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13/m. me and my girlfried have been going out for about a year. But we have never really done anything like even go to the movies!!!! So yah. This is all because she wont tell her parents about us. Im not at all a bad kid. Im pretty good looking, good grades, never got suspended, nice, ect. I'm getting a little tired of this b/c i want to be able to do stuff with her. should i dump her and move on? or should I stay with her? Why wont she tell them? I no its not b/c her parents think she is too young, and she has like a really good relationship with her parents. What should i do? Stay? or go? Please help!!!! I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
well if you reallly really like her stay with her and if you are reallly annoyed by this which i no i sure would be. cuz if her parents let her date so i dont c y she doesnt wanna hang out. maybe shes a lil shy or sum so invite another couple a friend of yours to go wihth ya to da movies she mihgt feel a lil more comfortable. hope i helped.


okay 7-12 in our school is in highschool.. and im goig in 7th.. and im kinda scared ill get confused and stuff and i wont know where to go (ive been going to this school since 2nd grade but i dont know the highschool that well) please help me and tell me your experinces of your first day of highschool (link)
well my high school is from grades 9-12. n i start 9th grade in a week. im pretty scared too but i was scared when i was going to 7th grade which is in a middle skool. but youll get use to it everyone does. you juss need to "chiil". hehe i got lost first day for science but then i asked a teahcer n she helped me find my class. it might sound scary to be lost but when i think bout it now i start laughin. so dont wory.


ok i like this boy and i have probably talked to him 6 times in a year. i have liked him for 2 years now and lots of people have told him i liked him but he thought they were lying so he didnt do anything about it. i just talked to him today about his classes and and we had our laughs but other than that how do i become more than just someone he see everyday and only talk to 6 times a year. i just want to be his friend first but i get really nervous and then i dont talk to him. like i said i dont have to be his girlfried just someone he would like to talk to or someone he can trust! please help!
thanks!
i rate high for good answers! (link)
well you guys can keep in contact by compupet if he has one. go to the movies, call each other on the phone. hang out whenever you get the chance.


This is my second time posting here on Advicenators. Well, I could really use some good advice here. I am 14 years old, never been kissed, hugged, dated..etc. I like older boys better because I know they tend to make the first moves and spoil you more, but I never thought I would end up like my best friends older brother. He's just two years older, not even. He's cute and he's funny, but he's really shallow. He's making me want to just die with the harsh things he says. He's always telling my friend Marissa* you should hang out with hot friends because all your friends are ugly. Right when I am sitting there. Now I can't stop hating myself. (link)
well just foget about him there are mani guys out there. you`re onli 14(well so am i) but what im tryin to sai is he aint worthed to be with if he makes you feel bad. hes a jerk.


i think i just made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. me and my best guy friend have always had a friends-with-benifits relationship. he was fingering me today and ended up sticking his penis in me. we were going for a little, but we had to stop because he had to leave. he didn't get to cum and we did full out have sex. but knowing that his penis was in me... is that enough to count for losing my virginity? (link)
well i think it deos bcuz you said you guys stoped bcuz he had to leave. so if didnt have to leave you guys would of continued. n he did put his dick in you so pretty much you lost your virginity.


i'm just asking. ok, i'm new here. browsing thru some of the questions, i couldn't help noticing that some of the questions were made by 13-to-17-years-old people. is this a webpage for teenagers or just for everyone?need a little help here.. (link)
well pretty much you have to be 13 and older to ask and answer questions. and there r ppl over 17.


What happens durring sex? Like what all do you do? (link)
heheh watch porno and ull c. i unno wha to tell u im 14 dats y.


Hi i am a 23 years old muslim girl from leicester. Nowadays i am recieving numorous witheld number calls and threatening text messages. I have had a relationship with a guy who i have no contact with. First when i recieved the text i thought they were send to wrong number. But it's everyday now that i recieve them. Each one has threatening message like "i will kidnap you" unless i do what he wants. Now he has warned me that he is going to send pictures of my relationship with the guy to my parents. I am very scared and confused and can't even sleep. I don't want my parents to know because my dad has recently had an heart operation and i can hurt them.

Please help me find a solution to this problem as i can't go to the police or tell family or friends.

Thankyou (link)
OMG i feel scared for you. i no you dont want to go to the police but i really think you should. you are in danger and you need someone to help you.


If yur on the 1st day of yur period, but yur flow is just normal, not heave and not light, can yu go swimming w/o a tampon? Like is there anything yu can use or do to go swimming w/o a tampon. Dont talk about how easy to use and comfortable tampons r, thats not what i care about. Plees help, i rate high (link)
well i hate tampons too and i dont think you can go swimming when you are on your PMS. i no it sux but there aint nun else to do(i think). i feel your pain grl.


I am a former self-injurer, and I finally stopped cutting at the end of 8th grade (I'm going into 9th). I've been happy since the end of 8th grade and haven't had a reason to cut, or I'v refrained myself from cutting. But that's how I deal with stress. And I'm afraid I'll relapse this year from stress. I've been to therapy, and I write a lot. Is there any other way I could possibly deal with stress that isn't destructive?

thanks in advance! (link)
ok well there is this show degrassi its really cool n der was this one grl dat cut her self den she went to therapy too n da counsel told her to get a ruber ban n put it on your hand n pop it wen ever u feel like you wanna cut your self or sum. but y dont you call a friend and tell her how you feel instead of writing all da tyme.


My brother is away for the week and i'm normally allowed to stay up to 11 and my brother makes sure i go to bed. So i'm staying up later (a lot later) and i'm eating a lot at night. i'm afraid that i'm going to gain a lot of weight because i'm not going to be able to work it off. i don't want to throw it up because 1.that's just nasty 2.it's unhealthy 3.if i try it i might continue and become bulimic. could someone help me on what to do? (link)
well u do can wait a lott of weight if you eat at night but if you eat a lot in da morning you wont. not sure why though but i think just go to bed at 11 and make youe self stop eating. and dont even think about becomin bolimic its stupid. try to do something at night besides eating.


i have a friend.. well cousin. anyway, she is OBSESSED with this guy.. she is 14 and he is 17 they had sex.. because she thinks that she loves him.. anyway, she wont get over him.. and he treats her like crap! what should she do? (link)
i think she should dump his ass if he treats her like crap. but i dont eblive dat love crap at dat age.


ok when i go to a search engine like ask.com or msn or google..it has everything i searched for saved in the spot where you type in what your looking for. is there any way to delete that? if my parents ever use my laptop and see the things ive searched for..that wouldnt be good (link)
heheh i no dats wha happend to me well i dont think you can delete what you typed in on goodle but to delete websites go on history im not sure where it is on your computer. but press on that and there will come a list on the side and press da thingy on your mouse and delete. hope i helped


Ok my friends a girl but shes just a friend and she says that she is really fat but shes really not like shes really skinny. And she says shes on diets and stuff like that, how can i make sure that she wont like hurt herself or anythin bad? (link)
well thats how i was like your friend too. im a normal size and i thought of my self fat but my friends said i wasnt. i think you need to talk to her bcuz what is shes bolimic( not sure whats it called). i think she just needs to talk to someone n you seem like a great friend so y dont you talk to her.


Ok so when im going to have my period, im scared that people will know that im changing my pads.. is there anyway on how to silence things up? it gets really embarassing for me cause im a tomboy... (link)
you shouldnt feel emberased bcuz evey grl in dat room have their periods or will get them. but y dont you try to da bathroom during a class or something like that where grls aint in da bathroom. srri i dont know what else to say.


my hair is thick and wavy. how can i make it have volume? (link)
find a shampoo that does it.also try to use conditioner. did u try to straighten your hair. srri i aint helpin much


theres tis girl who is totally obbsessed with me, shes attractive looking but i dont really think that it would work, and besides i already have a girlfriend. i wanna tell her that i dont like her but she cried cuz i wouldnt tell her if i liked her so i dont want to totally crush her heart so is there a way that i can tell her i dont like her without her getting crushed into amillion tiny peices (link)
well i have s simirlar sitation. i think you can at least be friends with that girl. n tell her i have a gf nothin can be between us more then friends.


Ok I have this friend who has to be exact all the time and when I say something and it isnt exact she always corrects me.I know its not a big deal and its probably really mean for me to say this but it just bugs the crap out of me!! Please help!! (link)
well i dont think your friend does it on purpose to bug you. i think shes just so use to correcting you so tell her to stop it bugs you


ok this is my first time having my period n ive had it for 5 days already and my mom told me its only suppossed to last 3-5 days and the longest shes ever had it was for 7 days. please help me , clue me in on whats going on!!!!! thanks sooooooooooo much

sincerely,
troubled girly (link)
grl dont worry. everyones period lasts differently. 7 days is normals. muh first period i had it like about 13 days or so. it tottaly normal to have less then 5 days or longer then 5 days.


How do you get that average rating thing set up.. like you have 4 1/2.. Thanks hope you answer back (link)
i dunno its just there. go under welcome, yo username n den press your feedback to c wat your average rating is. soo i dont set it up its jsut there.




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