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I like two guys, but I feel I should only liek one. Help me choose?
Okay, so I like two guys. I dont know if they like me back. And I've never had a boyfriend. I know it's irrelevant, but maybe it'll help.
So I'll call them 1 and 2.
So one is blonde and kinda unattractive. Like he's alright. Hes funny and we talk heaps and make jokes. But sometimes he can be mean and rejecting. But in like a joke way.. Its confusing I know....
2 is really cute. But hes the new guy. And no one else seems to be going for him. I've never really talked to him. But I kinda watch him in the class were in together. Hes very outgoing and very funny, and hes someone I think I would get along with well.
I feel that 1 is actually starting to like me though. I can kinda feel it, he changes. But number 2 definetly doesnt like me, like hes never talked to him so why would he? But (I know I might just be seeing things) but when I sit behind his bestfriend he would turn around to talk to him but I caught him taking glimpses at me...
And 2 I kinda like more for some reason? Plus 1's big brother is like my brothers friend so it's kinda awkward. But I talk to 1 more... SO im in a bit of a pickle... They both probably dont like me, but I feel it's wrong to like 2 guys...
Please help me decide....
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If i was you i would go with the one you like more (guy number 2) and if it doesint work stay single. you sound young so there will be another guy that will come along
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I think that it is best to rely on your heart.
I can only give you advice and tell yo what I think, but you need to make a decision.
So my advice is as follows.
I know exactly when you talk about the guy 1.
I had a friend like him when I was in high school.
I didn't really know him until I got to know him and he was really sweet.
Then we became friends, etc.
The point is that you already know this guy and you can trust him.
And from what you tell me, it seems like he likes you already.
Whereas guy 2 it only seems like you like him for his looks not himself.
Some guys that are good looking could use you and hurt your feelings.
My point here is that you don't really know this guy.
Remember don't judge a book by its cover.
He may look hot and all but 1 you really know and is kind to you.
From what you have said I think that you should really be going for guy 1.
BUT that is only my professional opinion, I could be completely wrong.
It is really up to you to decide from here and see where your heart leads you.
-Ask Alice
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