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Umm I'm 14. I love helping people out. I like to read and hang out with all of my friends. I go to the movies amost every Friday. So I know the good movies. =] Well I love helping people. I could be in the worst mood and then help someone and feel like the world is wonderful. It's nice to know you can be there for people. Well I hope I can help.
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I need help finding the perfect hairstyle. I searched google for about 20 minutes and i still can't find anything good. This is what I want

A little longer than shoulder length hair... maybe about 5 more inches.

Med.-Dark brown

Straight hair

Side Bangs

Layered ( Looking for front layers... or something that looks shaggy or choppy. )

If you can't find all of those features, that's ok. But mainly I"m looking at the length, straight and layered or shaggy looking. Thank you!

Oh and please don't give me websites and try to find them, because I've been looking for a long time and I just want direct pictures. No searching... got it? THANK YOU! (link)
http://hairstyles.hairboutique.com/details.php?ID=11232. i think that is close to what your looking for. hope i helped. i was looking for a new hairstyle too and i considered that one. =]


I really need help on taming my short temper and jealousy streak. I have extremely bad road rage and I tend to blow up and freak out on people very easily over stupid things. I also want to be "the dominant female" so I get jealous when a pretty girl is around and I feel the need to be better than her.

Is there anything that can help me besides medication? I'm desperate. (link)
Yes there is. try this excersize. Imagine someone really ticking you off or doing something that would make you rather mad. Then hold that anger and dont do anything about it. But now that you have anger in you, you can''t jsut keep or you will explode. After the excersize you should go run or ride a bike. That way you put it towards something good. Then after a while just do it when you get mad. And for the jealousy problem. I like to be prefect at everything. When someone is better than me it makes me kind of sad, but then I realized it's better to realize that there will always be someone better now than when im an adult. I hope my advice works. =]


Ok i really like this boy and i really want to ask him out but like hes one of my friends and if i do ask him out i dont want to make our friendship feel werid if he doesnt like me that way so can u help me?

sincerely,
Heather (link)
Well, Heather I hang out with tons of guys, and we are all like really good friends. The bad thing about that is I do tend to like lots of the guys I hang out with, but once your good friends and you go out it tends to mess up the friendship. You guys are probably really close where you tell everything to each other. If you go out then he probably won't be as close with you. My suggestion is that you stay friends. If you go out it could mess up your friendship later. If you find out that he likes you though, maybe you should go for it. In this case you might want to make sure first.


Hi, I am new here and I need some advice. I am 14 and Im a girl, and I weigh 127 pounds. I want to lose weight, and get thinner, but I can't seem to stick to any diet, or stick to any exercise thing. I'll be good for like a few days, but then all my friends are pigging out so I end up doing it too! How can I learn to discipline myself, so I can get a better body and be healthier? and please dont say I should just be me or whatever, I need something that works. (link)
Okay I am fourteen and I weigh 115 and I don't like my weight, but I can't really control if i eat healthy or not because my parents find the food. So I jog twice a day. Well I mean you don't have to jog or anything, but you should walk. That way you can continue you eat what you want. I stopped drinking soda like Coke products and stuff like 2 weeks ago. So drink something more healthy that will help too. =]


I have SUPER pale skin, and that's not the problem.. I know the tan look is in but I'm happy being super pale and even try to emphasize it, but I like to wear skirts/capris..
But my legs (because I am so pale) look.. spotty (not sure if that's the word I'm looking for) where I shave and everything and sort of pink and blemish-y.
Is there anything I could do to stop this? I've tried asking magazines and stuff.. now I'm ready for some down to earth person to tell me, lol. :P

Thanks alot!! (link)
Yeah well maybe you should get a little tan. I mean I'm pretty white too, but when I go to go jogging my legs get a little tan. It's more of a natural tan though. Not that dark color. I like being my natural color, but maybe if you just go outside for a little bit it will help the blemishes.


Okay.. i know this maybe sound very confusing and i know most of you are in your teens. this let you know that my freinds and I are in our 20's.. but thing is what i am going to exlpain sound very Immture.. ok well I know I had been having problem with a freind I had from long time and my other friend had problem with this friend to.. so I thought one day we hang out and spend a day and talk.. well thing is that 2 of my freind had a arugment over something silly like well let say this freind name is M and other freind is R. well M was mad at R becouse she not hang otu with her all summer becouse R was saying no alot and busy with her family and helping her borthers and sisters. how ever me and R was planing one day and I was invite M but she to upset with r and so I thought ok. so me and R hang out and become best pals again.. and how ever I got home found out M block me and r off her Facebook and myspace.. I was like what did I Do? i know she feel hurt and think i went behind her back, and i didn't. i wanted to work things out with her to and that i know that R and M had a clast last summer and R not forgive her becouse M never say sorry to her.. well reason problem was let say R in collage and she hase new freinds and busy alot in scool and M hase a boyfreind dont really hang out big crowed. they are best freind but kinda not anymore.. sometiems i am feeling down about r but not worht being down about m will do it to and want me take her side and ifeel like she brain wash me alot of - thoughtts and i use to be so positve not not being trustful and belive. i know i soud leave M alone but thing is i have big heart and i want send her a message tell her hou immture she being and sorry is think i betray her but thing is don't think she care for me and r being good freinds.. (link)
Well if M was a good friend she wouldn;t care that you are hanging out with another one of your friends. Wehave the same problems in High School. The person is being immature, but you cna't really do anything about it. And I'm kind of like you where I couldn't jsut leave her alone. What you need to do is send her a message saying you didn't go behind her back that you wanted to hang out with R and M. She chose not to hang out with you so it's her fault. You should be able to be friends with whoever you so choose.


why do sunburns itch when healing (link)
Well your body itches most of the time to get off dead skin. So maybe your body is just trying to get off the burned skin. So it would be good to scratch it, but not to much. =] But its like all cuts and stuff they itch when they heal.


I have a hard time in a certain part of making chords on the guitar- namely the barring... I don't know if that's what you guys know it as, but it's where you use one finger to press down on more than one string. I can do it a little, but it's really hard, especially when you're trying to press on all 6! Are there any hints, like changing the angle of my hand or something, to make it easier? (link)
Well if you slant the guitar i think it helps. That way it's at an easie angle. But also see if you can fit both your index finger and middle finger in the fret. That way you can use both fingers.. when you get better you can choose the easier finger. Then maybe be able to use them all. =]


I was just searching around for reasons why we should drink a lot of water,and I suppose I show signs of not getting enough(always drowsy,can't concentrate,darker urine,less bowel movements,can hardly exercise).The thing is...I don't really like water.What can I do to make myself drink more,and what exactly does getting enough water intake do for you? (link)
Well yo start off you can buy like flavored water and stuff. When you jsut get back from jogging or soemthing ice water can really do it. I used to drink coke and now i only dirnk water and sweet tea. Water doea help you a lot. I mean people say waters healthy. I don't think that's true. I think that it just isnt bad for you which is why it helps you. When you put all the junk food and stuff in you, you need something but water isnt nessesarily healthy. Get the flavored water. That stuff is really good. Then start excersizing and drinking more and more water. It helps. =]


okay well i have these freinds...

and their always hanging out together. And they never invite me anywhere. except when theres no one else to hang out with.

they make me feel like crap, it just seems like they arent realy my friends anymore.

p.s. sorry for asking so many questions..

.Rachel
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Well if they do that to you, you need to find a new group of friend. That's not cool to treat a human being like that. They just don't realize you noticed I guess, but you need to find a new group. Get friends who will ask you to go everywhere with them. That way you will feel like you are cared for. =] Hope I helped.


My boyfrined and i have been dating for a year come september 5th. Hes 17 and i will be 17 in a few weeks. i love him to death, and i want to get him something for our year, but i have no clue what to get him.
ive made him a scrapbook alread, and a dvd of pictures of us earlyer in the year. he dosnt wear watches, my friends have told me to do that but he wouldnt wear it.
the gift also cant be alot of money because i dont have a job and my mom probably wont give me to much money. i was thinking around 50$ or less.
I think he is getting me something pretty nice, like a diamond ring.. so i cant just get him nothing.
It dosnt have to be something i buy, i can make things pretty well. ANY SUGGESTIONS ARE GREATLY APPRICIATED!!
PLEASE HELPP!!!!
thank youu! (link)
Hmmm well make him something he will never forget. If you could get enough for two silver promise rings. That way it means a lot. It shouldn't be that expensive for two plain silver rings. But yhey mean alot. It represents all the time you have been together and time you will spend together. I'm sure if you need a little more than $50 you cna do something for your mom and she will spot you the money. Hope I helped =]


umm... can someone tell me how you get backgrounds?

i can get there... but when i click on the link it makes me go to someone elses page

if anyone knows...please tell me

♥.Rachel

(link)
You go to column settings. Then you will see for already made backgrounds. You click there and you find the background you want. Well then you highlight the text in the box except for the SN. You go back to Column Settings. Then you paste the code in the URL area. =]


Theres this group of girls that are pouplar and I am not one of them last year I was head of the group now I am not even in it. What should I do?????????????????????????????????????? (link)
Well you should find a new group of friends if they are just going to leave you like that. Find some people who are way ncier to you. At the begining of last year I hung oout with people who weren,t such great friends, but hten I found my spot. They are awesome and kind. That's all you need. I mean it's cool to be popular and all, but not if your friends turn on you.


There is a guy I met at a camp I went to. It was a church camp so I know he's a christian and i really like him. He's nicer than any guy i know except my brother and...he's my twin so it doesn't count. my best freind is trying to get us together and she told me that he told her he really likes and and he wants to ask me out but he's scared. I really like him and i would ask him out but in my family it's kinda disrespestful to ask the guy out. and I'm really scared he'll say no. I've never likes a guy so much when i see him or tlk to him or thinkabout him i get so happy and my stomach feels like it has butterflys in it and it's like he's the only person in the world tome. I really like him and would apreciate the advice thank you for the help
Jenn (link)
Okay, if you both like each other. And it says that he likes you a lot, and that he's just a little scared. Some guys will be scared, but if you can't stop thinking baout him, forget about what your family says and go for it. Ask him out if he likes you and you lke him. Who cares what your family thinks. I'm under lots of stress from my family all the time, but don't listen to them. I mean about this at least. Listen to your parents still. They arn't used to how we do things now-a-days. They don't understand that its cool for girls to ask guys out. I hope I helped.


Well there's this boy who lives in Florida and I have been in love with him for 10 years last year. He's a total hottie and he's going on 16. I'm going on 14. I'm not sure a long distance relationship is going to work. I'm almost sure he has feelings for me and he knows I have big ones for him. I want to have my first kiss with him but I can't if he lives all the way in Florida! What do I do I really need some help asap! (link)
Well I have kind of the same problem. See I like this guy in South Carolina. I have only liked him for about two years though. Well right before I was about to move he was going to ask me out, but I moved sooner than I thought I was going too. Nowh e lives in South Carloina and I live in Florida. Well if you both care for each other, then maybe when your 18 you can be together. It really does suck that he lives so far away. And if you want to wait about 4 more years for your first kiss that's cool becuase your saving it for someone special. Don't waste it on a jerk. Well I hope I helped.


okay so my parents got divorced like 2-3 years ago about. and my dad started dating this girl that is really nice and they have been going out for like a little more then a year maybe. so anyway my dad told me and siblings that she was pregnant! it came as a complete shock to all of us. they earn't even married. so anyway i don't really like talking about my feelings and stuff to anybody and i don't want people to like feel sorry for me or anything, so i don't no how to tell my friends. my best friend already know's because our moms are friends, but i don't know how to tell my other friends. you can definatley tell that she's pregnant now because she's on like month 7. i don't even no if i should tell some of my friends because alot of them don't even come over to my house and we just hang at the mall and stuff. so anyway, how do i break the news or should i even tell them? i no i have to tell my close friends but how? please hurry and thanks in advance! (link)
Well if you don;t live with your dad they really don't have to know. I had the same problem. My new little brother is four now. He was dating this girl for abotu a year, but then all of a sudden she was pregnet. My dad was going to marry her so he could take care of the child but she went with another dude. Now my dad is married and im going to have another little brother. But if you don't want people to know don't tell them. If they find out they shouldn't be mad that you didn't tell them. It's a new sibling. It's not their buisness.


omg, can anybody find the myspace that has so pathetic by local h? i've been looking forever. i even tried to make one, but it didnt work because the song was copyrighted? (link)
I went through all 93 pages from when I typed in Local H. I couldn't find it sorry. Try a different song. =]




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