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Is he just messing with me? or does he secretly like me? I need help
I'm 16 and I got dumped a month ago and now have feelings for someone I met someone at the beginning of last school year and for some reason no matter how hard i try,I just can't get him out of my head. All year he treated me like he hated me, but I think that he really does but don't know why. He plays around with his friends and then when I enter the room he stops talking or whispers instead. We used to be best friends. Why is it that I can't get him out of my head? Is he just messing with me? or does he secretly like me? I need help
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There is something else going on here. What you are describing makes no sense at all. If you are best friends with somebody and then suddenly you're not, you usually know why. Could it possibly be that it all happened when you started dating this guy who just dumped you? If so then you have your answer. He wanted to date you, you started dating this guy, now he wants nothing to do with you? I don't think he is messing with you at all, he is probably just really angry with you. If you want to get to the bottom of it try calling him or getting him alone and ask him what the problem is. Hopefully he will give you another chance! Good luck!
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Hi there! This is a little confusing. But this boy doesn't sound like he's messing with you or secretly likes you. You said you guys use to be best friends right? I have a big feeling he feels awkward around you and then tells his friends when ever you are by them to ignore her. And probably the reason why he's in your head a lot is because you are finally noticing him after a while and your thinking about friendship. It may seem like love, but it's more of a "we need to be friends again" relationship. Don't give up hope and I hope a guy will fall head over heels for you again soon. If you need any advice, just ask me.
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Boys are so confusing in their teenage years. They don't mature as fast as girls. Some people say: "if he annoys you it means he likes you", I'm not sure it relates to every single person, it depends. Maybe he is changing because he feels pressured by his other friends. Humans are weird, we like the people who ignore us. You can't get this guy out of your head because you have a crush on him. The only way to know if he is messing around or not is by having a conversation with him. Try to ask him what's the deal with him and why is he acting that certain way. Hope this helps!
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