hey what's up? My name is tiffany and I'm 21. I love hanging out with friends and listening to music, music is pretty much my life. I have like a million cds. I am honest and a pretty understanding person and my friends and family all come to me for advice so feel free to ask me anything.
E-mail: stwain28@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Saratoga, New York
Age: 21
AIM: jaruleluva2486
Member Since: September 26, 2005
Answers: 59
Last Update: November 2, 2005
Visitors: 3637
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What are some good music artists that write their own stuff? does avril lavigne? (link)
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um, Lisa Marie Presley does, Kanye West, Shania Twain doe. Avril's second cd she wrote all the songs but not on her first one.
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hey! ok to start off, im 14/f. ok im bi, and no its not just a stage im going through. anyway, theres this girl (a.b.) thats gay, and i have basketball with her (it's a class for us).. and shes really nice to me.. me and her are good friends.. but we just met this year.. and one day at softball practice (i play softball also) she was there with her friend (c.h.) whos on the team also and i was about to hit but i was talkin to them first and the people playing in the field hollered next batter get up there.. well c.h. was like dont holler at her shes my friend and a.b. was like yeah shes my friend too.. well today we had a softball game and she was there.. well she was staring at me like the whole game.. when i was warming up she was staring at me.. when i was playing in the field she was staring at me.. when i was sitting in the dugout she was staring at me.. now i dont want to get my hopes up or anything, but do you guys think she likes me? give me your honest opinion, i will rate. (link)
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oh yeah, it is totally obvious that she likes you. If she didn't she wouldn't be staring at you all the time. I say talk to her some more and if you like her and she likes you then go ahead and ask her out. good luck. I hope everything works out for you.
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Do any of you have friends as backstabbers and know how to deal with them...I need help! (link)
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oh yeah, I think everyone has at least one friend who is a backstabber. Um, it really depends on what he or she did...if you could leave me a message in my inbox I would be able to help you out alot better. Thanks
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i'm a male, over 20, alone as hell.
i've never been able to get a girlfriend, i've tried and tried.
it seems like some crule cycle with me, meet a girl, ask her out a couple of times, start to like her and suspect she likes me too, try to be there for her and everything, try to move things up a notch, get the "you're such a good/nice/fabulous guy, i just wanna be friends" routine. Then i'll let go of how i feel as much as posible and try being "just friends", then she picks up the biggest jerk known to mankind and i get to sit across the table watching them make out (TORTURE, for those who care). then the arshole will proceed to cheat on her, she's crushed, i have to listen to all the bullshit and cheer her up, only to find her back with the butthead a week later, then a month later he'll cheat on her AGAIN...
by the third time this happens i simply fuck off, cause she's still won't go out with me and she keeps on going back to the total jerk and every month i have to be there for her.
WHAT THE FUCK, girls always tell me what a "NICE GUY" i am and the friendship crap, but why won't they go out with me.
I'm starting to accept that i'll die alone and bitter, and am starting to avoid woman totally.
I just don't know what to do, i'm really starting to lose it with woman.
I'm over 20 and i haven't even kissed a girl yet. WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!
should i just kill myself now instead of becoming a full blown alcoholic?
should i try to like guy's more, and simply go gay?
at least i get alot of attention from gay guys trying to chat me up at bars, though im not gay. but women.......FUCK
i need advice please. (link)
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No, you should definitely not kill yourself or become a full blown alcoholic or become gay. If Girls always tell you that you're a nice guy then that's good. Stay that way, because sooner or later some girl is going to be looking for a nice guy instead of a bad guy and you will be that guy. Just keep looking for a girl and I am sure you will find her soon. Keep your head up. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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Lately I've been cutting myself when the stress gets to be too much.Yesterday I cut myself like 6 times... How can I stop myself from cutting myself? (link)
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first of all I think you need to go to counseling. If you don't think you could talk to a stranger than you should talk to your parents or some other adult member of your family. If you don't feel comfortable then talk to one of your friends. Cutting doesn't do anything, the thing that's bothering you might go away when you are cutting but when you are done it is still there. Plus it hurts people that really care about you. I know this from personal experience because I have cut before and it really isn't worth it. But seriously talk to someone and do it fast before things get alot worse than they are now. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you. If you need to ask me anything else leave something in my inbox.
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you answered my question about my b/f and my bff i dont know if u remember it but here it is just incase...
ok so i've been going out with this guy john for about 2-3 weeks now..and i really love him...but he's my bffs ex boyfriend...and shes really mad at me for going out with him..she gives me shit about it all the time like everyday at school...and like i told her how happy he makes me and how much i like him and stuff and she still like is weird and she talks about me behind my back to my other bffs(also hers too) i really want her to stop being mad at me b/c i dont want this to distroy our friendship (we've been friends like when we were born and on from there) she wont just except the fact that like her likes me and i like him now..AND SHE DUMPED HIM TOO thats makes me like really mad too...like she says she still likes him but shes the one who dumped him... what should i do...o and she said the only thing that would make her happy would be if i dumped him but if i dump him i'll be missrible for like a really really long time and she doesnt get it...
what should i do?? 13/f
sorry this is soo long...i rate all fives if you atleast try to help me!!!!!
ok...now...
my bff got another b/f who she like got with last night and other stuff..and it seems like she really likes him alot but shes still mad im going out with john and i dont get it cuz she should be over him b/c she has a new b/f..so i dont know what should i do now..i thried to talk to him but she doesnt understand how i feel shes like trying to run my love life like before i had another b/f and she like told him stuff that wasnt true b/c she liked him and then he dumped me and went out with her and i wasnt even like mad because i like didnt like him that much but like shes supposed to be my bff and i dont know y she can do that to me but i cant do this to her...IM me please soo i dont have to keep going on this site!!
my screenname is-- sammygirl1023
IM me please and if you dont have a AIM sn just send back you dont have one..and if you do please IM me or give me your screenname!!
thankxx
xoxo samm (link)
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yes I do have a AIM sn. It's jaruleluva2486. I added you to my buddy list so when I am on and you are online then go ahead and im me.
Tiff
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Hi I am 18/f/ohio and I have a bf. I love him a lot..he loves me to but thats not the problem. The problem is....i seen him on sunday well I didnt talk to him. I feel bad about this but i had a reason for not talking to him. I have not seen or heard from him in 4 days and I think hes mad at me. I dont know for sure but I believe he is but honestly i think he is. I have been depressed since i cant see him or talk to him. Why am I so depressed?? What can I say or do when I see him to let him know that i love him and that im sorry for not talking to him? Also how can I get to where I am not so shy around him? I love him more then ne thing and I want to make things right. (link)
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You are depressed because you really love your bf and you want to talk to him and see him and it bothers you that you can't and also that you didn't talk to him when you saw him on sunday. When you see him tell him the reason why you didn't talk to him on sunday and that you are really sorry for not talking to him. Tell him that you didn't mean to hurt him and you love him alot and you missed him since you haven't seen or heard from him in four days. Good luck. I hope everything works out for you and I hope that I was able to help you out.
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Ok me and my bf have been going out 4 almost 8 months. It would be 8 months on Saturday. We've been fighting lately and just when I think we're good again he turns around and we're fighting again. I don't think I can put up with it. I love him so much im jsut sick of being confused all the time. I wrote him a breakup note and everything i was so sure of it last nite..but 2day i dont know. I love him so im afraid to lose him but I think we should just take a break 4 awhile...I don't know if he would ever take me back tho. I'm so afraid to do this and I'm gonna miss him so much. I guess my question is am I doing the right thing by taking a break? (link)
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if you guys are fighting that much then yeah it would probably be a good idea to take a break for awhile. Just explain to him that all the fighting is driving you crazy and you need a break. are you pregnant or living with him or anything like that because that might make it a little difficult? If you aren't then go ahead take a break for a little while, maybe a break is what you need right now. Maybe after taking the break you two will get back together and maybe it will make your relationship stronger and there will be less fighting. Sometimes couples fight alot if they spend alot of time together. hope I helped you, if you have any more questions you can leave one in my inbox. Good luck.
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ok so i've been going out with this guy john for about 2-3 weeks now..and i really love him...but he's my bffs ex boyfriend...and shes really mad at me for going out with him..she gives me shit about it all the time like everyday at school...and like i told her how happy he makes me and how much i like him and stuff and she still like is weird and she talks about me behind my back to my other bffs(also hers too) i really want her to stop being mad at me b/c i dont want this to distroy our friendship (we've been friends like when we were born and on from there) she wont just except the fact that like her likes me and i like him now..AND SHE DUMPED HIM TOO thats makes me like really mad too...like she says she still likes him but shes the one who dumped him... what should i do...o and she said the only thing that would make her happy would be if i dumped him but if i dump him i'll be missrible for like a really really long time and she doesnt get it...
what should i do?? 13/f
sorry this is soo long...i rate all fives if u atleast try to help me!!!!! (link)
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I was almost in your situation except all I did was talk to my best friend's ex and now she is pissed at me and won't talk to me and she is extremely important to me so I am giving her like a week or so to cool down and then I am going to try calling her again and hopefully she will talk to me. But anyway, if your friend is really important to you I owuld dump him but just explain to him that she is really important to you and you guys have been friends since you were born and it really bothers her that you two are going out and you don't want to lose her as your friend. Maybe later on your friend might except it and hopefully he will understand and you two might go out again later on down the road. Anything can happen. But like I said if your friend really means alot to you I would dump him. I hope I helped at least a little. If you have any more questions you can leave one in my inbox.
Good luck.
Tiff
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the women I started to see again texts me last night saying "guess what? I heard someone you used to mess around with has aids" but "Dont stress I saved 25 percent on my car insurance from gieco. We broke up because she thought I was cheating on her, and then to send a text like that at 3:00 am that woke me up was wrong, then when I texted her back asking what she was talking about she never responded. So I called her she didnt answer the phone, so I left a messange telling her to stop calling me and texting me and that this is it. I also made an example to her saying that if you think i did something because you heard from someone that I did then maybe I should believe rumors I heard about you. I knew that was wrong so I texted her immediately saying I was sorry. That morning she texts me saying I was stupid and that it was just a joke, I replied I did not find it funny especially when she has questioned my loyality in a relationship. She said that she was happy to see the real me and that she was glad that she didnt start to really get involved with me again. I just dont think that the joke was funny considering what happened before. I need to know if I over reacted or was that joke just harsh and in poor taste???? (link)
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That joke was really harsh and there is no way in hell that you over reacted. I would have done the same thing, because that would have really pissed me off if someone did that to me. considering my uncle has aids I don't think that was very funny at all and I probably would have kicked her ass. But anyways you had every right to act the way you did.
Tiff
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First off i'm 14 f, and there is this guy in my IPC class(15m), and i think that i like him, and lately he has been talking to me and flirting with me ALOT. Like today for instance he was talking to his friends and i was talking to my friends, and he goes man i wish the beautiful little lady in the abercrombie shirt would turn around and join our conversation... and his friend snapped him with a rubberband and he was like owww... and looked at me and started talking to me about it like i was his best friend... He is really nice to me and stuff, and i want to know if theese are signs of him flirting with me or something?!?!
Please Help
xo (link)
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yeah it totally seems like this guy likes you. Keep talking to him and get to know him some more maybe you two will end up going out. Yeah he is definitely flirting with you. Go for it girl! Good luck.
Tiff
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Here goes:
I'm 17 now but when I was in the 8th Grade (last year of Junior High) I was considered a "geek". I was bookworm. Overweight and quiet. There was this pretty popular boy in my class who used to make fun of me all the time. He really made my life hell. After about two months, he started acting different around me. Sometimes he'd be really mean and then sometimes he'd be super nice (like random acts of kindness) and the one day after school, him and his female friend were talking in an almost empty classroom while I was trying to finish up some math. She asked him a question with my name in it and my ears perked up and then she called me and she said "--- likes you" and I made a face at him because I thought he was an ass at the time. Anyway, I think I hurt him a bit. He told me he hated me a few weeks after that incident.
A few months passed and we entered high school and I started liking him (he was still pretty popular but I was still a geek) but I figured I only liked him because he used to like me and I thought I'd get over it.
That year he told my friend that I was a geek.
During high school I’ve grown to love him more. I'm not a geek and I've lost a lot of weight (although I'm still a few pounds up). People who used to know me consider me considerably ‘cooler’. I'm sort of what you would call semi-popular but I'm not sure if I still measure up.
I don't know if he likes me too. My friends aren’t sure either. They say that over the span of the past three years, he stares at me sometimes when I'm not looking and –I- catch him looking too (except I'm not sure if he was looking first or just kept looking at me because –I- look at him). He does stuff sometimes like get really fidgety if he's walking in front of me or put the volume up in his car if he's near me. Just basic stuff.
I'm wondering is there an indication that he likes me at all and this could work or is he still mad at me and just looks because he's trying to prove something to himself and/or me? (link)
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it sounds to me like he really likes you but he is kind of shy so he doesn't really know how to tell you that he likes you. I think that next time you see him you should talk to him and maybe ask him out and see what happens. Maybe you two will end up in a great relationship. Good luck. I hope whatever happens makes you happy.
Tiff
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ok my birthday is coming up but i dont no what to do any ideas and about how much it will all cost cause i wanted to go like skating but i dont know if people will get bored for skating for about 3 hours please help its for about 7 people how long should i have it for and the people that i am inviting arent really that good of friends cause i dont no much people cuz theres only about 7 in the class i rate 5s (link)
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I'm not really sure exactly how much money it would cost to go skating but I am guessing it's probably going to cost at least ten dollars a person, so if it's that you are looking at seventy dollars just to go skating and that doesn't even include drinks or something to eat unless you have other plans for that. Yeah people might get bored skating for about three hours so how about you go skating for like two hours and then maybe go to your house or somewhere and have a party with cake and icecream or go to the movies or something like that. I hope I was able to help you. Good luck. Let me know what you end up deciding to do so leave me a message in my inbox.
Tiff
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can any one tell me a bunch of good country songs?
thanks a bunch.
song and artist please. (link)
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"Shoes" by Shania Twain
"Mississippi Girl" by Faith Hill
"Something More" by Sugarland
"Baby Girl" by Sugarland
"Any Man of Mine" by Shania Twain
"Alibis" by Tracy Lawrence
"Some Beach" by Blake Shelton
"Austin" by Blake Shelton
"The day she left tulsa" by Wade Hayes
"I'm still dancing with you" by Wade Hayes
"Goodbye Says it all" by BlackHawk
"I'm not strong enough to say no" by BlackHawk
"If I could make a living" by Clay Walker
"Do you want fries with that" by Tim McGraw
"If I don't stay the night" by Mindy McCready
"Down came a blackbird" by Lila McCann
"Can't Even Get the Blues" by Reba
"Is there life out there?" by Reba
"Hard Working Man" by Brooks and Dunn
"Here's a Quarter call someone who care" by Travis Tritt
"Write this down" by George Strait
"I just want to dance with you" by George Strait
"Wide Open Space" by Dixie Chicks
"She's not crying anymore" by Billy Ray Cyrus
"Summer's coming" by Clint Black
"American Honky Tonk Bar Association" by Garth Brooks
hope this helps, if you would like to know any more I can come up with like a million more songs.
Tiff
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Anyone know any songs that have to do with death? Kind of like a "R.I.P" or "In Loving Memory" type of song. Thanks :) (link)
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how about "I'll be missing you" Puff Daddy or "One Sweet Day" by Mariah Carey and Boyz to Men. Of course there is also "Ships of Heaven" by BlackHawk if you like country. Hope that helps.
Tiff
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You answered my question last night about being bi and i didn't know what to do exactly. How i couldn't decide and all. Well, i read what you wrote like a million times and i guess i feel like you're lucky in a way because you at least got to experience being with another girl. I can't decide because i seriously don't know how that feels (i dont want sex or anything) or just even how it feels to be in a relationship. All my friends think it's gross except for a few. I dont even know anybody who's bi/gay. That makes it extra hard. Any comments or advice on how to make this work to just try it?!?!?! I really need help on this. Thanx!!! (link)
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hey do you have aol? if you do sometime we can chat online if you would like. my sn is jaruleluva2486
Talk to you later,
Tiff
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So I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is a wee bit older. He's 25.
We've been going out for about a month and he's a great guy to me - he buys everything (not just dinner, like he asks if there's anything I want in stores etc.), he opens doors, he always says the kindest things to me, and yes he's great in the bedroom.
But I've just been wondering lately if this is the best time for me to date someone his age. He's so perfect but it's kind of difficult when I get the weird looks from friends and classmates about dating an older guy. He hasn't met my friends yet and I don't even know if his friends know about me. The whole age thing is just kind of throwing me for a loop.
So, do you think I should keep pursuing this relationship with the chance of getting hurt or just let it go for now with such big differences?
P.S. Remember that I'm only a senior in high school, still dealing with stuff like homecoming and prom. He's already out in the working world...it's a tough choice... (link)
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It seems like you two are really in love with each other. I think you should stay with him and introduce him to your friends and maybe he will introduce you to his friends and family. If they don't understand or make fun of you or say shit behind your back then they aren't your real friends. do what makes you happy. If you really love him like it seems you do then stay with him age shouldn't matter but if you want to end it because of what people say about the age difference then you will probably regret it because of how he treats you great and he loves and cares about you and obviously you feel the same about him. Good luck.
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There's this girl that i've liked for a long time, but ive never talked to her - whenever I see her (once a week) she's with her friend. I really want to talk to her but there's never a time when she's alone. I need to know if I should to talk to her when her friend is around or if I should keep waiting for when she's alone and I want to know what I should say to her. We're 13 by the way. (link)
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you can try to catch her alone but if you don't like by friday then the next time you see her go up to her when she's with her friend and ask if you can talk to her for a second like ask if she can meet you somewhere. If she agrees then tell her that you've liked her for a long time and you have been trying to catch her alone so that you could tell her how you feel but she's always with her friend. Then maybe ask her out to the movies or the mall or to hang out somewhere and then take it from there. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
Tiff
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I knew the answer to this riddle when I was little, but I can't remember it now.
Here is the riddle:
What is greater than God
worse than the devil
the poor have it
the rich need it
and if you eat it, you'll die? (link)
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the answer is nothing.
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i know this guy and i think he is hott but he is one of the ones that you might not want a relationship with. But this has turned into a life or death situation. Today in 9th pd. he was all like "shit, ive been turned down way too many times and its pissing me off. I cant wait till i get home so i wont have to live this fuckin' life ne more." those were his exact words. Im sorry if they are a little... how would you say... explict? ne wayz. there was a point not too long ago that i was considering telling him i would go out with him. that feeling passed. but i dont know if i should go out with him or not. We are like bestfriends and i really dont want him to kill himself! I rate hi! (link)
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okay if you still like him then go for it, ask him out and see what happens. maybe it will work out with you two and he won't kill himself. maybe he just needs that one person to give him a chance and that will help him with whatever his problems are for wanting to kill himself. If you don't want to go out with him then don't but maybe you can talk to him and tell him that he is a great guy and maybe help him find a gf. good luck.
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