so i have a phsyco boyfriend..when he gets mad i mean HE GETS MAD! he screams at me when i didnt even do anything and i end up feeling so bad i just dont know what to do with myself..i mean those words HURT..this is weird but does anybody have any stories like thiss or anything? any ways to feel better about myself? =[
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? laceylikewoahh answered Thursday August 2 2007, 2:04 am: Basically I think my ex was bi-polar or something.I fell for him hard and not sure why.I'm pretty sure at first he was a sweet talker and he sweet talked himself out of everything.He would blame his dad hitting him and what not and he would always tell me to lower my tone and quit talking to him like that.And I would freak out because I wouldn't be yelling or anything.He also flirted with alot of mom's which was even weirder.I'm telling you he did alot of messed up things.I don't even want to get into it.He made me stay in for him day of HC game.He talked down on me alot and I took it.. alot.And never did anything because I loved him.I lost friends because of him and I don't know if I was thinking or not.He told me I should be like his ex and took out a gift from his ex and told me I should be like her and read a note on this box and pulled out a thong that was hers and said it still smelled like her.. "" yeahh and put it in my face and I grabbed it and threw it across the room.By then I was yelling and asking him why would show me that.Then he pulled out a note that he claimed his ex wrote a few days ago.. and there were palaroids of her.. exposed and I was crying and told him to go away and asked why how could he do that.And of course he tried to hold me and I told him to get the hell off me.I'm sure you'd understand why I told him that.I don't know why I took it for so long, But it's ironic that he dumped me to go his ex... then wanted me back.I'm telling you this guy isn't worth it if he yells at you like it's nothing.You deserve better and you need to get out of that relationship before it's too late.You don't need someone up his arse all the time.If you need any more advice or questions.Message me. :] [ laceylikewoahh's advice column | Ask laceylikewoahh A Question ]
christina answered Monday July 30 2007, 10:39 pm: I had a psycho boyfriend once. He was suicidal though and if I said anything about breaking up with him or that I was upset about something, he'd jump quick to do something stupid always blaming himself. While he was the cause of most of my depression & cutting, he always blamed himself even if it wasn't his fault.
My advice? Get out of the relationship. Your boyfriend should never intentionally make you feel bad over nothing. If he has a reason, it still doesn't give him the right. Dump him because if he's verbally abusive right now, that could change into physical abuse & the longer you stay, the harder it is to get out. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
girlygirl3087 answered Monday July 30 2007, 8:41 pm: Warning: long but hopefully it helps
well my story isnt all like that
but i used to have a boyfriend and he ALWAYS cryed... and anything i did he would cry... and he was being so dumb by crying over the smallest things... and so once he cried like 10 times in 1 day... and everybody knew it was cuz of me... and i didnt even do anything.. so i ended up being the "bad guy" in the situation.... it sucked becuase everyone was like "man rachel is it just fun to hurt his feelings?" and no one understood....
so dont worry your not the only one...
even though it wasnt the same way i hope it makes u feel just a bit better... and your not the only one w/ boyfriend problems
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