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Why was she (butch lesbian) staring at me ( a straight man)?
a butch looking woman was looking at me. What are some reasons why a lesbian would stare at a guy?
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ether she is questioning her sexuality or she was looking at the girl behind you.
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I have a friend who's in the fitness industry. She has a shaved head, wears masculine clothes, and is sort of terrifying to those who don't know her because she's ripped. She's also straight, and gets all giggly like a little girl when she gets crushes on guys.
As others have mentioned, don't assume that because a woman was butch that she is a lesbian. There are effeminate men who like women, and butch women who like men.
Other reasons? She was zoned out and didn't realize she was staring at you. You had something in your teeth. You were looking at her funny. She was wondering where you got your sweater. Or any of the other millions of reasons why one person might stare at another.
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"a butch looking woman was looking at me" Are you sure this person is a lesbian? Never judge a book by its cover. Even if this woman is a lesbian there could be any number of reasons she was staring at you or past you.
Just because this person is or may be a lesbian does this mean a friendship between you is not possible. Being a lesbian is her sexuality, how she chooses to express herself sexually. In all other regards she is a person, a female person who just might have been thinking you would make a nice friend.
Not everyone thinks in the realm of sexuality first. Not everyone is as they appear. What you could have done or should have was gone over to her and introduced yourself. IF she apologized for staring or put you off in anyway then maybe your thoughts might be right. Instead you chose to judge. You may have missed out on a beautiful friendship.
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Because he had something stuck in his teeth?
There are so many possible reasons it's almost absurd to speculate.
It's really only rational and respectful to assume it was not sexual in nature. It's more likely she liked your clothes or something inane like that.
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I'm sure her being a lesbian has nothing to do with her staring at you.
People stare at people. They can be wierd, they can be daydreaming about something, they may not be aware. I'm sure she was not fantasizing about you.
Next time, just ask her?
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