Member Since: November 28, 2011
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I'm a 13 year old girl, and I've been dating my boyfriend for about a month and a half. I've known him since kindergarten, and he's usually a pretty upbeat, positive person.
Lately he's been acting rather down. I know he's been having some hard times with his family, but I didn't realize how bad it was affecting him.
He often discusses things like how no one would miss him if he died; theroies on how he thinks he's going to die.
I just need to know what I should do. Do I inform anyone of this? Does this make him suicidal? What can I do to help him?
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you just need to be there for him. talk to him about it and when he needs it take his mind off it. he needs to know that people do care. if he gets worse inform someone that can stop him like a parent or school councler so they can keep an eye on him. dont fly off the handle now. be there for him resort to telling someone when you feel your not helping him
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My bf is coming over tomarrow and just a while ago he asked me if we could have sex i was gonna hang up but then i startled and said yes! He got happy and said he loves me and wont try to hurt me then he said he was coming over tomarrow! should i trust him ? Should i have sex with him? Im a 13 yr old girl and my bf is 16...and plz no hurtful words i just need advice! :3 thnxs (link)
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if you want to wait then you shoud wait your are soo young and if he doesint feel like the one then you should just tell him that you need more time.
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My mom and dad are redoing their kitchen.. my mom has been waiting for it for years, and they finally have enough money to do it. They're really excited and doing most of the work by themselves.. so for Christmas I wanted to give them a brand new pots and pans set.. possibly with spatulas and utensils that come with it.. as well as holders for these utensils.
My limit is probably 200 dollars.. I don't want to get them a really cheap one.. I want to get them one that will last. Any ideas where/what brand would be best?? I'd preferably like to buy online since a lot of times its cheaper.. but if not please let me know another place!
Thank you so much. (link)
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just go to bed bath and beyond and talk to someone. the brands i would go with are kitchen aid or oxo
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this morning I stopped behind a car at a red light. I looked away and must have taken my foot off the break and bumped into him. I have a half square shaped dent, it's not anything bad. I had hit the square attachment to his suv that is used to haul things. (I guess that's it's use) however. police were called and info was exchanged, the usual. the cop noted that there was NO VISIBLE DAMAGE to his car but I didn't have a minor dent. my questions is will my insurance rates rise? the officer said that if the man decides to have his car looked at there is a small fee my insurance would pay. will that raise my rates? I'm 17. so I'm worried. (link)
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that is hard to say. your insurance was involved so yes your rates will go up but i think it wont go up too high and if it does change diffrent insurance companys to see if it doesint folow you. im 17 and i fliped my car twice downtown cause i ran a red light and someone t-boned me. my point is things like this happen all the time it was just an accedent. no reason to worrie it your rates rise it probubly wont be that much.
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I am 17f and my bf is of the same age. We have had problems but we kept on getting back together. I have repeatedly been told that he had cheated on me with several girls, but he swears he didn't. I don't know if that's true since he wrote me a note saying "relationships are based on trust. Where's that trust?" which all of my supporters say as putting the blame on me to save himself. He has been suicidal whenever I tried to breakup with him. In doing so, I stayed. Its only been a few weeks since he was put in the hospital and I didn't know what to do. I am going back out with him once more. I don't know if I should stay with him or sever the ties once and for all. Any help would be grateful. (link)
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you need to move on Hun. he is holding you in a relationship against your will. he is not mature enough to be in a relationship or in the right state of mind. he needs help and you can still support him and help him but as a friend not a girlfriend.
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Hi, I'm a 16 year old guy and fairly recently became friends with a girl. We've become pretty good friends over the past few months and we both like each other. However, both her friends and my friends have been pressuring is to date. This has created a really awkward situation for both of us. We have and have planned to hang out just the two us. But like I said, it's really awkward. Any advice on what I should do?how can I bring this up to talk to her about it? I do want to date but I don't want to risk our friendship. I could really use some help here. Thanks (link)
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i have went threw the same thing. exept we were freinds for years. honistly i would just leave it alone untill she loosens up a bit. untill she is more conformable around you. and when you talk to her about it dont be afraid to tell her how you feel. just dive right in.
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Okay.. I am a Corporal in the USMC and I am currently over in Afghanistan serving!!! She is 19 and I am 20... I love her as if she is my whole world!!! We have two kids and two dogs!! I just need to know how to not make her worry every time I call her back home!!! I call her as much as I can!! But I don't want to make her worry about me while we are talking on the phone and Web cam chatting!! Could you give me some tips on how not to make her worry about me too much??? (link)
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thats a tough one. there is really no way to make her worrie less. the one thing you do need to do is let her know that your going to stay safe while your there. that your going to come back to her. when you chat with her talk about her talk about good things keep a positive outlook on things. she worries cause she cares
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how do you know when a guys wants to kiss? (link)
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they always want too haha. but yeah do it whenever you might as well just go for it. guys like that.
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we have been broke up for almost 2 months we talk everyday still and kinda flirt and stuff but when i mention i wish i was good enough for her or something she will say why do you have to start? am i just being too pushy and just need to go with the flow for now? (link)
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it means that this girl just wants to be single. she just want to play around with a bunch of guys. you could ether go with it, or if your looking for a relationship then move on and find someone else. you never know if you keep in touch with her she might just come around and want you back.
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Me and my boyfriend been together for 7 months now but i just dont know if i want to be with him or not anymore. I mean i do love him dont get me wrong there. What do i do?
I'm 15 and hes 16. (link)
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well if you dont know if you want to be with him anymore then you might not love him. it all just depends on the situation. if there is no exact reason why you dont want to be with him then you dont love him. if its because all your freinds are single and they seem to be having the time of there lifes then its because you feel like you dont have the same freedoms that you had before you got into a relationship. if you feel that your loosing feeling for him dont drag out a relationship that you dont care for
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20/F and had this strange rash between my neck and stomach for about three weeks now. Big and small red spots that only tend to itch first thing or late at night. It is impossible trying to get a doc's appointment these days unless your left foot is dropping off and I don't know what else to do as I do not class it as an emergency thing, more of a vanity/curious thing.
Anyone got any ideas as to what is it and how can I get rid of it? (link)
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it could be alot of things it could be caused by anything from stress to allergies. but it is smart just to go to the docters office and make a appointment. just to be safe
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Okay, so I like two guys. I dont know if they like me back. And I've never had a boyfriend. I know it's irrelevant, but maybe it'll help.
So I'll call them 1 and 2.
So one is blonde and kinda unattractive. Like he's alright. Hes funny and we talk heaps and make jokes. But sometimes he can be mean and rejecting. But in like a joke way.. Its confusing I know....
2 is really cute. But hes the new guy. And no one else seems to be going for him. I've never really talked to him. But I kinda watch him in the class were in together. Hes very outgoing and very funny, and hes someone I think I would get along with well.
I feel that 1 is actually starting to like me though. I can kinda feel it, he changes. But number 2 definetly doesnt like me, like hes never talked to him so why would he? But (I know I might just be seeing things) but when I sit behind his bestfriend he would turn around to talk to him but I caught him taking glimpses at me...
And 2 I kinda like more for some reason? Plus 1's big brother is like my brothers friend so it's kinda awkward. But I talk to 1 more... SO im in a bit of a pickle... They both probably dont like me, but I feel it's wrong to like 2 guys...
Please help me decide.... (link)
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If i was you i would go with the one you like more (guy number 2) and if it doesint work stay single. you sound young so there will be another guy that will come along
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So I had a lot of sex in a bout 5 days. Last night I noticed when I started urinating I felt like a pain, not really a burn at all, more like a stabbing in my urethra towards the end of my piss. There isn't any possible way it could be an STD. I want to know why this is happening, and what I should do about it? (link)
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avoid having sex with other untill you are sure you dont have a STD
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a butch looking woman was looking at me. What are some reasons why a lesbian would stare at a guy? (link)
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ether she is questioning her sexuality or she was looking at the girl behind you.
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Im sixteen and dead to the world have no friend no life and my perants dont trust me to go to school because thet thing ill get pregnant or take drugs and drink or whatever only as my older brothers and sisters did but im not like them im different i tell them but stll no iv been home schol for the last three and a half years im shy as hell and dont socilis in any way wat so ever they dont listin to me its like they put me in this place to make me feel bad about how i am and i dont think i can take much more of it so i my as well be dead
havin 10 sister and 4 brother should mean the world but right now in my life i wouldnt care if they all were dead because im so sad
user name jellyskin (link)
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Then make a change in your life. show yourself to the world. If you feel like you have no life or friends then get out there and change that :) just dont take advantage of any privileges or freedoms that you are soon too gain. cause you might just do something that you will probably regret.
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