Hi there! I'm glasses. I'm here to help people with any problems. I'm good at answering just about anything from friends to relationships to homework and just about anything your heart needs to spill! I'm in high school and I can still answer a lot of things people can't understand themselves. I love you all! :)
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do you think its alright to date someone your best friend used to? they did about 2years ago and i thought he was cute but nothing more than that because that was who my friend talked to. by the way thats how him and i met when they dated, but 2 years later. we hung out this past saturday with our frat brothers and sorors and he kept putting his hands on my waist and when we went inside he sat next to me and was talking to me the whole time. he got nervous and went outside for a while when our frat brother put him on he spot and told him to ask me out and told him why are you being shy when i haven't seen you take your eyes off her and you have been telling me how beautiful she is the whole time since she got here. i think he is sweet and i am attracted to him but is it wrong. i do no't know how to tell my best friend even though she is getting married the 1st of august this year to someone else of course laugh out loud (link)
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Hi there! Wow you're in a difficult situation. Well here's some good news for you. Your best friend is getting married to someone else that you respect and you think they are a good couple right? Well, if you think her ex/your bf and you are a good couple, she should respect that too. If you love him, you should date. Your friend wouldn't care and would be happy for you if she really was your best friend. He seems to like you and you really like him so don't let the past hold you back from a man like him. You are better off together than apart. I really hoped this helped you! Good luck! Ask me anything else if you need to.
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I am so confused. I dont know what to do anymore. I am depressed all the time. To the point where all I want to do is cry and at times it takes all I have not to. I feel so alone. I have been married for 8 years but we never talk and lately he and I have been sleeping in separate rooms. We dont even argue we just dont talk. I know I am not happy anymore and I havent been for a long time. But we have children together and this is the only serious relationship I have ever had. To top it all he is controlling so I have never had a job and I dont know if I can support myself or my kids without him. I dont want to be miserable forever but I am terrified of life without him. I dont know how to survive without him. And I have absolutly no friends not a single one because my high school friends and I have drifted apart and I am not allowed out to have any. And I have no family I grew up in foster homes. So without him I am completely alone. I have no one to turn to. No one to stay with til I get on my feet. Am I being selfish by wanting a life of my own. What do I do? Where do I go from here? (link)
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Hi there! Wow this is a very serious question. I'm only in high school so I don't know much about marriage, but I do know that you need to talk to your husband about how you feel. And is it really up to him to decide if you should get a job? And if you and him decide your relationship isn't working out, then when he is gone, GET A JOB! He can't control your whole life just because he's the man. You have a say in your relationship too. You need to lay down the law with him and if he doesn't like that, leave him. You can start out a new life. Find a nice job and find a nice affordable apartment or house, (depends on the job you get) and find a place not to far away so you can still have your kids for weekends or week nights (whatever the plan is). You deserve a good life and if he isn't the right guy, then you can find another one. Your kids will have to understand that if you and your husband aren't happy being together anymore, you just want to move on. You can't let him control your life. Make a new life, get a job, find friends from work, find a new place to call home, find a new bf, and make life work. You can make your life so much better if you have the chance to decide. Good luck. If you need anymore advice, ask me because I am here for you. Good luck and I really hoped this helped.
~glasses
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Where can I hide condoms so my Brother won't find them? (link)
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Hey there! Um... this is a very weird question, but well, find a spot he would never look in. Like in your mattress. But I'm not sure. In my advice, you shouldn't be having sex anyway. It's dangerous and even with a condom, you (if you are a girl) or your partner (if you are a boy) could get pregnant. Or, you could get an STD. And STD's are not fun. I'm not saying you can't have sex, because I can't control that. But I am saying you should think of the consequences for you, and your partner. I hope this helps.
~glasses
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Hi, I am a fifteen year old girl, and I have always been intrigued by paranormal. However, I am a Christian, though I don't go to church as much as I should, but I do read the bible, not because my family thinks I should, but because I want to. I want to be close to God, and I am afraid hunting for Paranormal will distance me from The Lord. I'll just give u a quick summary of what I plan to hunt. Well, first, I don't believe in ghosts, however, I do believe in other types of paranormal such as angels, demons, "aliens", I don't know if u consider Bigfoot paranormal, but I do believe he is real, and I do believe in mermaids. Needless to say, I am usually an open-minded girl, and I believe anything is possible. I just don't want to cross the line with God, I want to be close to him. Any suggestions? (link)
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Hey there! Well, hunting for paranormal things like ghosts won't make you distant from the lord. And you know, if you believe in things like this, make them more religious. Like think of a ghost as a lost spirit that is stuck in normal. Or bigfoot as a poor animal hurt and abandon and you want to meet it. If you mentally sike yourself out, it will help you hunt or want to keep hunting. You can be whoever you want to be and God will respect that, as long as you don't kill anyone. I hope this helped you. If you need any more advice, ask me! Good luck.
~glasses
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I am 25 years old and I am a female and I had oral sex for thefirst time ever I have ner fone anything sexual before nowb in my life and I am a virgin . I knowbyou proble dodon't get a lot of women who are old as I am who are virgins asking about stds on this site but iam terrified that I might have aids when I didn't even have intercourse. We were both naked and he ate me out and I sucked his dick and he gingered me could I get aids from letting this guy that I have known since I was 16 do this to me . I know this may make .e sound like a whore but we was only dating a week before he wanted to have sex and I said didn't want to have sex so we decided on oral sex . I am so scared because the other day I was in the shower and I noticed 3 little bumps inside my vagiana and I also have a boil that's kind of grey looking sorry if this is to grafic but I wanted to give you complete detail of what's going on with me so you could answer my question properly. I talked to my cousin about my situation and she said that I needed to go see a gbyon and get tested for aids and other stds . I am so scared. Please help . I made an appointment gor the 10th of my next month and iam absolutely terrified because I don't know what to they are going to do. How do they check for aids is it s blood test or do they actually have to check down there ? Will they tell anyone if I have aids . Please help me. Thank you so much. (link)
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Hi there! Well even though I am not as old as you are, I do understand this kind of stuff. When I was taking health, we learned all about sex and STD's. To be honest with you, you can easily get an STD even if you didn't have actual sex. And when you said there are 3 bumps inside your private part, well, I'm as confused as you are. It's a very smart thing to see a doctor about this. Even if you had oral sex with him, you can get an STD anywhere. Even if it's not your mouth. And when they have STD tests, they test with blood samples, and they look in your parts. The only people they would tell is you and maybe your parents, but that is up to you! Don't be afraid, because you are getting checked for your health and that's okay. And I don't think you're a whore. I hope you will be okay and know I'm praying for you.
~glasses
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I'm a freshman , and I've been searching online for good colleges and i just need someone who attended or have seen CUNY : Brooklyn College to tell me is it good or bad ? , and does it have Computer Science ?
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Hey there! Good for you that you are already looking for colleges. Well, I honestly had no idea what Brooklyn College was until now. No I don't know anyone who attended that college. But here's something important you should know. As you grow older, you will change what you want to become and what college you truly want to be in over the four year high school period. For now, don't focus on colleges, and instead focus on school and grades. Once all that matches up around your Junior year, you will find the right college that will help you and support you. Don't go for the cooler name brand colleges like Yale or Harvard, or the one all of your friends are going to. But for someone like you, don't think too big yet. I can guarantee you that you will have other ideas of what you truly want to be later and what college will make you truly successful. Don't stress yet! Ask me for any other advice you need.
~glasses
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Well, I wanted to join a community theatre. But it's Summer, and where I live, they don't have Summer classes in theatres. Any more advice you could give me? (link)
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Hi there again! Awe I'm sorry about that. Well, maybe you can try to do your videos by yourself. But make sure you have different costumes and can have different voice tones for each person your acting out. Also, use special effects and editing to make your videos better. I hope this helped. Good luck! :D
~glasses
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I'm 16 and I got dumped a month ago and now have feelings for someone I met someone at the beginning of last school year and for some reason no matter how hard i try,I just can't get him out of my head. All year he treated me like he hated me, but I think that he really does but don't know why. He plays around with his friends and then when I enter the room he stops talking or whispers instead. We used to be best friends. Why is it that I can't get him out of my head? Is he just messing with me? or does he secretly like me? I need help (link)
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Hi there! This is a little confusing. But this boy doesn't sound like he's messing with you or secretly likes you. You said you guys use to be best friends right? I have a big feeling he feels awkward around you and then tells his friends when ever you are by them to ignore her. And probably the reason why he's in your head a lot is because you are finally noticing him after a while and your thinking about friendship. It may seem like love, but it's more of a "we need to be friends again" relationship. Don't give up hope and I hope a guy will fall head over heels for you again soon. If you need any advice, just ask me.
~glasses
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Jist of what happened in the past
- I liked his best friend, same college
- We met and even though things got messed up ended up liking each other
- Started dating when he passed out (im still doing my undergrad)
- we have been dating a year. I'm 19 he's 22
- our parents know about us and we have met both sides
- we met in college and then he passed out and started giving exams
- he couldn't clear the exams he gave so his parents got paranoid about him going on the wrong path or getting distracted because of me
- he promised his mom hed clear the last exam for us to prove to her he can do something
- he started working with this ngo in town so we would see each very often
- our friends knew and he even told his best buds that he'd marry me if we continue dating for a while
- we never had any problems even though he is a bit flirtatious with other women he was loyal to me
- Had a few fights because of the guys friends I had but it was all sorted out
A week back since I'm on vacation across the country he texted me saying that his result came out and he didn't clear it so he had to break up to concentrate on his career
He said he still loved me but he had to let this go since we were mad about each other. He said he hoped we got back together but couldn't promise anything for the future and didn't want to give me false hopes.
He said I was the best thing that happened to him. He also said his parents raised him and he needs to make them proud by achieving something in life and hence he needs to give up all the distractions in his life.
Its been a week and he wouldn't answer any of my calls or messages and has completely cut off. He told his friends he called it off and didn't give a reason and he wouldn't reply back to my friends at all.
I don't know what to do. I want him back because I love him even if it involves waiting but I don't know what is going on in his mind. I am also scared out of stupidity hed go any do something really reckless to get over me.
I don't know what to say to him when we meet when I get back but I am willing to do anything to rectify this. Do you have any advice as to why this happened and it could truly get him back? Or am I living in a dream world where fairytales exist and he is truly over me? (link)
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Hi there. Awe I feel bad for you. But, on your bf's part, I kinda have to agree with him. If he wants to become really successful, he has to get all of the things that might distract him out of his life temporarily. He does love you and still does. Have you ever heard the quote, "If you truly love something, set it free, and if it comes back, it's yours." He loves you so much, he had to set you free. He said that he didn't want you to have high hopes for him to come back. He just want you to be happy and to find a guy who loves you and won't leave you. He's blocking you out not just to keep him concentrated, but he truly does miss you and can't have any connection to you or he will be at loss. He set you free, but you can't come back, it will affect his future. If you truly loved him, you would respect that. You also have to set him free. If he comes back, he's yours. But like he said, "he con't promise anything and he doesn't want to give you false hopes." Find someone else and let go. Because if you don't, this relationship will hurt you forever. I hope you will find someone like him one day. Stay strong. Ask me anything if you want any more advice.
~glasses
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My best friend(Danielle) is sort of ignoring me. It's been a really long time since she asked me to hang out after school or on the weekend. We still talk to each other every day. We sit by each other at lunch and on the bus, but lately she has been hanging out with this girl Luisa. Luisa isn't mean or anything, but its just that since she became friends with Danielle, Danielle has been practicly worshiping her. She always needs to ask for Luisa's opinion on everything. Every weekend she's with Luisa.
Danielle has also been trying to be emo. Its sooo annoying!!! Whenever she says that she went to hot topic or when she tells me she downloaded some song from a band I never heard of she thinks she so cool. I try to tell her shes not emo but she thinks she is!
BTW: I don't want to tell her I feel left out or something and shes like my only friend sooo....??? (link)
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Hi there! I have had the same problems before. I hate to tell you this, but she wants to move on. If she wants to be emo, let her. If she was your best friend, she wouldn't have left you. She decided what she wants to be and you should too. Maybe she has been your best friend for a long time, but all friends come and go. Also, you can make new friends. Find out what other people like to do and see if you have any similarities. Trust me. It does work. Last year, I lost all of my friends because I isolated them out of my life because I was going through a hard time. When I was back to myself, I didn't have any friends. Until April, when I joined the high school color guard team. I love to spin and throw flags, riffles, and swords (the riffle and swords are plastic and not real so it doesn't hurt). I was nervous because all of the girls in my grade hated me. I felt awkward until I met Bernie. She helped me on a part of the routine we were learning at the time and we found out we had a lot in common. Today, she is my best friend and I'm friends with all of her other friends too. I miss my old friends, but if you don't let go, you will be hurting for a long time. I hope this helps and if you need any other advice, you just ask me.
~glasses
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Hi. I want to post acting videos on YouTube I have scripts from different movies and I want to act them out. But none of my friends are really interested in acting. I know that I'm good at acting I'm 100% sure of it. So should I act out the whole script by myself and post that on YouTube? (link)
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Hi there! You like acting too?! That's so cool! I also love to act. I have a good idea for you. If your friends don't want to do it, get into real theater and make more friends there. I bet if you find friends there, they would love to make acting videos with you. If you want to act by yourself, make sure you have different voices and costumes so it doesn't look like your alone. If you really love acting, find a community theater group you can join! I hope this works out for you! Let me know if you need any more advice! :)
~glasses
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My boyfriend and I are both 22 years old and have been dating for 3 years. I feel as if he "jokes around" way too much by grabbing my "lady parts" per se in public and I tell him to stop and he doesn't. I feel like the only time he tries to be romantic or nice is when he's trying to get it in with me and I can tell it isn't genuine. He stopped doing alot of the cute date things he used to do and I he gets mad when I don't give him sex. It's so frustrating. I do love him but he gets mad because we only have sex on "my terms". But it's hard to get turned on to him when I feel like a giant meatsack being grabbed all of the time. I tried talking to him but he just gets mad and says things like "I can't believe you think I only care about sex blahblah" and then turns the whole thing around. Please help. (link)
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Hi there! This is a sticky situation. I really hate telling you this, but I don't think he really loves you for you. This is a guy who wants you for your good looks and body. I know you love him, but if you want to be hurt and get pregnant from a man like him, you have to be crazy. He does only care about sex and won't be strong enough to admit it. There are so many other guys in the world looking for someone nice and kind and don't look for sex or beauty. You need to find that guy. In my advice, you should break up with him and find a guy who loves you for who you are. And don't try for someone good looking because that's not love. That's lust. But you don't have to take my advice. This is your decision. I really hope things can work out. I'm praying for you! If you need any more advice, please ask and I will answer immediately!
~glasses
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Hi,
i am a female and 25 years old. I liked the answer u gave that girl. I am over thinking and i am scared about myself that am i becoming a girl attracted girl? I am so frustrated from one month and can't not concentrate in anything. I have a bf and we are engaged. But i want to get rid of the thinking. I always think will i be like them? I belong to Hinduism religion. I love my bf so much. but i just don't want to think about these topic anymore.
Please please help me as early as possible cause i have final soon. (link)
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Hi there! Awe this is a tough problem. Well, it just might be a stage when you think your becoming a girl attracted to another girl. It's okay. I can bet you 75% of all girls in the world have thought about it before. You have a bf and since you both will be married soon, you should tell him how you feel. I bet he will give you good advice. I hope this helps, and if you need anything else, please ask me and I will help you! :)
~glasses
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I have a Textfree number. Well the numbers get recycled, so they go to new people if they're unused.
Well I kept getting "Incoming call from _____" so then I blocked the number. However, I got a voicemail that sounded like an older man and he was like "Stop denying my calls bi**h". So then I just quickly logged out of my Textfree account. Could he have possibly just had the wrong number or it was to the person who had the number last? I'm extremely scared. Only ONE person has my number. I'm going to change my number for now because I'm so freaked out. But what do you guys think it was??? :( (link)
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Hi there! You know I literally just had the same problem, but it's someone who I don't know texting me. It is a smart idea to change your number just in case, but this man might be calling the wrong number. Maybe he was trying to call his wife and she never called because he accidentally called you. I would change your number, but talk to your parents first. That's what I did and it was just a guy and he was trying to text his daughter, but it was the wrong number. Just tell your parents and I promise everything will be okay. Ask me anything else if you still are having trouble.
~glasses
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Hi Im from the Philippines and whenever our dog a daschund hears a honking horn he wails or cries is it possible that he has a trauma? (link)
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Hi there! This is a very interesting question. I looked up possible things that may cause this, and I know why your dog is wailing. It is just a very irritating sound and your dog just can't seem to get used to it. Plus, daschund breeds react to things more than other dog breeds. The coincidence is my neighbor has a daschund named bella and she does the EXACT SAME THING!!! Your dog doesn't have any trauma and it's just a natural dog instinct. I promise you you dog is okay and if you need anymore advice, just ask because I know all about animals.
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So I am on a soccer team and I really like it. I am an okay player, but my teammates really don't like me and make fun of me. I have no friends on the team and I'm always left out. Do you have any ideas? (link)
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Hi there. I'm really sorry people are being mean to you on your soccer team. I feel the same way. I'm just starting high school next year, and I already made the color guard team. If you don't know what that is, we spin and throw flags, riffles, and sabers (swords)(the riffle and sabers are plastic and don't work so were safe) we also do stunts and dance. We are in the marching band and we have to preform around them. But back to the topic, so on my team, there are 32 girls and 1 boy. And out of all the girls/boy on our team, no one likes me. All the girls in my grade really hate me. And I don't know about the older girls feel about me,(the guy I already know hates me) I feel your pain. I'm here for you. Just suck it up and play soccer. You might not have friends there, but your doing something you love.
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I'm on the trigestral pill for about 19 days now had unprotected sex 3 days ago when the nurse advised us to wait @ least 30 days after taking the pill to have sex,can I get pregnant? (link)
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Hi there. Even from taking the pill, there is no 100% chance you're safe from pregnancy. The pill works around 90%-95% so don't get your hopes up. So yes you can still get pregnant. And if you do, your baby has a 90% of not being harmed from the pill.
Hope this helps.
~ glasses
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15, Female, USA
I really want a Flemish Giant rabbit. My mom said I could if I can train it to use a litter box or something of the sort.
I've always wanted a rabbit and this is the only breed I could convince my parents to get(since we have cats and my sibling past experiences with rabbits weren't the greatest).
It would stay in my relatively large bedroom, I don't think it would be in a cage unless it was needed.
In short my questions are: Can you litter train a Flemish Giant Rabbit?
Will having cat's and dogs be a problem?
Can I let it stay in my bedroom without a cage?
ANY info on these matters, or anything
(literally anything) else you know about Flemish Giant Rabbits, would be GREATLY appreciated. (link)
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Hi! I am a pet expert considering I have had 17 pets and both of my parents are veterinarians. Pretty much, you can somewhat train your rabbit. It depends on the relationship you make with it. It also take a lot of time so be patient. Also, having a cat and dog will be a HUGE problem. Unless you have your pet rabbit in a separate room away from both the dog and cat, don't get the rabbit. And your rabbit needs a cage to sleep in at night. It can't be small, my parents recommend a big cage so it can have play time inside and have tons of toys to gnaw on so its teeth won't over grow. You also need to take it to a vet clinic at least once a year for teeth and heart safety. Don't over or under feed your pet and give it tons of water. My best advice for more info is to go on the petco website and click on the small animals and check out rabbits and it will give you a check off list of things you need to get, extra info, safety issues, and more. Hope you can get your rabbit!
~ glasses
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