and you are alright with it but that you cant continue this relationship(thats if you havent broken up yet). but remember when you are telling him this let him talk too and be very open minded about what he has to say

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Q: Im looking for a dog, and i dont like small dogs. My mom however, if like pretty afraid of big dogs, a neat freak, and cant stand dominent dogs. I really wanted a Lab or a Pit bull, but my mom says that labs are way too active for her, and pitbulls of course were always out of the question. I also really like huskies. i was wondering, do you know if they are like hyperactive and likely to jump on you like labs? i have a large back yard, and a big house.
THANX SO MUCH. i rate high.

I actually have a Husky German Shepard mix and my dog is wild as hell..he gets very excited very fast BUT he is themost well behaved dog that I have ever met so no they don't jump unless they get too excited..(tip: if you are going to get one i would train it bc when you first get them they are out of control. but that might just be bc mine is part german shepard)

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Q: ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do?

Ok well I know that if someone likes me I won't like them because I (like most people) want to work for it and just don't want someone to be there who likes them...soo my suggestion is don't try to stop liking him just don't talk about him and don't make it look like you like him because then he may like you and if he asks why you don't like him just say, "Well you don't like me so why waste my time" yep it always works trust me\

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Q: Ok I am a girl and i have a Boyfriend and I really Love him and the sex we have is fun and enjoyable........but......like a week ago my best friend whho is a girl came over and we were watching t.v. and suddenly we started kissing and then we had lesbian sex but I really love my boy friend but i might feel something for my best friend to so am i a lesbian or am i stright should i go for the guy or girl?

Ok you are bi it's not bad or anything but if i were you i would go for the guy or hey just have a 3som

Q: i was talking to my gf on the phone when one of her friends started telling stuff that i dont know about her like she thinks this guys is hot and bunch of other stuff...so....i asked her to tell me everything cause a bunch ppl told me the same thing....and now she told me and i feel bad cause some of them are because of me......and i love her but i dont know how to tell im really sry. i have gone to her friends for help....none of them know what to do.....so please help me...?

Well tell her that you are sorry and if your gonna write on here again i suggest that you be more clear about what you are talking about bc i have no cule what you talking about sooo yeah just tell her how you feel and it's no big deal if she thinks some other guy is hott i mean your the one whos going out with her right? i always tell my bf that i think other guys are hott and i mean it does bother him but he gets over it and in the end he knows that i love him so just let it go haha im prolly not helping at all and im sorry

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Q: i need to find a new bedspread. my mom told me to look online but i cant find any i really like. i already looked at www.pbteen.com and all the department stores i can think of. does any one know where i can find a cute bed spread? 15/f

One Word "Ross" cheap and some stuff is nice

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Q: okay, even though i give out advice i need it for my room,

my room is being painted blue, and chesnut stained floor, and a mission kind of furnitur, its all dark, like everything, now i neeed things liike a bedspread or something like so, does anyone know here to get things like that??

x0o

brok3n

A really cheap place to go is Ross they have good stuff but not expensive at all

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Q: Alright So i need some songs..
I have an ipod that i take about everywhere with me and i only have 160 songs on it..
N i was just wonderin if you can give me some songs..If this helps im a guy`
Im into Punk-Rock..Rock..Alternative..Punk..
Here are some people I like..
Papa Roach
My Chemical Romance
Blink 182
Yellow Card
Green Day
Bowling For Soup
The Killers..
And all that kind of music..`
``I`ll Rate High For Decent Music..
Or if its music by the groups I didnt list but have on my ipod`

Well "Sugar We're Going Down" by Fall Out boy is a great song...but for the songs that you like hmm...Papa Roach..."scars"..."Take Me" those are the ones that i like the most by them...My Chemical Romance..I don't really like them but their song "Helena" is pretty good...OMFG I LOVE Blink 182!! get their songs..."Feeling This", "I Miss You", "First Date", "Adam's Song", "All The Small Things" those are my FAVORITE songs by Blink 182...k i don't really like Yellow Card but there is "Ocean Avenue" (yeah old song)..hmm soo Green Day i love them too

Q: WEll me and my boy friend diego have been dating for almost 4 years now( im 17 he is 18) and well we both love each other. he even promised me many times the day i turn 18 he is proposing to me which happens to be in about 3 weeks. well his birthday was a couple of days ago (our birthdays arent that far apart) any ways well on his birth day him and his guy friends went to a club. there diego saw an old friend from when he lived in mexico. well they started talking and some how he got a hold of some drinks and he got really drunk and him and his friend Andrea went back to his house and had sex. i found this out through him only cause i got lucky with such an honest man. he said he was drunk and he saduced him. well i believe the seducing part because i had met her when we went to mexico so i could meet his family and she was all over him. well any ways im still really in love with him and hes the one and only person i have ever had sex wit and for me that means alot cause im am definantly not easy. i really love him. we talk were each others best friends and lovers and everything else. i am still going out with him but i dont knwo since he promised me when i trun 18 he is going to propose to me should i say yes our should i wait and see if this happens again cause im really confused and i dont know if i should say yess or iff i shouldd sayy lets wait a little while to see cause i have always thought im gona say yes. i dont knwo what imm gonna do

PLEASE HELP!!

~Princess Ava~

If your asking if you should say yes or no or wait a while you oviously don't want to because if you really wanted to marry this guy you wouldn't be asking, and personally i believe you should do and say what you feel at them moment and only you can tell you what to do so i wouldn't listen to any of these people bc half of them have no idea what they are talking about

Q: What is your opinion of hippies?

weirdos

Q: 14/f

How often should you change the your razor head for shaving your legs/under arms/pubic area? There's nothing on the box. I use Venus if that helps.

i also use a venus and i change it every week

Q: what are some places you can download music to the ipod.. i cant use iTunes because i dont know how to download the songs and i dont have an account

well the only logical answer is to make an account stupid

Q: I'm thinking about getting the top of my ear periced does anyone know how much it hurts? and if it is worth getting it done?

ive had my ears pierced two times and it only hurt the first time (kindergarden) a very little like you cant feel it at all and yes it is worth it

xoxox im_falling_4_u

Q: I was wondering if anyone could give me the links to any (or as many) of these songs. Please. Or a website where to look. I'd prefer links though. But whatever works! :)

1. Two become one - spice girls
2. You know what they do to guys like us in Prison -My Chemical Romance
3. I will remember you -Sarah McLachlen
4.Swing life away by rise against.
5.girl - destiny's child
6."Best Friends" by Missy Elliot
7.use my shoulder - jojo
8. My Best Friend-Tim McGraw
9. Kryptonite-3 doors down
10. Ill back you up-Dave Mathews Band
11.Best Friend- S club 7

ok heres a really good website that you can find those songs (i think) and more http://search.freefind.com/find.html?id=91070158
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Q: i have an emergency question, im going to the pool in 45 minutes with my friend and im on my period. tampons are so uncomfortable for some reason, but my period is extremely light. i was wondering if i could get away with no tampon

yes you can just dont stand in one place for a long time

Q: ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months,and we never go anywhere, and thats because of me, i just dont feel right around him but i like him and all, and im pretty sure he likes me more then i like him, and in the past couple of days, well ive been talking to this boy johnny, and hes absouloutly my type, and i told him i liked him and he said liked me back, he said he would wait till me and my boyfriend brake up, but i like my boyfriend to!, so i dont know what to do cause he likes me so much and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i like him and johnny, please help im stuck

ha my bfs name is johnny lol and that same exact thing happened to me too like we didnt go anywhere and he loved me but i didnt like him alot so he dumped me for another girl then we got back together and have been happy ever since

so just go for it and dump your bf and just say that you only want to go out with him if you are %100 happy and you arent right now and you might wanna go back out later then go out with johnny

hope i helped xox