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rumors part 2
Everyone is still saying that my boyfriend is bi. And I really like him though. It's just really hard to deal with when some of my good friends are telling me that the person they trust their life says they saw him making out with a guy! It's really bothering me! I mean he's so sweet and nice and everything, but if he really is bi I don't really wanna go out with him...ya know? Someone please help me!
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ARe you tRyiong to say that since you staRted going out you haven't gotten to talk to him one on one??? Did I undeRstand that coRRectly? And WHY NOT?? And while it's most definitely tRue that you shouldn't always believe what you heaR... if you'Re heaRing it *THAT* much, theRe would be NOTHING wRong with questioning him about this. Also, think about this: would youR fRiends and anyone else have ANY motivate to bReak you up?? Would anyone else GAIN fRom it?? I know it huRts, but honestly.. you can NOT let someone else's opinion scRew up the happiness you have found -- don't you EVER EVER let someone take that away fRom you. Who caRes what otheR people think!! It obviously botheRs you, I can see that.. but the only opinion that should matteR is youRs and his... Hope this helps!! :D
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No i dont know. If you really did like him you wouldnt care ya know? Probably not. You're the person believing in artificial it must be perfect or i back out relationships. Thats why young relationships never last.
If i were him i'd dump you for being such an artifical.
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Well, first of all, you shouldn't believe what everyone is saying. Talk to your boyfriend about it. Secondly, you need to ask yourself the exact reasons that it bothers you. Nobody can understand you better than yourself. Personally, I think that it doesn't matter if he is attracted to boys. He is your boyfriend, he loves you, and that's great...you can talk about hot guys together. But I know it's not as simple as that. You are confused and it will take a long time for you to accept him. But I think it would be in your best interest to atleast try to accept your boyfriend the way he is. If the relationship doesn't work out, oh well, that's what relationships do. But don't run away from your problems because of rumors.
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Having a relationship with a bisexual male is dangerous. But if he is, it shouldn't be a big deal. Bi sexuality means you swing both ways. he can still love you. how do you know your friends are telling the truth? Even if they are, love him because of everything about him. Coming out gay/bi is really tough on people, i should know, be there for him even if you do break up. more people are bisexual than u think.
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Have you asked him? Would you believe it if he said, no I'm not bi? If you wouldn't believe him, dump him whether it turns out he is or not. If you can't trust him, you have no business being in a relationship that could invole sex.
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Wow!! You have to see it to belive it tho. Did you even take anyones advice before. Everyone said ask him and talk to him. Tell him to tell you the truth and that you wont mind.. even tho you do. You need to do that. Thats just sick if he was making out with another dude. Ew!! But I would find it hard to belive. Just try to see where he is at and watch what he is doing and how is acts and stuff. Im sure you will find out soon. I still dont think hes a bi. L0L Thats just my opinion. You could just break up with him so you dont have to worry about what everyone keeps saying. I mean if it turns out that he isnt then maybe you could go out. Just take a little break until both of you have your minds cleared. ♥
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