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i have a friend.. well cousin. anyway, she is OBSESSED with this guy.. she is 14 and he is 17 they had sex.. because she thinks that she loves him.. anyway, she wont get over him.. and he treats her like crap! what should she do?
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i think she should dump his ass if he treats her like crap. but i dont eblive dat love crap at dat age.
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You have a right to be worried! If he treats her badly and they've had sex, he's (most likely) using her.
Plus, it's dangerous. It may not seem like much of an age difference, but it is. What if he became abusive? That would NOT be good.
Let her know that you're worried about her being with an older guy, and that you think that he treats her badly.
If she doesn't listen to you or yells at you saying "You're just jealous!", then they're isn't much else you can do. She'll just have to learn that herself.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥ Manders
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i know ya love you friend/cousin but apparently she isnt listenin to you.. let her make her own mistakes and learn from em.. ♥ Dez
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Tell her honestly how you think he is treatig her. Tell her that you are looking out for her own good. She may be mad at you now, but she will thank you later. Also it is typical for a girl to get over someone she loves, but try to introduce her to someone you think she would be good with who, and someone who is a little more around her age. Hope this helps!
Advicewiz<3
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what she really should do..is she should move on from this jerk because he doesnt desserve her. however, what she SHOULD do and what she WOULD do and what she decides to do are two different things. unfortunately shes in charge of if she stays with him or breaks it off with him..and even if you tell her she should brreak it off with him..she might not realize this until its too late and she gets hurt : /
- meliss
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if you cousin is being treated like crap why is she still with this guy if she tells him that they just be friend and he understands her than he cares if he doesnt that he shouldnt be around this young girl she has a good life ahead of her!!!
hope i helped
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