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What are some lyrics for songs from THE USED, or sites i can go to to get them. ill rate a 5! thanks!!!!

http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/The-Used-lyrics/1300E504B7BD078348256C130005CA65

there ya go

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where are places to get awesome and comfortable hoodies?

Pac Sun

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I have been going out with this girl for about a month an da half and now people are telling her that i'm saying things that i never said in my life. Now she thinking about breaking up with me and I love this girl so much I can't live without her. What sould i do to keep her in me life

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TEll her exactly how you feel. dont hold back. hope i helped!

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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me

I wouldn't say wierd. it's sweet, he's trying to show how much he likes you. But if you don't like him, tell him. But if you do, tell him how much you appreciated it or tell him it didn't make you feel comfortable but you still like him. hope i helped!

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Oh so my friend cuts..but she hasnt in like 2 weeks. i knew about it since she started (shes been doing it for like 1 and a half months). so today this morning she told our other 2 friends, she didnt tell them before cuz she didnt want them to get mad. my friend (the cutter)told my other 2 friends NOT to tell anyone like a teacher or any body. but 1 did it anyway. and now my friend (the cutter) is all mad at the 1 girl who told. i dont know what to do. so what should i do. ive been supporting my friend (the cutter one) through all this. but what else should or can i do?

You have to tell your friend that as much as she might not like it, that you agree with the friend that told on her. she needs help and you didn't think she was gonna stop so she needed to BE stopped.
Just try to explain it to her. she might not appreciate it right away but it'll be fine after some time passes. Hope i helped!

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How do you start a conversation with the guy you like? What makes the conversation interesting? What should i talk about? And how do i keep the conversation lasting? Answer all please! i rate 5s and comment

First start off with bang. say hi lol. then just ask how he's doing and talk about movies, music, books that he and you like. Find some things you both have in common. if it gets boring, ask him about sports or something. most guys can go on for hours about sports and you can just sit back and listen. but be sure to put in some input. hope i helped!

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i have a really complicated sitch but here it goes: ive been with guy A for a bit over a month and since hes really shy, he wont talk to me or make time to be with me.he doesnt like talkin on the phone, in person and he never checks his email. i was the one that asked him out for this reason. he said he liked me and everything but he never shows it and im guessing its cuz hes a bit immature.
anyway, guy B has been my friend for a lil while and i got him together with one of my girlfriends (cuz he liked her) then she broke up with him for no reason...hes a sweetie and did everything to make her happy (he was goth and he kinda changed for her) its been 5 weeks since they broke up and i was talking to him about guy A and how i wasnt sure about him. he told me that bad side about him and how i should wait or just be paitient. then when he was helping me (after talking for 5 hours online) he admitted he liked me. im so confused... i like them both and well im on the verge (dumping guy A) and guy B is on the rebound so i dont know if its "real". please give me your honest view and help. ill rate you for answering honestly...not just go with the first thing that goes through your mind.

I'd totally go for guy B. Dump guy A and wait maybe 1-3 weeks so no one thinks that u dumped A for B, that's not good and won't help your reputaion. but guy B def. sounds like the best choice. good luck and hope i helped!

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i'm going on a trip to a law center this week

theres no dress code, but you should look presentable..we're part of a mock jury..any ideas?

Since there's no dress code, just wear a good pairs or jeans and maybe a plain shirt. No shirts with sayings on it... that prolly wouldn't be the best choice. good luck and have fun! ♥

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I have no clue what to get my boyfriend for his birthday, he likes sports, and xbox games, I dont know if he would like jewelry. Can anyone please help me?

Get him a mall gift certificate. That way he could get stuff at the video game and sports store

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how long does it take for leg hair to grow back? I'm 13.

after you shave? it doesn't take long at all. Little stubs (they won't be noticable unless you're really close) will grow within a day or so. Hope i helped!

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how do you boost your self-esteem? mainly about your body image. i've been having a lot of trouble with my body image =\, and i don't know what to do. whenever i eat i regret eating. when i pinch my stomach i have about 4 inches of fat (and thats standing up!).. i try to keep myself away from food, but then that's all i think about & i eat alot.

thanx in advance.

holy crap. Ok i'm about 5 7 and i weigh more then that. And i'm pretty fat and you're NOT! ok? ok
Hope i helped!

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Anyone who has tried over the counter teeth whiteners, can you tell me the best one you have tried (i.e. crest white strips, rembrant, etc.)

thanks!

I dont know which one is BEST but i've tried Crest white strips. I HATED them. They tasted awful and i just hated them. i do NOT reccomend them at all.
Hope i helped!

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im not talking about the movie "the notebook" im talking about the actually BOOK "the notebook"... where do i buy it? is it at any bookstore or do i have to order it? thanks.

i saw it at Barnes & noble over the weekend so yea, it's in stores. Hope i helped!

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For all poetry writers. Can u help me? i'm a writer but i cant seem to get a poem out (yeah aka writer block)...i was wondering if u could help me by writing a poem for me plz?

i wanna tell my friend, that he can sometimes be fun and crazy and how he isnt always on the sweet and caring side and sometimes can be a complete idiot at some points, without saying that..I also want to get to the point that i may like him as well. Can you help me whip up a poem plz?- THX

Hey, i'm a poet too. Even though i'm really crazy and hyper all the time i write pretty good stuff.
Anyways, just write things about your friends or crushes. they dont have to rhyme. Some of the best don't rhyme.
If you wanna see one of mine u can ask.

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okay this question is for my friend who can't ask it so i am doing it for her. well her best friend just recently died at age 12. and she wants to go to her funeral and wants me to go with her but her mom won't let her go because its during school and she thinks she will get all emotional but she really wants to go so she can say bye and she wants me to go with her so she has a shoulder to cry on if she needs one. does anyone know how she can get her mom to change her mind and let her go to her best friends funeral? please help.

You know, i usually say that you shouldn't go behind your parent's back but your friend NEEDS to go to the funeral. Her mom shouldn't be holding her back. find out some way to go. maybe you parents can give you both a ride. i dont know, just get there. if your friends' mom finds out, have your friend tell her that she needed to go and that's the end. hope i helped! ♥

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Hi, I like the group ICP and my girlfriend doesn't, she doesn't like it because it has killing in it, she hates it. Should I stop liking it or just keep listening to it, I just wanna make her happy, what should I do??

You shouldn't have to change yourself. Either make her put up with it and tell her that you're not changing for her or just dont listen to them around her. ♥

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One of my friends is 1 year younger than me and she's my best friend! But I'm also good friends with another girl but she said i'm a loser if i hang out with my best friend and that she'll stop talking to me because of that if i don't quit.

I know you prolly don't wanna hear this but if your friend won't hang out with you b/c of your other friend, then she's not worth it. And i also think that your other friend might be bluffing. Keep hanging out with both of your friends, i doubt anything will happen. hope i helped! ♥

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Tonight I'm going with a few friends to see a scary movie. My boyfriend is going to try to come behind his parents back to go with me. This one guy that I know who really really likes me is also going, and I kinda like him. What should I do because I'd rather cuddle with my guy friend than my boyfriend. Help!!

This prolly isn't what you want to hear but i wouldn't go. One of my friends was in the same sitch and wow... it did NOT go well. Maybe you could reshedule it for next weekend and break up with your bf over the week. But don't invite him to the movie. If you were cuddling with ur guy friend RIGHT after you broke up with your bf in front of your bf, it'd look really bad. hope i helped! ♥

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Ok well I was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend got shot and is now in a coma and might die! Well he did die! I slit my wrist one night I cry my self to sleep every night And I hate my life I used to be a prep but now I have gone goth I guess skipping classes and crying! I went to his funerl and saw him in his casket I just broke down right then and there I fell down on the ground and cried I refused to get up for about an hour and I went bye him like you all said and spent his last hours alive with him but it wasnt good enough he still died. I left the funeral and just went to his house (his parents were at the funeral) and went in his room and cried I swear I smelled him and saw him for 2sec then I just cried! What will I do?

death is a hard thing to get over. Trust me, i'd know. But you just have to realize that he wouldn't want you crying over him and being miserable. He'd want you happy and to go on living your life. Don't forget him but don't make the rest of your life a sacrifice for him. Don't hurt yourself or anything just b/c he died. That won't bring him back. You'll get over it eventually. Just dont do anything drastic like cutting yourself. It won't solve anything. Hope i helped!

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I just started cutting myself... I wanna stop but nothing helps me feel better. what should I do?

wow, cutting yourself isn't good at all. Whenever you feel bad, call a friend or someone else. Maybe listen to some good music. I'm definetly here to talk if you need me. My sn is baseballbri1818 if you need my e-mail address just ask. I dont want anything bad happening to you.

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