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so here's my situation..
a few months ago my mom switched me to a go phone plan, because i ran up a really high bill.
her and my dad are still on a regular phone plan, and they each have an upgrade option, and said that i can use it for christmas, because they're both perfectly fine with the phones they have currently.
the phone i want is the samsung jack..but it's a smartphone..and me and my parents are sure that with my go phone sim card and everything, that it would work with the smart phone. all i really care about is texting and calling..i could care less about getting on the internet with it, i can do that on the computer.
so, if i got the samsung jack smart phone, would i still be able to text and call? or would it not work?
thankssss. :)) (link)
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Smartphones don't use simcards, I don't think. They have their own thingy's. I would ask the phone store that you're buying it from if they do or don't. :) Good luck with the phone.
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does anyone know some really sad songs,
like ones that you listen to by yourself when your sad and sometimes even make yu cry?
just for a friend who likes sad songs
thanks (link)
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Listen to pretty much all of Metallica or Slipknot. Or evenescence. They're all pretty good and sad. :)
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I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year and I couldn't wish fore a more perfect girl. But recently she has admitted to staring at other guys, even while she was with me. This thought drives me insane I don't know what to think. Please any advice would be helpful (link)
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I agree with Ray. You should take charge and tell her you're uncomfortable with her staring at others. If she argues, she's not the one for you.
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so i'm trying to loose weight and i've bee using these dieting pills that were recommended tro me by my aunt. i'v been taking them around 6pm at night right after of before i excercise and then i noticed that on the bottle for the pills it says you should take it before breakfast but i always forget because in the mornings it's a real rush for me. so i was wondering if it really matteerd when i took them? and does it still have the effect if i take them at 6pm when i come home from work? (link)
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When people eat dinner, the extra energy stores as fat while they're sleeping. If the medication makes you have a higher metabolism, than that's great for eating before dinner. :) But I would still make an attempt to take 'em in the morning.
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I think I have issues... every time im talking to a guy i start to like them then they always leave me... is there something wrong with me that I can't keep a guy... ??????????????? (link)
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Obviously you're not getting the right kind of guys for you. :) Find guys that share common interest. Happy hunting ;)
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17/F
so christianity is a HUGE thing in my life.... and if i ever start to like a guy, one thing i look for is if he is a christian... so theres this boy at my church who is 18, and he has a great relationship with the Lord, he is just outstanding! i started to fall for him this summer. before the summer, he was awkward to talk to, but very nice to look at! haha. we started chilling in groups over the summer... and last week we went to a parrty together. i rode with him and we stopped at his house to pick up his guitar and before entering he said, "my parents aren't home would that be okay with your 'rents? i don't want to disrespect them" and i was just sooo happy he said that because that means he respects elders... anyways, so i now get butterflies everytime i see this boy, i look at his facebook page every 2 seconds etc. but he "DOESNT DATE" and everyone knows it.
WHAT DO I DO??? i don't want to make it awkward and tell him how i feel and KNOW i'm going to get rejected.
but im falling for him.... (link)
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You don't have to date. You could ask "Hey, do you wanna hang out sometime?" That's TECHNICALLY not going out. He might take it as a date, or he might take it as a friendly gesture. :) It's all about the tone of voice you ask him in. ;) Good luck.
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some nights, i'm so tired but i can't seem to sleep. this only happens sometimes, not all the time. anyone know what i could do? (link)
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You may have insomnia. This is a pretty serious disease. I would reccomend getting some sleeping pills. :) Hope you feel better later on.
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My boyfriend of 14 mths told me recently he joined the Air force. However he told me after everyone else new and over two weeks after he told everyone else. His friends, the lady who cuts his hair, even my neighbor knew before I did. I feel very hurt not just in the fact he kept something from me like that, but the fact he lied to me. He lied to me by saying that he was hanging out with his friends when actually he was joining the air force. I guess I just figure with as long as we dated he could at least be honest with him. I've been completely 100% honest with him from the beginning. I'm am extremely hurt as of right now and been thinking about ending it for the past week and a half. Besides he could be gone for a yr to two at a time. I just don't see it working out. Am I a horrible person if it does end? And also do you think he was just trying to protect me by not telling me till almost 2 wks after he joined? When he told me it was in the middle of a fight we were having and he said that was a good time to tell me then any other. How is that? I asked a few of my friends and they said he was just trying to protect me. None of them really want to get that involved because they said it's a very touchy subject. ERR! I just dunno. Please help me! (link)
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Lies in the present are destined to be opened in the future. What that means is, he WILL lie again. No matter how much you trust him, the truth of the matter is that men do not like to get in trouble. So they think "Oh, what's a little lie gonna do?" Umm.... turn into a bigger one? He'll go out and drink with his friends and he'll tell you that he's going bowling or something. And it will get more severe over time until it's to the point where all he tells you are lies. You deserve better than that. Everyone deserves better than that.
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Okay a few days ago i was arrested for tresspassing & curfew, apparently the cop
arrestted me for playing games ? but im not
going to get into that. Im 16, he put metal
handcuffs on me & didn't read me my rights.
he also went threw my coast pockets..
people have been telling me i can fight that
in court, because he shouldn't of done any of
them. but i dont want to say anything if it
dosen't matter, so if you know anything let me
knwo before my court date ! (link)
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In the 4th amendment, it states police officers HAVE to have a warrent to search & seizure unless it is evident of a crime being commited. That cop had a right to arrest you, but he HAS TO READ YOUR RIGHTS TO YOU! Since he didn't, you should sue his company, not him. You'll get more ;)
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First of all i would like to say thank you to all those people who told me to stick with my vow, b/c it turns out he was playing me anyway.(God my love life sucks)anyway i had this friend with benefits over the summer who helped me get over some serious greif, and we kinda became attached to each other, he's the only person who knowd my deepest secrets. And we contiuned being friends with benefits until say mid-nov. Recently i found he has a girlfriend and that kinda broke my heart...not tht im not happy for him or anything thats not the case. its just the fact that whenever we were together it was like we were going out...that and people expected me to go out with him. Now, whenever im around him i get a hollow feeling and when hes with his girlfriend(who hates me for being ex-friends with benefits)i want to burst out crying. Question: What am i supposed to do about that heavy chemistry between us?
PS we still hang out and goof off.
thxx-olie 14/f (link)
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Stay friends. :) If it's the best that you two can be, then take advantage of that. But I'm telling you, I know he has hidden feelings for you. If you really love him, you'll let him love whom he loves. :D If he's happy where he is, then be happy that he's happy. Then he'll realize what he's been missing.
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NUMBER ONE:
i've had a crush on since sophomore year, when i had a class with him. we chatted every other day. then, he was a senior the next upcoming school year and we talked a little in the hall and stuff. annddd no he guys to college out of state. when he came back to visit some people at school, i saw him in the cafeteria and i was got HUGE butterflies when i saw him. we exchanged hugs and now i can't get my mind off this kid.
NUMBER TWO:
i've known for 6 or so years. i always thought he was a major babe, but he was so awkward to be around that it was kind of impossible to like him. then this past summer, i got to know him really well on a mission trip. he stopped hanging out with his usual group on the trip because he found out 2 of the girls liked him, so he started chilling with us. and i really liked him. then he does small things like calls me randomly and text me. i don't mind. my heart does skip a beat when i see his name popp up on my phone.
SITCHEEASHUNNN.
i like both of them, but i know number two isnt into me like that and would probably never be into me like that. AND my good friend likes him too, so i can't do that to her.
guy number one, i don't know. i just don't know. he lives in a different state!
what do i do? (link)
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1: Find out if he's currently in a relationship. Long-distance relationship. 2: If your friend means alot to you, don't get into him. Don't ruin a great friendship over a guy. ;) There are more fish in the sea. I hope I helped, at least a little.
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***BEFORE ANYONE COMMENTS SAYING HOW UNHEALTHY AND HOW I HAVE A DISORDER, PLEASE BE AWARE THAT I KNOW THIS AND THAT EATING DISORDERS AND BEING HEALTHY IS NOT WHAT MY QUESTION IS ABOUT SO IF YOU ARE GOING TO SAY SOMETHING ABOUT THAT PLEASE DONT!!
i dont eat all week (besides coffe with half and half) and then weekends i binge like crazy and take laxatives.
this weekend i did that except i took the laxatives to late and i think i fully digested everything i ate (which was ALOT)
this week i have not eaten yet (besides coffe and some vegetables) i just tried on a dress that i am wearing tomorrow and my stomach looks huge and wide and its really not flattering. why does my stomach look huge? how do i fix it? i hate it and it makes me eat less. (link)
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Ok, you don't need to starve yourself because of what people think right now. In 20 years, are you gonna give a shit on how you looked now? Will people remember you as "the girl with the dress" or "the girl with the hair." NO!!! They will remember you as how you treated them. I'm sure I would fall in love if I saw you (take no offense by it). Nobody cares if you have a tiny "bulge." If you're THAT insecure, wear a loose jacket. :/ That's all I can tell ya. But hey, I have no room to judge ANYBODY :D I hate my body too.
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So, here's the senerio.
You're ina verbal argument with someone and they drop the F bonb(and others) like every other world.
And you stand there calmly replying back, with insult, but no swear AT ALL.
What does that mean?
Like, last year I remember reading somewhere someone said it was insecurity, or the person knew they were losing the verbal battle or something?
What are you opinions on this and what do you think it means? (link)
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They just have no verbal knowlage. Only intelligent people refrain from swearing. Also, they know nothing about decency. :) Just remember: Stupid people=curse, Smart people=insult.
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any good sad songs about loving someone who doesnt love you back or havin a crush on someone ? thanks :) (link)
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The Unforgivin 2: by Metallica.
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I'm seriously contemplating suicide right now, and have been for a long time now. I'm not at all happy with my life, and I'm tired of people saying that you can "change" your life to make you happier, or whatever.
I've taken lots of courses, and read lots of books on self-improvement, and things to make you happy. And so far, it's been all bullshit as far as I'm concerned. They only give me temporary hope, and I'm back to feeling how I was.
I seem to stop the people closest from me to do what they want. I get in the way with of my brother, mother, stepfather, and father. I generally don't get along with people, no matter how much I try to ever since I was a kid. I don't see it changing any time soon.
I know my life won't change anytime soon, because I don't want to try and change it anymore. What the hell is the point? Honestly, we're all going to die one day anyways. And, I just don't really care about religion anymore. All the stupid stuff with hell, and heaven. Life has become a joke. (link)
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I'm in your shoes right now. I know I'd rather end it now than live on. The only thing that stops me, the only thing I hold on to, is the though "What will happen tomorrow?" Honestly, you never know. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. So, I'm not stopping you, but I'm just saying that the world will be a better place with you. :) I guarantee it.
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So I have a bit of an issue. Whenever I get mad at myself about something (whether it's just something that I did during the day that I think "Why the hell did I do that??", something stupid that I said, etc, etc) I bite my arms. Hard enough that it hurts and leaves a red mark for a few hours or more, but never enough to bleed (Which is surprising, since I have braces). I do it if I'm mad at myself, like I just said, or if I have a million thoughts and emotions running through my head that I don't understand.
I used to cut myself-I only bled once, my last time, about two years ago- but I just can't bring myself to do that anymore. I'd rather not leave anymore permanent scars on myself, as my mom has inquired many times about the other ones but I don't have the guts to tell her the truth.
I think I bite myself because I don't know of any other way to deal with everything in my life. My mom has a boyfriend (My parents split when I was seven but I still see my dad a few times a week) and I've heard them having sex quite a few times which is completely disgusting and in my opinion is INCREDIBLY disrespectful to me. I think that's one of the reasons why I started biting.
Also, I have issues with my weight. I used to starve myself (only a few people know) and I lost about 10-15 pounds in one week, but gained some of it back. That was almost two years ago. I still constantly think about my weight and check the scale at least twice a day. I get really mad at myself if I have gained anything. I don't starve myself anymore, but I do cut down on food every once in a while. Not often.
Sometimes I just feel like I have to punish myself for stupid things. The pain that comes with biting my arms blocks out all of the other sh** in my head, which feels amazing, even if just for a few seconds. So I guess I'm just asking if anyone does this too, and how I might find a better way to sort out my crazy emotions. I've tried diaries, they don't work. And I can rule out talking to people, since most of the things I bite myself for are things that I don't want people to know.
I know someone might say "Just stop biting". I've tried, but I can't help it. If I'm with people and I get the urge to bite myself, I'll usually put my hand in my sleeve and dig my nails into my arm. It kind of scares me that I do all of this. (link)
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Listen, I understand what you're going through, and I know it ain't easy. I'm no counciler, but I listen to music (I drown the sorrow in Metallica, Slipknot & Disturbed) to ease it a little. I sometimes just take a box of pencils & break 'em one by one till they're all gone. If I'm still angry, I cry. Pure & simple, it cuts the pain. I reccomend you try these instead of biting. I hope you find something to ease what your going through. Bye
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14/m
There is this girl in my 1st Hour Class. She seems like a nice person and all but i wanna be her friend and maybe more. How can i start a conversation with her to lead us to friends and them maybe more? (link)
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Be mysterious. Occasoinaly glance at her. Give a friendly wave at the beginning of class. Go say "hi." Do what v he said and compliment her outfit. Don't hit it off too fast. That's what ruined my friendship with a girl. Help her on classwork. Facebook her. :) Stuff like that. Hope I helped at least a little.
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sometimes i get gas. like every two days.
i dont feel any abdominal pain, but i expel gas constantly the entire day. it's annoying. what do i do?
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There's really a limit of options you can do. If you take beano, or gas-x, you can temporarily extunguish gas. Wear scented diapers, I DON'T KNOW! haha Just kidding. *cough cough* anyway...........
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Well u see ive been talking with this boy,I really love him,like he is everything i need & wand there is just something about him. But he has a girlfriend. But we still talk and fool around. it kills me but i want it so bad i know im selling my self short so what do i do.Tell him its me or her? because i feel if i do that ill like be crushed. He tells me he doesn't like me as a girl friend number 2 but yet he calles me babe and he treats me like that so like what gives. The other girl doesn't even talk to him,ever but for some reason he still wants her..i just need some advice to see what i should do. (link)
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We boys are a strange species. Ok, here is the facts: Boys like to have more than one "girlfreind." By "girlfreind I mean Freinds that are girls. Him calling you "babe" tells me that he thinks you two are obviously close. He tells you he doesn't like you as a girlfreind, but he does. I can tell. He just doesn't want his real girlfreind knowing he likes someone other than her. You can totally get him, I assure you. Just ask him out. Tell him to leave her. Tell him She's no good. Stuff like that.....
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I need information on the U.S army rangers and ariborne. I plan on joining up nest July, but i don't know much about the training or requirements. Yes i have talked to recruiters and they gave a load of bull, according to my friend in Iraq. who also is going to tyry and get into the same traing as I am after his tour.
P.S i do not ever want to do air force or navy , my minds made up!!!!!! (link)
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Requirements: Don't be fat, Be muscular, be smart. You're gonna get basic training, and if you're good enough, you could ranks on your chest very easily. Especially if you're smart. Basic training consists of: Arms training, Combat training, Loads of running and loads of punishment for a simple mistake. Simple as that.
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