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http://youtube.com/watch?v=P4Kj8DBLrt4

in that video what is that T necklace that gabriella gave troy? i don't understand that part.

ok well he gave her the necklace the last day of school... it stands for TROY ... and she got mad at him so she gave it back

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Okay!!!
i'm sick of it!!
i mean... no offense BUT what's up with all these 14 and 15 year old girls thinking they are so old enough to have sex, like it's a casual thing.
I'm going to be 15 next week, and sex NEVER came in my mind to me, and I would never have it before i turned at least 20
yea... i know call me a holy person or crap... but seriously!! why are people doing it SO young...
They are still kids
I was reading all these questions about sex... and they are from like 14 and 15 year olds
THAT'S RIDICULOUS
i'm not trying to lecture or anything now here's my serious question....

I am getting to know guys now, and gonna be dating them....... now i'm kind of afraid that they'll all want sex and pressure me into it..
I'm not like that... i'm saving it
And the one thing i'm worried about is that if i don't give it... he'll take it from me

I mean, i don't care if i have to break up or lose them just bc they want sex... i just don't want to be taken advantaged of... y'know?

Help?

Thx for reading.... sorry it's sooo long

yeah i feel the same way...

i mean ...uh ew!

and theyre totally young

and guys like that just arent worth your time...

well i know it was much ... i mean im only 13 .. lol ... but hope i could help :)

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would it be weird/unlikely if a 15 year old, almost 16(10th grade) dated a 13 year old(8th)?

okay well this is what i truely think.. i dont want to sound rude.... but it might make you look just a bit pethetic/desprate.... becuase if a high school person was dating a jr. high person... its just a tad weird... notmuch but i hope it helped some

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ok im 15 1/2 almost 16
and my bf is 18
i want to have sex with him because i love him and trust him
and i know all the consequences
but because he is 18 he doesnt want to have sex because it is "illegal"
is that right .
can someone please help me
i have been with him for 3 years and i love him with all my heart and i just think it is about time for sex . but is there really a low about age and sex ?
i hear something aobut 5 year difference
but i just want the truth

yeah...

it is illegal to have sex with someone if they are 18 or older and your not.

its even that way for dating...

even if you are 17 and hes 18.. thats illegal... but i mean its not really fair but its the LAW

[[not much but i hope i could help]]

♥.Rachel

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is just using a condom & pulling out effective enough? what is the chance youll get pregnant with that? we check the condom every time afterwards by filling it up with water

it only works like 60% i read it in a health book....

hope i help

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i have a small thingy and i was wondering if girls even care

well sluts want them huge


but shoot im 13 i dont give a crap.....
if shes worth it she wont care

so dont worry about it

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when you're on your honeymoon do you have to have sex? is that what the guy usually expects to happen?

it doesnt matter what the guy "expects". its what you want... dont do it just cuase you feel pressured. and hes your husband so he should understand

not much but i hope i got to the point :)

♥.Rachel

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hi, im really upset and i've cried for ages over this im turning 14 in exactly 2 weeks, this is long right basically i havent started my period my boobs are growing and are a fair size, i've got lots of pubic hair on my vagina and armpits thats normal. I'm worried about the period thing will it ever start? I masturbated with proper dirty sticks and unclean pens will this affect my period and also i don't do much sports apart from athletics once a week in school as part of PE but i'm quite energetic and lively. I'm so scared i really don't know what to do, my sister who is now 17 started hers at the age of 13 and 3 months i don't know about my mum and i can't talk to them or any doctors what should i do? I want to say thank you for any advice.

Dont worry about it... people start theres from like 10-16.... so dont worry.... ur probally just a little late.... i mean i started mine at the age of 12... maybe youll start soon.... but your most likely going to

so dont worry... cuase stress can some times play with ur hormones just dnt stress out over it

not much ... but i hope it helps you :)

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so i have a phsyco boyfriend..when he gets mad i mean HE GETS MAD! he screams at me when i didnt even do anything and i end up feeling so bad i just dont know what to do with myself..i mean those words HURT..this is weird but does anybody have any stories like thiss or anything? any ways to feel better about myself? =[


Warning: long but hopefully it helps



well my story isnt all like that

but i used to have a boyfriend and he ALWAYS cryed... and anything i did he would cry... and he was being so dumb by crying over the smallest things... and so once he cried like 10 times in 1 day... and everybody knew it was cuz of me... and i didnt even do anything.. so i ended up being the "bad guy" in the situation.... it sucked becuase everyone was like "man rachel is it just fun to hurt his feelings?" and no one understood....

so dont worry your not the only one...

even though it wasnt the same way i hope it makes u feel just a bit better... and your not the only one w/ boyfriend problems

♥.Rachel

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My dad is 37 he's got like a 6 pack he's not ugly and I need to find him a date. He tells me that if he doesnt find someone soon he's going to go back to his exgf [yuck] So how can I find him a date? Where can i tell him to go to meet chicks? I dont want to say a bar because nasty bar sluts aren't his thing.

um,...... my mom found her husband on "yahoo instant messanger"

not much... but i hoped i help some

♥.Rachel

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18/f
Okay, i've been seeing my boyfriend for a year now and i've found out that i'm pregnant. I know i want to keep the baby, i couldn't go through with an abortion. But in September he's going away to university. I know how much he wants to go and i don't want to spoil it for him or make him feel like he has to stay. Do i tell him now? Or do i wait until he's at university and then tell him? (He's going to be living quite far away when he goes, like four to five hours drive away if that helps)
Please help!

what i would do is tell him now. but then tell him that you dont want it to ruin his university thing. and if he says tht he wants you to have an abortion tell him how you feel and just stand up for your self


not the best but i hope it helped some

♥.Rachel

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this is kinda long, just a warning.

okay so i am prety sure i'm bulimic. i've been throwing up almost everything eat since november 2006. i haven't lost weight, it flucuates a lot, but i think i do it becasue i think i'll lose weight eventually. and i used to binge eat a lottt then purge, but i've stopped the bingeing which was hard. i kinda want to stop but in a sence i don't think i can and i don't even know why i do it. now i try to barely eat. My mom constantly bugs me that i need to put on a few pounds and it's so annoying. i want to lose weight.

i don't know what to do, what should i do?

and i have another question, if i don't eat ANY snacks, cut out junk food, and eat smaller portions, will i lose weight? i don't really excercise that much, but i guess i could start. i usually try for 500 calories a day at the least.

well i think u should really try your hardest to stop the throwing up. its really not good for you and because the acids in your stomach make your teeth disolve/rot over time.

and yes, eating a more healthy variety of foods and excerciseing will help you.



it wasnt much but i really hope i can help. if you want you can email me anytime

♥.Rachel

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Ok well everyone tell me im a veyr healthy person and even the doctors and stuff but I have a TINY dark spot under ym eye kinda like bags but I always get good sleep and stuff but it wont go away.

I'm not stresed and I'm 13.

I tried sleeping more but it won't go away and i don't want to wear make up to cover it up because I'm a natural person and don't use make up.

And my skin is very healthy and looks the same everywhere so even though it's a little, it's still pretty noticeable.

Is this normal for people who don't wear make up?

Is this the reason why people start wearing make up, to hide things like these and when more things come up they depend on make up even more?

Or is it something different?

try taking vitamans. your most likely missing some sorta mineral in your skin. so just try that

not much. but i hope it helps :)

♥.Rachel

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Hi, the past few days i haven't been feeling that good and i was wondering what are some signs of pregnancy? my period should be coming in a few days and maybe its just cramps and stuff. but the main point is that ive never had sex..so what are some signs of pregnancy? thank you

your most likely not pregnant if youve never had sex

and just wait until about a few days too see if they are just period pains


hope i helped

♥.Rachel

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I was just searching around for reasons why we should drink a lot of water,and I suppose I show signs of not getting enough(always drowsy,can't concentrate,darker urine,less bowel movements,can hardly exercise).The thing is...I don't really like water.What can I do to make myself drink more,and what exactly does getting enough water intake do for you?

well you can go to a store like "kroger" and get those "crystal light" water flavorers..... thats how i drinks more water

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how do you erase things that are saved in the things you write in like the search things.
like on google, where you type in the search box and you type one letter and other things that start with that letter that youve searched for pops up. how do you delete that?

well when you put the letter in... the words will pop up.

when u see the words. go scroll down too it , it should be blue. then push the delete button.

And that should do it.

♥.Rachel

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okay i am 14/f and i weigh like 110. i no that's not alot but i really want to get skinnier. i no it's really bad for you and all but i really want to be annerexic, because i no it works! but it's hard for me to discipline myself not to eat! i have been riding my bike 4 miles like everyother day. that's really easy because im very athletic and i play soccer 2 times a week also. and i have been trying to cut down on food and also eat more fruit. it's so hard because when i'm bored i want to eat even though im not hungry. i also do 500 situps every day. i am skinny i just want to be skinnier. i am trying to be annorexic but maybe eat like a banana a day or something but it is so hard not to eat! please help me and give me ways to stop me from eating when im broed and stuff like that! im desperate! thanks in advance!


Okay. Well you cant just decide to go anorexic. And that is the normal weight for a 12 year old so im sure your not over weight. But you might just have muscle, because muscle wieghs much more than fat.

And it doesnt matter how much you wiegh, just as long as your happy with your looks.

it wasnt much but i hope it helps

♥.Rachel

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I'm on birth control. I have been for about 4 months.. But I skipped last month's period by taking a new packet. I don't have my new packet yet and I'm starting the peach pills sunday!

I'm supposed to go swimming tomorrow morning to late afternoon. Would I get my period tomorrow?

On my first month, I already had my period before so I didn't get it the peach pills week. The second month I did and when I did, it happened like days later.

Would it happen days later too? I really don't want to put in a tampon especially if I'm not bleeding. [I've never used tampons before either]


i was on a HEAVY period and still went swimming....AND so most likely its going to auto-maticly stop when u get in water...

trust me i do it all the time

hope i helped

♥.Rachel

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what are some sites that i can watch movies on!?!?


suppload.com

im sure thts it

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I just got my wisdom teeth out
all four of them at the same time, my bottom two were impacted. and im in a LOT of pain at the moment.
is there anything that can help with the pain
Im already on vicoden but it isnt helping...

well i heard that ice cream helps :)

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