Well there's this boy who lives in Florida and I have been in love with him for 10 years last year. He's a total hottie and he's going on 16. I'm going on 14. I'm not sure a long distance relationship is going to work. I'm almost sure he has feelings for me and he knows I have big ones for him. I want to have my first kiss with him but I can't if he lives all the way in Florida! What do I do I really need some help asap!
but i guess that doesnt really matter for you, so what you should do is try to get over him and move on, because he lives too far away, so you cant even meet him except on vacations.
try to find other guys and talk to them and flirt with them and try to get them to ask you out.
dont ask him if he has feelings for you, because if he does, then thatll make you wanna meet him and be with him even more, and you know you cant.
just try to get over him and just be friends with him but move on to other guys.
NikkiM answered Sunday July 29 2007, 10:35 pm: Well if you where older then i would say of course it could work..people have lon distance relationships all the time. But because your only 14 its not as if you can go to visit him or anything is it ? :/ Also..i am not saying you dont love him because you might do but have you never thought that you might just think you love him because you have never really spent time with him..so to you he just seems perfect. You have not spent time with him to be able to see his flaws. If u get me ? :S I know its really hard if you think or you do love someone i have been in a similar situation to you) but my advice to you is that i think you should maybe try to find someone who lives a litle closer. Plus you and this guy could always stay friends =] Hope I Helped x x x [ NikkiM's advice column | Ask NikkiM A Question ]
KWeeks answered Sunday July 29 2007, 10:32 pm: Well I have kind of the same problem. See I like this guy in South Carolina. I have only liked him for about two years though. Well right before I was about to move he was going to ask me out, but I moved sooner than I thought I was going too. Nowh e lives in South Carloina and I live in Florida. Well if you both care for each other, then maybe when your 18 you can be together. It really does suck that he lives so far away. And if you want to wait about 4 more years for your first kiss that's cool becuase your saving it for someone special. Don't waste it on a jerk. Well I hope I helped. [ KWeeks's advice column | Ask KWeeks A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Sunday July 29 2007, 10:30 pm: You've been in love since you were 4? Wow... I thought boys had cooties then!
You're 14. Relationships at 14 don't last anyway, and long distance relationships especially at a young age such as you almost NEVER work. You're 14. You'll find someone else and you'll move on. Trust me.
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