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Friends to more?
Hi, I'm a 16 year old guy and fairly recently became friends with a girl. We've become pretty good friends over the past few months and we both like each other. However, both her friends and my friends have been pressuring is to date. This has created a really awkward situation for both of us. We have and have planned to hang out just the two us. But like I said, it's really awkward. Any advice on what I should do?how can I bring this up to talk to her about it? I do want to date but I don't want to risk our friendship. I could really use some help here. Thanks
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Ah, another pussified American male afraid of anything with a vagina.
For crying out loud, pal, ask her out, okay? And do it TODAY. She's not going to wait for you much longer. Show her you have some confidence in yourself.
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i have went threw the same thing. exept we were freinds for years. honistly i would just leave it alone untill she loosens up a bit. untill she is more conformable around you. and when you talk to her about it dont be afraid to tell her how you feel. just dive right in.
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Well, the "date" word has been so misused etc.. so why not just hang out and do something fun during the daytime? or with your other friends? some activity that you ll both enjoy? nothing too awkward like candle light dinners etc. .. even if its just sports related, cycling together, or helping (volunteering) at a church or environment thing, something easy first then you get to know each other more and it wont be too awkward...
good luck! am sure it will turn out fine, you 2 can talk about your interests or even something you both havent done but havent found the time to do.. youll be alright!
if it works out then fine, if not, you have good memories together to share!
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