well my name is destiny.... i have the best boy friend i could ever ask for and i love him more than any person or anything in this world... i have been through A LOT in my life and i can try my best to answer any question that you ask. i cant promise it will be as good as someone elses but i can try my hardest to give you the best answer that i can...
E-mail: prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
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Age: 15
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14/f im really like this guy and he like me back alot but hes really influenced by people. and i mean if you tell him to ask someone out.....he will probally do it. the reason why im not going out with him is because i want to be able to get him to ask me out by myself i dont want other people talking to him. hes went out with 2 girls but he didnt even like him, he went out with them because all of their little friends asked him to go out with them because they cant do it themselves. he promises me he wont listen to other people and he will listen to himself but i dont know ... should i just give up or keep trying? (link)
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if i were you i would keep trying... and if he really does like you then he will do like he promised and not let other people influence his oppion of you. and he will go out with you willingly if he really likes you! hope i helped!
Destiny
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well i was raped when i was younger and i just wanted to talk to someone who has been raped before as well... is there anyone out there that wants to talk? it would help both of us... (link)
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im here to talk!
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you know what stys are right? well i think i have them. they are like all over my eyes! i have like 3 on one side and 1 on the other and one or two are going away but theres still some you know? well i was wondering how do u get rid of them? (link)
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when i get them my aunt tells me to put at really hot wash rag on my eye, and it usually soothes the pain. im not really sure if it gets them to go away faster, but mine dont hurt as bad after that... hope i helped!
Destiny
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hey, i added you as a favorite, and i was wondering, who is jared lee burns? is he a movie star or like your boyfriend or something?
thanks
LaX=SeX (link)
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haha.... yeah hes my boyfriend! but thanks for the add!
destiny
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i gave head on july 11th. and now i have 3 canker sores in my mouthhh...do i have herpes? or is that a sign...should i get it checked oout.... (link)
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i would.... i dont know how long it takes to show the break out but i wouldnt take any chances if i were you.... but thats probably your best bet to find out... hope i helped!
destiny
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i've had my period a lot lately. like i'll have it all month, then have a couple days of not having it. so, my mom said she might put me on the pill.... what are the short term & long term side affects of the pill? do you have to go to a gynocologist to get this? =[ and what will it do for me (like, how often will i have my period & what will it be like, etc.) do you recomend this, or no? thanks. (link)
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yes you have to go to the gynocologist, but it will make your period come about ever 28 days... which is normal... and it shouldnt be really really heavy or really really light, it should be about normal, light when you start heavy in the middle and light at the end.... or your normal heaviness of your period.... i think its a good idea if your having your period basically all month.... it will regulate you and you will be so much better! hope i helped!
Destiny
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How do I get my boyfriend, (From two years ago) back? We flirt sometimes, but we weren't in classes together last year. He's the perfect guy, like exactly what I look for. I'm great at flirting, and it'll seem like he likes me. But, I want us to go back out again. The new school year will be starting soon, maybe we'll get classes together. Tips? (link)
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just talk to him about it.... thats all i really can tell you right now.... just tell him about your feelings for him.... and if he really likes you back then yall might be able to get back together! hope i helped!
Destiny!
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ok im scared senseless of using a tampon like im jus scared itll hurt. ive tried puttin one in like 3 times & i cant even do it bc i tense up so bad. ive heard people say that you cant even feel it when its in but ive also heard ppl say you can feel it just enough to tell its inside you soo which is it??? (link)
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well i cant ever tell when i have them in... unless it is to big. thats usually the only time that i feel it while i am using them! hope i helped!
Destiny
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i have been chatting a girl for months and she gave indications that she is interested, she also talked me on phone, but i made a mistake that i started talking her everyday on the phone, and that made her a little bit angry. she told me not to call her anymore because of her family. We still chat on the net. But now she is like that if we talk everyday on the net she pretends that if she is not very much interested anymore, but if we dont talk for 3-4 days she starts complaining that why i dont come to the net etc.
the situation is somewhatlike that if i come towards her she runs away and if i dont come towards her she starts complain. That sucks,
NOW what i simply want is either to leave her completely or to make that relationship better.
but this situation is a puzzle for me,
1- what does she want?
2- what should i do, should i leave the situation as it is?
3- is this a natural problem with every woman?
Thanks (link)
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well... being a women and everything... if i really do like a person then i wouldnt complain about talking to them everyday. but that could just be me... or maybe she has a boyfriend and she just dont want to tell you that because i have been in that kinda situation and they really suck.... then again she could just be scared of a real relationship... try to talk to her like every other day and see what happens then... and if it dont get any better at all then just try to leave her alone about it... dont try to push anything and just hope for the best and expect the worst... but a lil heads up on computer b/f's and g/f's (they dont usually work out the way you'd expect them to).
hope i helped!
Destiny
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how to make friends in highschool?
cause im very very nervous (link)
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just be your self... its really not that hard once you get there i promise... high school aint really as bad as everyone makes it out to be... i was a freshman last year and its not all that bad...
Destiny
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Hello, I have two hickies from my boyfriend and I really really don't want my parents to see them, I try putting on make up but can totally see I'm wearing a bunch of make up and you can still kinda see the hickes!! Any tip to make them go away faster?? (link)
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there isnt a way to get them to go away faster you just have to cover them up and hope for the best... where your hair down and stuff and wait for em to go away... we have tried everything to get rid of my friends hickie we even froze a spoon as a last resort and it didnt go away..
hope i helped
Destiny
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Alright, before I ask my question I want you guys to know that even though it's kind of funny, I'm being completely 100% serious.
Last night I was over at a friends house and we found his step mom's...dildo. Well someone thought it'd be funny if we put Icy Hot on it so that whenever she uses it...well you know. I thought it'd be funny as well so I went with it. When I got home I realized that it was a pretty immature thing to do and I was questioning whether or not I should call her and tell her about it or to tell my friend to wash it off or something before she gets to it. What do y'all think I should do? Or should I just not say anything? (link)
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well if i were you i wouldnt have put anything on it for one... i wouldnt have even touched it cuz there aint no tellin what and where it could be used for but since ya cant change the past but you can change the future then i would just wash it off!
hope i helped!
Destiny
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Sorry if this is long..
Ok, well I'm going on vacation the 8th till the 19th and usually I'm totally excited and wanna go and just have an awesome time, but its weird ever since like the 5th I just havn't been myself. I don't wanna go on vacation and I dont know why. But the guy I reallly like left the 4th and won't come back the 8th, but I'l have a computer so I can still talk to him. But still I don't get why I feel almost sad and I don't wanna go on vacation, what person doesn't wanna go on vacation..well thanks for reading and if ya can please help! (link)
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i think that the reason you dont want to go on vacation is because you want to be able to see the guy you like... i know that when ever i have to leave for one weekend a month i cant stand it... not only because me and my mom dont get along but because i dont want to not be able to see my boy friend... i think that is why you dont want to leave is because you want to be able to see him and not just talk to him ya know... i hope i helped....
Destiny
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is it safe to give my dog frosted flakes or cheerios? (link)
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yes... my dog eats them all the time
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well i got my period the first day of camp and i stil have it because its still he first week of camp. I put pads in, in the morning and since we swim first period i take it out in the bathroom and go swimming because your period temporarilly stops in water. I don't put a pad in after because i usually go to free swim at the end of the day so it would not make any sense. But my bathing suit bottoms get all bloody. Is there any way to make it easier at camp with putting the pads in.
PLEASE HELP! I rate al 5's!
thx
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well if i were you i would just use tampons while you are at camp... i mean... i know it might seem weird at first but i promise you they are WAY more confortable and you cant really feel them at all... but that way you are still catching the blood and not ruining your bathing suit and or your clothes and you can even where them while you are in the water because your period doesnt usually stop while you are in water... no matter what everyone says i know... because even when i go swimming and my family goes swimming we always come out and have to change our tampon because it has soaked up so much blood... i mean sometimes i feel like im going to die i loose so much blood... and sometimes i even have to get out of the water just to change my tampon im so heavy... so i would just suggest using tampons and make it a lot easier on you and your clothing...
hope i helped
Destiny
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My hair is really poofy. Even after I straighten it bottom layer, then top. I've bleached my hair and all that good stuff. I was wondering, if I got my hair chemicaly straightened, would that make it non-poofy?
Sorry, for the bad spelling. (link)
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well... um probably not because what probably happened is you fried it... if you get it permed straight then it will just get worse... what you need to do is get a special kind of shampoo and go get your hair at least trimed... if not cut.. so that you can go get all the dead ends off of it... and while you are at it tell them that you want to get it thined out and they can do that for you its not really that difficult... but what ever you do DO NOT put any more chemicals in your hair... it will just make it worse believe me my best friend does that kind of stuff all the time and she never listens to me until after she does it and screws her hair up even more... i hope i helped
Destiny
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I'm 16 and I have thick black hair right around my nipples. I've plucked them out once before awhile back but of course, they came back. The hair is about 1.5 to 2 inches long and its kind of embarrassing. I was wondering if this is a common thing amongst females and if it is, is it common for the hair to be thick and black? I don't even have black hair on my head, I have brown hair. Also, I have a hair line right down the middle of my breasts and I usually just shave it and of course if I don't, it will grow back and be visible. If anyone has this, how do you deal with it? Thank you. (link)
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well... i dont think it is very normal b/c no one that i know has it and i know a lot of girls... but all of us are made differntly... i will tell you right now that if it was me with your problem i would shave it all off just simply because i am the type of girl that dont like hair... EXSPECIALLY really think dark hair! but i dont know how anyone with this situation would deal with it but i know that i would just shave it ALL off... and i would really like worry about it until you need to shave again... i dont know if i helped you very much but that is what i would do... so i hope i helped at least a little bit... maybe i gave you an idea of what to do but idk... well if you need anymore help you can send me one in my inbox..
Destiny
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What are some easy ab work outs that I can do to make my stomache defined.. er.. haha so i can get abs. Or a flat stomache? (link)
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umm.... crunches, situps, side crunches, if you need help on how to do them side crunch things just ask me and i will explain... hope i helped..
Destiny
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What are some of the early symptoms of being pregnant? like first 1-3 months (link)
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a change in eatin habbits... your boobs might start to hurt... etc...
hope i helped
Destiny
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i was raped when i was younger and i don't know what to do anymore it haunts me in my sleep. I think about it all the time and when i see any of the guys that did that to me i freak out i start crying and they were all over five years ago so i can't go to the police and tell them i was raped i don't know any of the guys names. All i know is that they used to date my mom and when i told my mom that they were doing that to me she didn't believe me. I am now in foster care and i don't ever see my mom. But that fact that i was raped is scary and i need all the help and advice that i can get. so please anyone help me. (link)
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um... well actually to answer this question i would rather you send me e-mails and everything because it's kind of personal and i dont really want the whole world to be able to see my answer because i dont want a whole bunch of people to know this so... if you want you can e-mail me and i will be able to answer it more effeciently and more privately... if you understand where im coming from... but i know how to answer it i promise!
prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
Destiny
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