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Dating a guy your best friend used to date


Question Posted Sunday July 13 2014, 9:40 am

do you think its alright to date someone your best friend used to? they did about 2years ago and i thought he was cute but nothing more than that because that was who my friend talked to. by the way thats how him and i met when they dated, but 2 years later. we hung out this past saturday with our frat brothers and sorors and he kept putting his hands on my waist and when we went inside he sat next to me and was talking to me the whole time. he got nervous and went outside for a while when our frat brother put him on he spot and told him to ask me out and told him why are you being shy when i haven't seen you take your eyes off her and you have been telling me how beautiful she is the whole time since she got here. i think he is sweet and i am attracted to him but is it wrong. i do no't know how to tell my best friend even though she is getting married the 1st of august this year to someone else of course laugh out loud

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Hardcore-Band-Geek answered Monday July 14 2014, 8:22 pm:
My first boyfriend (currently dating) used to date my best friend. I met them a few months after they broke up. So that was before my time. I just made sure it was okay with my best-friend and she totally approved :) I would just make sure she's cool with it. TO be honest though, If she's getting married it shouldn't even matter. Good luck :)

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sumonymous answered Sunday July 13 2014, 3:29 pm:
Hey, honestly I think its okay. Your friend dated him 2 years ago and she's definitely moved on if she's getting married. The best you can do is ask her and i'm sure she would be fine with it because if your serious about this guy, you would want your friends approval. Don't hold back, just ask her :)

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glasses answered Sunday July 13 2014, 12:13 pm:
Hi there! Wow you're in a difficult situation. Well here's some good news for you. Your best friend is getting married to someone else that you respect and you think they are a good couple right? Well, if you think her ex/your bf and you are a good couple, she should respect that too. If you love him, you should date. Your friend wouldn't care and would be happy for you if she really was your best friend. He seems to like you and you really like him so don't let the past hold you back from a man like him. You are better off together than apart. I really hoped this helped you! Good luck! Ask me anything else if you need to.

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