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Going off her
Hey, 16/f
Okay so I've been friends with this girl for 5 years now, but now we've gone too college.
In one lesson two girls sit in between us. She has become really matey with these girls and ignores me, even when we're queing to go in outside.
It seems she only talks to me for the sake of having omeone to talk to. Like we're sisters on facebook but i'm thinking of deleting that. She lies alot of the time by overeggagerating, and she's very insecure and is scared to be seen on her own.
I want to be her friend but I also want her to stop ignoring me/using me. Any advice I'd be gratefull :)
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Well if you're friends shouldn't you be able to talk to her? Maybe tell her how you feel and how you don't appreciate the way she is treating you. See if she makes a change and if she doesn't then you should move on. If that's the way she is going to act that is not the type of friend you want to be around! Good luck!
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You can try to confront her but if she refuses to listen/deny the entire thing then I would let her go. If you feel uncomfortable then you could write her a facebook message on how you feel. Least this way you will be able to say everything you need to without being interrupted or ignored. If she doesn't respond back within a day or two I would suspect that maybe she doesn't value the friendship as much as you do. If she wants to be rude, Let her. You go and find some new friends.
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You should tell her and confront her about this.
I know this may seem like a really hard thing to do, but really its the only proper way.
Tell her that you really want to be her friend and tell her to stop using you.
It may be the she is not talking to you because she wants you to talk to her.
Maybe she is annoyed that you don't start the conversations, no offense.
I know it may seem really annoying to feel like you are being used.
If you are afraid to confront her, tell her on Facebook.
No one deserves to be treated like that.
Just confront it, it won't hurt you in any way, all it can do is help you.
She will notice that you haven't been fair enough to you and take it to mind.
-Ask Alice
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