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If he likes me or not and by the way im a 13 year old girl and hes a 17 year old guy.
So today at school my guy friend walks by and goes into the bathroom and then I ask me friend who was sitting across from me if she has another sweatshirt cause i was cool and she said no and then he comes out of the bathroom and I asked him and he was like no and I asked if i could have the one he was wearing and he said no and i said please and he said y and i said cause im cold , please then he gave it to me ( he NEVER gives it to anyone!)then he just stood the and smiled and looked at each other then he went to class. Then later when he asked cor it back i went awww then he said i could have it again tomarrow and on the inside i was going YAY!!! And i was SO happy cause i have a crush on him but does he like me? Oh and by the way im a 13 year old girl and hes a 17 year old guy.
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Dude is too old for you, kiddo. Give him his sweater back and get one of your own.
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Well its posible im 13 and i have a 16 yr old bf and whenever i got cold he would give me his sweater so i am pretty sure he has some feelings 4 you i hoped i help c;
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I also am not going to get into whether he likes you.
It all comes down to the fact that it's illegal, At 13, You shouldn't be looking to try and date someone who is in most states considered legally an adult. You don't think it's odd that someone who is 17 years old would be looking at a 13 year old in a romantic way?...Well it is.
If you want a boyfriend you really should look for someone in the 12-14 yr range. Not someone who is 4 years your elder.
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I'm not going to answer the question of whether he likes you or not. What I am going to say is that your even considering dating this boy is very inappropriate given the four year difference in your age.
At 17 he is either a junior or senior in high school while at 13 you're either still in middle school or a freshman in high school. He is far more experienced in the ways of dating then you are. He will expect more from a girl than you should even be considering.
Now to be honest if you were 20 and he was 24 the age difference would be no big deal. Given the fact that he is 17 soon to be 18 and you are 13 soon to be 14 his even being around you in a relationship manner is very dangerous for him. There are laws against an adult, he being 18 is an adult age, in even a platonic relationship with a minor, you.
For both of your best interests don't go down this road. I'm sure he is a nice guy and yes he can be a friend but you do not want to have a love or any type of boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with him. It is just to risky.
As someone old enough to be your grandfather. I am calmly trying to tell you something your father will probably scream at you when and if this turns into a relationship and he finds out. We dads are very protective of our daughters. Why? Because we were once teenage boys, that's why. If you do have some type of relationship with this boy and hide it from mom & dad. When dad finds out picture being grounded for life.
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