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I don't know if I should stay with him
I am 17f and my bf is of the same age. We have had problems but we kept on getting back together. I have repeatedly been told that he had cheated on me with several girls, but he swears he didn't. I don't know if that's true since he wrote me a note saying "relationships are based on trust. Where's that trust?" which all of my supporters say as putting the blame on me to save himself. He has been suicidal whenever I tried to breakup with him. In doing so, I stayed. Its only been a few weeks since he was put in the hospital and I didn't know what to do. I am going back out with him once more. I don't know if I should stay with him or sever the ties once and for all. Any help would be grateful.
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you need to move on Hun. he is holding you in a relationship against your will. he is not mature enough to be in a relationship or in the right state of mind. he needs help and you can still support him and help him but as a friend not a girlfriend.
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Dump him,
If he is threatening suicidal if you leave him then he is obviously too much baggage. Nobody should ever pressure someone into staying with them because they fear for the person's safety.
As harsh as this may come out you are not responsible if he chooses to self harm himself. If he is threatening to harm himself you should inform someone about it and let them handle the situation. Nobody is entitled to be in a relationship they don't want to be in. This guy obviously has his own mental issues he needs to sort out.
Also, If someone can't be faithful then don't be in the relationship with them. No relationship works out of their is no trust, Trust is the main factor in a relationship and without it the relationship will never work out.
Seriously, You are wasting your time with this one. Let him go and meet someone who is right for you.
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well he definatly dosnt sound like your dream man so leave him. there is better out there. and if suicide is the only reason your staying with him... just know that he wont do it. if he really cared about you he wouldnt hurt you like so. just tell him how you feel. good luck
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