about

hay ya'll

Well, im an only child, but I have lots of cousins ( 40 of em ) and I am a freshmen in high school, OH BOY! ( sarcasim, the international langue of the world ) I am a devoted christen and I am in chorus and FCA and I love to read.

Love Everybody,

*~Alexia~*

advice

Does everyone eventually get breasts like their mothers? Like if your mom's breasts are short and pointy, yours will be short and pointy too?

In some families, yes that is true, but in others, it's not. It really depends on your genetic makeup. In some families, the daughters take after the mothers, and in others, the daughters take after teh fathers, and some take after both and some don't look like them at all! Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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If it's your first time having sex, how can you ease the pain? What can you use for a lubricant? Are they any other ways, without like, "ruining the moment"? Thanx!

I heard a variate of responses to this question ( but some are not a good idea, since my friends thought of them ):

Kays gel Warming Liquid
Butter ( ????? )
water

thats all I got, sorry for very bad responses, but my friends wanted to put something, I would personal try the Warming Liquid. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia, Courtney, and Kelsey~*

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hey my friend is 15 years old and she is having a baby what should i do to help and what should she do

I think you should be suppotive and help her through every step of the pregnany and then help her with the baby. She should probably be postive and do whatever is best for this baby. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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i was in the bathroom (naked) and like this yellowish stuff comes out of my you know where can u tell me what this means?

I honestly have to say no, but I would ask someone who would know, your parents, friends, or maybe an advice columnist whose a little bit more experienced then me. I would like it to say I'm sorry I was not able to answer your question.

*~Alexia~*

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I've told 3 guys that i would have sex with them sometime in high shcool, and i feel like kind of a whore. I know that a lot of people have sex and everything but i feel like it would kind of be a slutty thing to do. What do you think?

I think that if you think it's slutty, then it is. My personal opion doesn't matter here. If I said " Go jump off a cliff and die in hell " this wouldn't matter. My professional opion although rears its ugly head in here and says, You shouldn't have sex yet until you feel you are ready. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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ok sorry...weird question...but if you have sex while youre on ur period, like the last few days or w/e...what are the chances that you'll get pregnant? sorry if thats kinda weird/gross

The same as if you have sex while NOT on your period. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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okay why is it that ,y parents always take my yuonger sister's side? and she lies a ton! but they believe her if she says that me and my brother did, when we never actually did it..so im just wondering why do they always believe her?

They do because she's the baby of the family, I mean, if you had a baby, wouldn't you believe everything she or he said? Just catch her in a lie and they will never do this again. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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Like when i'm with my boyfriend I sometimes tend to close my eyes and doze off. When I open my eyes back up my boyfriend tells me I look so peaceful when I sleep. My exboyfriend said the same thing when I was dating him.
-Is it normal for guys to like watch girls when they sleep? [not in a creepy way]
-& why do you think they use the word peaceful?

Peaceful meaning without any worry whatsoever, they like it because they can just stare at you and think everything in the world is not as bad as it is right now. It is prefectly normal for guys to watch you sleep, it like makes them feel macho and that they are yoyur gaurdien angel and stuff. Hope thid helped.

*~Alexia~*

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Sorry this is soo long.

Ok soo i live with my dad 9 months out of tyhe year ad i really miss my mom. Well i just got back today frm visting her and my dad picks me up at the airport, we get home the house is a complete pig stie like theres his cloths everywere and there liek ants of the counters and the only clean rpoom is his. Rigth after he drops us off( not seeing us for 4 weeks) he leaves and gose to work. He self employed soo like its not like he has a boss telling him- oyur fired- hes the boss! ok sooo also he went out ot party tonite and left us with our aunt!! now am i the wrong one for being kind of mad andsad, likei miss my mom soo much, nd the only thing holding her back from coming here is the money for mthe divorce, she said once he agreess on a price thta i actually acurate which he thinks is too high she bee out here in 5 mis. Now im really buggign my dad ot just give my mom what he owes her, and he slams nad locks his dorr to his room, im starving but im scared ot eat the food b/c of the ants! am i rong for feeling this way, i just had a 8 hours plane ride- boston to las vegas got home and he leaves! withmy mom i feel loved but eith my dad i feel as thought the only reason he has us is ot prove a point ot my mom. I love thme both reallly alot, but i just think me and my sister should be with my mom not my dad. Please i just dnt no i miss my mom and i just dont think i can put up with living with him anymre!!

Tell him this, and if he doesn't at least compromise w/ you, then go to your aunts with your sister and eat something and call child services, cause him not feeding you and makin you live like that is a disgrace! Child Services should help and you should be with ur mom soon. Hope this helped, but if you have any other questions, IM or email me.

*~Alexia~*

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How can you tell if its true love? I am having feelings for this one guy, they are more than my usual feelings for guys. I just want to know how it feels and what the "symptoms" are.

Thank you.

5's I guess

Here are some symptoms I've always heard of for true love:

Your heart beats fast when he comes near you
You think about him a lot
You would do anything for him
He knows where you stand on opinions like sex and stuff
You know where he stands on those same opinions

Hope this has helped.

*~Alexia~*

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my boyfriend is mad at me cause i dont get jealous when he talks to other
girls but i am not a jealous person he says that if i dont get jealous
that i dont really love him i was wondering if this is true????.

No, not at all. He's just probably just mad because he thinks that you don't love him and that you love some one else. I would get him alone and explain to him that you are not a jealous person, but if he still refuses to accept it, then dump him, cause he obviously can't trust you. Hope this helped, and you don't have to dump him like I said, just do what yoyu think is right.

*~Alexia~*

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does any body want to be my diet buddy? if you are on a diet then we can do it together and stuff. so we IM eachother when were bored, etc. also, we can give eachother tips and stuff. itll be fun and helpful. dont think im a weirdo, my friends just dont think i need to b on a diet, but i just dont want to GET heavy. so yea. lol. k later babes

Sure, I'll be your diet buddy. I'm already on one right now. So, get back to me on this.

*~Alexia~*

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ok this is my friends account cuz i dont have time to make my own right now...

ya know how everybody thinks that guys just wanna get down your pants and all they think about is sex? well is it normal for a girl to be like that?

and also i have this weird stretchmark things on my boobs, is this normal?

Yes it is normal for a grl to want sex. Trust me, I've been like that for 2 years now. And the strechmark may be caused by exercise or dieting, but just to be safe, I would visit a doctor. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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okay
so i did something
and now im getting liek these sores in my mouth
like open sores kinda and they hurt
could it be an std ?

Yes this could be an STD. I think this would be herpes, but I'm not intireally sure. I would go to a doctor or a gynacologist to get this checked. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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My boyfriend and I were having sex, same as normal. We put the condom on correctly, but it still broke in the middle of us having sex. He hadn't cum yet so we just stopped there and finished in ways other then sex. My boyfriend said he didn't pre-cum, but I'm not sure that he knows exactly what that means, and I'm pretty sure you can't control that kind of thing. Is there a good chance that I could still get pregnant or anything I could do?

I need a real answer, so please, no 13 year olds that are just guessing.

Yes you could still be pregnant since you can not control cumming. You can do something tho, if this JUST happened, then I would go to the local store and buy the morning after pill, it should help. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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is it like.. unhealthy to not have sex for your entire life,
i want kids, and i want alot, but i want to adopt. its not a spiritual thing..i just.. am weirded out by the idea of sex...
please help..
i rate high on good advice

It's not unhealthy to not have sex for ur entire life. I kinda admire he way u are not buying into this whole sex thing like the rest of us r. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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..Blowjob?

It's something you do to guys. You grab thier penis, jerk it off, and start sucking on it. Thats basicilly it. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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okay...this guy told me that i had sex appeal today and i dont know if i should have taken it as a compliment or an insult.

so could someone tell me what sex appeal is and if its a compliment or and insult.

BTW: im 13/f and i rate 5 for NONsmartass answers.

That means he thinks your so hot, that he would love to have sex with you. It's a compliment, so don't worry. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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im 14,and i have been dating this guy that i think im in love with he wants
to have sex, 9he isent making me) , i want to but i got raped when i was 12
and im scared..what should i do?.

I would tell him about you being raped and tell him your feelings on sex. If he truly loves you, he will NEVER pressure you. I hope it turns out okay, and if you ever need someone to talk to, my door is always open for u.

*~Alexia~*

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Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.

We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?.

I would tell her that you don't wanna have unprotected sex and tell her of the risks, like STDs, pregnancy, and HIV AIDS. If she respects you, she will not pressure you, but if she does, tell her no and if u pressure me, I'll leave u ( or something along that ) Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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