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Lubricate
If it's your first time having sex, how can you ease the pain? What can you use for a lubricant? Are they any other ways, without like, "ruining the moment"? Thanx!
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There are a lot of answers below that are not what you need here. Number one, You are a pretty decent person if caring for someone else's pain. That's a nice person because most guys just go after what they want and screw what the female wants.
It is outright dangerous to use butter (I mean comeon obviously written by people who have never experienced this experience), lotion, ANYTHING AT ALL on a condom unless water based like KY. The reason is that those lubricants break up tiny and big holes in condoms and can indeed lead to HIV and a disease as the condom is ruined and cannot do the job.
As far as pain goes--a lot of it is her being tense as hell and wound up. You have to try foreplay first and warm her up. Why? Insertion will hurt her if she is not moist in that area and friction, burning, pain etc exist. So make sure she is lubricated well and then go easy and you will be fine.
The pain should be minimal like a pinch or slight discomfort, rubbing until a rythem is established. There you go, enjoy (not too much) and be safe.
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I heard a variate of responses to this question ( but some are not a good idea, since my friends thought of them ):
Kays gel Warming Liquid
Butter ( ????? )
water
thats all I got, sorry for very bad responses, but my friends wanted to put something, I would personal try the Warming Liquid. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia, Courtney, and Kelsey~*
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