This will be hard to admit to yourself, but your friend isn't really "stealing" these guys. She can't help liking somebody any more than you can, so promising that she wouldn't like someone isn't going to prevent it from happening. We get crushes all the time, they come and go, but they are just crushes and usually not very serious. As for the "stealing"...guys are not items that we can take and bring home. They have their own feelings and their own brains, and they are the ones who choose who they go out with. Though she flirts with these guys, it is not entirely her fault that she "steals" them. Best advice is to just let it go and never let boys come between you and your friends. However...if it continues to get worse and you feel that you don't want to be her friend anymore, trust your gut and end the friendship. Don't sink so low as to spread rumors about her and her slutty ways, you are better than that.

Well, as far as "meaning anything", I would not get my hopes up that you guys are going to be girlfriend and boyfriend now. But I think that he likes you in a platonic way (and maybe he's thinking about you romantically--just a little, though). If he invited you to the party, you should definitely show up! If you don't, you will regret it forever, trust me. Or...did you mean you didn't go and now you are not sure about it? A little hard to tell. Well, if it hasn't happened yet I think you should go to the party and if you already didn't go...talk to the guy! Make other plans with him, maybe.

If you want to make out with him, do it. You don't have to do any "gross stuff", if he wants to just tell him no and if he continues pressuring you, beat him up and run. But pissing people off isn't really a good reason to make out with someone, neither is "because they are hott". But it's your life, your decision.

No, guys are just guys. You'll eventually realize that other things are more important.

Well, first of all, you shouldn't believe what everyone is saying. Talk to your boyfriend about it. Secondly, you need to ask yourself the exact reasons that it bothers you. Nobody can understand you better than yourself. Personally, I think that it doesn't matter if he is attracted to boys. He is your boyfriend, he loves you, and that's great...you can talk about hot guys together. But I know it's not as simple as that. You are confused and it will take a long time for you to accept him. But I think it would be in your best interest to atleast try to accept your boyfriend the way he is. If the relationship doesn't work out, oh well, that's what relationships do. But don't run away from your problems because of rumors.

Balance a glass of water on your head while juggling three lemons. It does not matter if you are good at it. Keep practicing. It will keep you occupied. And when you get really good at, you will be able to impress people.

All you can do is exercise. And eat healthy food. And exercise some more.

www.buslist.org

They are very wonderful, supportive, and understanding people.

Try getting a bathing suit that has shorts for the bottom, and maybe short sleeves. They have them at Fashion Bug Plus (not that I'm saying you're so big and need plus sizes, I happen to wear plus sizes and I like the stuff at Fashion Bug) and probably a lot of other places. And if you must wear a one peice, then that is what you must do. You will not be a geek...the girls whose bikini tops fall off and float away and eventually get eaten by a great white shark...now THEY will have something to be embarassed about!! Good luck, and have fun with it...that's what summer is for.

Well it depends on what kind of style you LIKE. Like if you're into the country music stuff, get a cowboy hat, boots, and some of them fringy shirts. But if you like the goth scene, get some black stuff, fishnets, and plastic bracelets. Or just get a whole bunch of stuff and mix and match. Most importantly, you should feel good. If you feel good, you will look good. Don't follow trends, set them. Be yourself. And all that wonderful stuff...what I'm trying to say is that if you focus too much on being in style you will become a boring copycat clone person...nobody wants that. So just get clothes you like. =)

Itunes.com?

It's a treadmill, not a trendmill. Like a mill that you walk on, get it? =) And they cost over a thousand dollars, I reccommend going to Sears or Sports Authority.

You broke your hymen is all. You can do that by falling out of a tree or riding a bike, it doesn't mean you lost your virginity. But different people define "virginity" differently, so if you want to think of it like that, you can, lol. But don't worry, you're technically still considered a virgin.

I don't think you're supposed to use it on your chest...

Well, anyway, try aloe, cocoa butter, and bag balm. If that doesn't work...well...when you have your graduation, just try not to focus on the negativity and have fun.

It's completely natural to be nervous, but it all depends on you to deal with it. Just keep saying "Don't worry, don't worry, don't worry." I'm sure you will be great.

Here are some tricks that may or may not help take your mind off of the stress:

-eat a lemon. yes, a whole lemon.
-picture the audience in lingerie.
-picture yourself in lingerie (it works for me...)
-jump around, make yourself laugh. get on a natural high before you go out. Kind of like how sports teams yell before they play a game, you know? I'm always calmer and comfortable right after I've been really hyper. But this is a NATURAL hyperness, no caffeine or sugar ;)

I think you're tall enough for most of them...if there are any you're not tall enough for, it's probably better since you are a little scared. The Sky Ride is wicked fun, it goes slow and you can see the whole park! I go on it again and again and again and I wave to people. Also I like the catepillar. And there is like this dome thing that inside is dark and has a scrambler type ride in it that is SO much fun. And the ferris wheel is cool. Don't be scared. =)

Chinese checkers. Girls love that. Especially us gorgeous ones.

I also like beaches and picnics under the stars. And picnics under the stars on beaches. If a guy did that for me, he'd completely win me over.

Try cocoa butter and bag balm (or regular petroleum jelly). This is also a symptom of hypothyroidism, if you are also overweight and don't really have a lot of energy, I'd talk to your doctor. But usually lotion helps.

It's not really "bad" but it's kind of lame and dorky. It's better to just ask him in person, maybe you are shy but you're just gonna have to get over that. Not to be mean, but if you can't even ask a guy out, you should probably not be dating atleast for a couple of years. Have courage and good luck!

That's a stupid idea, cough syrup is Satan's drink. I get that way too, you should try doing something else. People get bored because if we didn't, we wouldn't be able to think of exciting things like ballpoint pens and Italian noodles. We don't always have to be doing something, some people are highly trained in doing nothing and they are some of the happiest people on Earth.

The cough syrup thing was a joke. ^__^

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