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Let me clarify- bi-polar vs narcissism


Question Posted Sunday July 13 2014, 9:33 am

He went to take a picture of a total stranger...who objected. I advised. perhaps he needed to see if they objected first then proceed. He took the picture and responded to her ."I guess this will be between us...instead of apologizing. When I tried to suggest what might have happened or how to prevent this in the future...he ended up calling me a f...ing b.....not once but several times...He then believed the tires on the vehicle were going to be slashed so he ran to the vehicle. This dove tails into my repeated requests...not to be hit with a drumstick or be called a whore which he laughs He has had no job in years...contributes what he wants... He went off on my daughter last weekend...with a similar attack. I am tired of the disrespect, rudeness and abuse... Yes, I am well educated, a professional with a license...and one doesn't need a medical license to make this diagnosis.

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adviceman49 answered Monday July 14 2014, 5:12 am:
Did I miss an original post. Is this an explanation of an or the original post. In either case I do agree with everything Razhie has written.

I will add that there is really not enough information in this post to label this person as being bipolar or a narcissist. I will say that it appears he is an abusive ass. I cannot understand why you would stay with someone like him. No one should put up with being disrespected, rude to or abused, well educated or not.

My advice is to show this person where the door is and tell him not to let it him in the ass on the way out.

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Razhie answered Sunday July 13 2014, 3:07 pm:
Technically speaking, one does need a medical liscence to make any sort of diagnosis. Anything else is just an opinion, also, it's both rude and irresponsible to toss out medical labels without the training, or a request from the patient.

But, you don't need to diagnose this person to accurately label his behaviour as absolutely not okay and abusive! It is totally not okay and absolutely abusive. Whether or not he has a mental illness, you need to stay away from this person. They are hateful and dangerous.

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