hey my names amy im 18 and experanced many things in my life though being excepted within friends, all kinds of emotions, sex, realtionships, bullying. never be affaird to ask for advice day or night
Gender: Female
Location: leeds, west yorkshire
Occupation: student then college
Age: 16
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Member Since: February 16, 2004
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My boyfriend and i are 17 and have just started having sex main problem is his penis does'nt go all the way in and it goes soft his penis isnt
real big and he's insecure about it, i told him it
does'nt matter but he thinks he is the problem
what can we do? (link)
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you need to resure ur bf, Guys feel let down if there cart preform for a girl they fancy. Ur bf needs to relase . U can use for play to spice things up and b intemate with. Give it time if the problem is consistance she the doctor
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Ok im 19 years old, 190lbs. and 5'7 i need to lose weight fast but i dont know how please help (link)
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to lose weight its about exercise its the only way sometime we get obsesed with the way we look and it after the way we think surround ur self with ur friends and lose weight slowly
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Here is my scenario: I'm 18 and I have only had my period for less than 2 years. I have never had sex. My period has never been normal or regular and it pretty much comes and goes as it pleases. Sometimes I don't have it for months and months at a time. As of now, I havent had it for at least 3 months now. My problem is that I think that when I was fooling around with someone (not having sex) that semen may have managed to go through a layer of clothing and maybe make its way inside me.
Since I havent had a period since god knows when - I have no idea if the little soldiers got in or not. After that night in question I encountered the tiniest bit of blood - barely considered a 'drop' and that was it. That was the main reason I thought it might have been conception.
Recently, I have been eating a lot more but I haven't really gained any weight. My breasts may have gotten bigger but they were sore for at least a week straight.
I'm wondering if these things could mean that I am pregnant. I have been under a lot of stress so I am thinking maybe that is the reason why I haven't had my period for a long time and that maybe my body is just finally deciding to develop which accounts for the breasts thing.
I'm very worried because not only would being pregnant ruin my life and a baby's life, but my boyfriend would clearly break up with me because we have never had sex and he will probably assume I was with some other guy behind his back. Not to mention the cazillion other reasons why its bad.
Are there any tell-tale signs that might help me to know or at least put my mind at ease before going to see a doctor? (link)
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you u need to see ur family planning nurse u may have a condistion that stops u having ur periods or come every so often this can b VERY serious. This could stop u havin children or mis carrying. I dont mean to worry u but its very important u go to the nurse. Advicenators are here to support u
good luck
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I'm a 20 year old female who has been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and been living with him for 2 years. Before we got together I had a 1 night stand with his brother then I cheated on him with his brother 3 times, (he only knows about 2) Everytime it has happened I told me boyfriend cos i was scared his brother would tell him 1st. I pretend infront of everyone including my boyfriend that i hate his brother but i secretly wanna be with him. His brother called me the other day and i told my boyfriend cos i was scared it was a test, and when I saw his brother at work (the 3 of us work together) we made plans to meet after work and 'talk' but i know it would've went further. (my bf wasnt at work that day) I can't stop thinking about his brother and I eally want him to call me again. I love my boyfriend heaps but I don't know why I feel this way about his brother. I think I love them both....what should I do? Please help!!!! (link)
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what is ur bf still doing with u? u've hurt him, cheated with his brother. U need to sit down and work out what u want from a realtionship and if ur current bf can give u that with out u cheating or if its time to move on. If u want to b with his bother tell him, But stop cheating on ur bf he will be very hurt and will find it hard to trust gfs in the futhur
i hope u make the right dissicion 4 u and stop hurting ppl u love
best of luck
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can you get pregnant from anal sex (link)
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no but u can still catch std's. Another word of advice u should never use the condom in ur vagina and then use it in ur anal. U need to reuse a new one. The lubation on the condom rubs of and can cause it not to work probly always carry more than one condom. Also if a girl carries a condom it shows how responablie she is and SAFE ur bf will respect u for this.
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I found out last week that my ex- boyfriend likes me again. so we started talking to eachother and he said that I lied to him, but i didnt. so now he is really mad at me and hes not talking to me what should i do? (link)
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igonor him !!!! hes a worth of space men and girls do this so there get attendsion from u or their frends. U need to remind ur self y u broke up in the first place. Tell him hes not worth ur time and get lost. Hes a kid u couldnt have an adult relationship with him. U may feel hurt but go out with ur gf's and have fun u dont need him!!!!!!!!!!
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I'm a 14 year old girl, and I constantly fantasize about older guys...sexually. I haven't done anything about it, but they're in my dreams, while I'm in school, and I've talked to some online. Is this common? Is there a certain reason why I keep thinking about them this way? (link)
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ur feels are normall we all fantazie about it. Its nornal men do it to. But u have to relasize there ur dreams. dont go act on every1. Save it till u find mr right or some1 u love
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I have a boyfriend, but I have a crush on someone else,what should I do? (link)
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fallow ur heart. But seems to me u dont tyake ur realtionship seriously. Its about being witha loved one and having fun. Dont play with ppl hearts. Let ur guy down gently and c wot happens with the other.
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flirty,
i have a problem with this boy at school. he keeps bothering me. i think he's jelous that i lke another boy and that he might like me back. what should i do??? im 13 and im a girl. (link)
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tell a teacher or tell him to go away. Dont try show of in funt of ur mates when telling him as it will show him up and may get builled
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i have never been out with anyone younger than me, but i thought i would give this boy a chance. i am in year 10 and he is in year 9 i know i sound young, but im really into all that romantic stuff, like kissing (like ross and rachel do in friends)and i feel like all he wants to do is get as far as he can with me, he is really really good looking and could have virtually any girl he wanted. i was out with him and his friends and they were all watching us pull and he kept asking if we could go further,(id like to say we've been going out properly for about 3 days) i really like him but i dont think he likes me for the right reasons, what should i do? (link)
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You are two young to find romance i just worked it out and im 16. You will have many bfs b4 u find love. And even true love as its ups and downs. I think this guy only wants to make out and maybe further bbut u are yung . 16 is legal age and if he is a year younger he can still be done for underage sex because his 14 and u r 15? Three days is not a long time to be dating. If ur relationship is to work u need to do more then kiss go out to the pictures and have a laugh. Dont make out all the time keep it for a specail occaction.
its up to u
take care
by friend2all
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does it hurt when u have sex? like a lot...or is it just emotional stuff that hurts? someone please tell me!!! ...lost...
p.s. im 14 year old female (link)
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Some times sex hurts but its depends on how tight ur body is. the hurt will turn to plesure and if it doesnt there are creams u caN USE TO rub onto the condom andf it will allow the penis to enter a vagina.
At school they tend not to teach us about emontion hurt which i feel is just as inportant i got hurt very badly by having sex. You have to look inside ur head and she if u readt 16 + or if u wanna wait. My advice is when ur odd euff 16 + if =it want to and it feels right have sex with ur bf or some1 special dont have one night stands because sex is specail the way they touch u and kiss u special but in a one night stand it means nothing to them and they sleep with many women and men think of the STD'd allways us protyection
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I am a lesbian woman struggling with my weight and i feel that most lesbian women are only interested in slim women. My self confidence has never been so low until recently. Nowadays, i ve been feeling that i m not attractive enough for the women that i am attracted to and i have decided to wait until i m physically where i want to be but that will take a while i dont know if i can wait that long. What is the best advice out there for a woman like me? (link)
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then let me prove u wrong. Im bi sexual and i arnt into looks i look to c how much fun ppl have together
susan5052@hotmail.com ill send u my pic right back. Get to no me and i will open ur eyes to the fun that is all around u big girl or not
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IS a gigolo the same thing as a prostitute but it's a guy? (link)
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ive never heard of it look it up in a dictorary
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OK, so there's this girl at school who's not that popular, but this year we've been put in some of the same classes and we got talking. She's quite nice, but embarrassing to be around because she's so loud and shouty! I'm also worried because when I'm hanging round with my friends she always comes over from her own friends to speak to us, and my other friends start laughing at her. Though I feel sorry for her, I wish she'd stop being so geeky and then maybe she could stop embarrassing me in front of my friends. She's also ditching her other friends to spend time with us, so I'm worried she'll end up with no friends at all. HELP! (link)
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u cart change her. Im sorry say hi and be nice to her talk to her and dont be mean to her we are alll different. If u dont want her to come talk to u tell her that ur friends are beeing mean to her and u want to keep talking but away from ur friends after school
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i was wondering if i recently had sex on my period will i get pregnant still? (link)
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yes there is no time that u cart get pregant. U can go to the nurse who can talk about conteption. There is an incection u can condsider getting IUS its will stop u getting pregent for up to 10 years depending on which and if u get it done. But u still have to make sure a guy wears a condom and if he refusesa then DONT SLEEP WITH HIM
it can b a lots to take in. My advice she ur nurse even if its just 4 a chat
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OK, I'm 13 and I havent started my period yet. Is that normal?? All of my friends have started but me. I dont want to get my period but I was just wondering if something's wrong with me. (link)
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their is nothing wrong with u at all stop worrying. Our body grows at differnt stages some faster then others. It will come sure another and u will b wishing u never asked for them
take care
friend2all
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I wanna go get my tongue pierced but im scared that its going to hurt real bad..is it going to hurt??? what does it feel like??? Im 19 but another thing is if my mom finds out she'll be really really really upset and mad at me and i think i might be kicked out of the house...is there anyway i could hide it from her????? PLEASE HELP FAST!!!! (link)
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its time to be an adult ur 19! Explain to ur mum that u want to get it done. Do some reseach to see what happens if it gets infected ur mum will release that u are being senable. If u want it dont go to a gd body shop make sure there put a clean needle in. Dont go 4 the cheap way the more money it costs the safer the place takes on doing it. They num it with an ice cube then do it. It will hurt but not 4 long
dont for get to do reaserch
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theres this girl at school and i am way to shy to ask her anythin because i dont no wat to say or to ask or anything plz can u help me figure somethin out? (link)
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Many ppl feel this way. Why not take talk to her when ur with ur friends u may not feel as nervous and have the support of ur friends. You can do little things like smile at her or just say hi this will let her no that u like her. Dont do anything that would make her uncoftable like touch her on the shoulder some ppl dont like it. Be urself im sure she will like ya
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my thighs are fat and i want to slim them down... how do i do it? What kinda excersices do i need to do? (link)
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its a bad idea to just work on ur thighs because ur will become stiff and will affect the way u walk. Exercises u can do for ur legs r exercise ball and lift ur one leg up in the air as u lean on the ball and try lift ur leg up and move it up and down 10 times swoping ur legs at a time. Use treadmills exercise bikes and so on gd luck
by friend2all
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I'm on my friends name but i am 14 and i need help with my relationship. We have been dating for 9 months and well, things are kinda going down hill. i have a girlfriend and she says she doesnt flirt with this other guy. even the teachers say they do. well my friend is the girl that my girlfriends boyfriend is flirting with she denies everything but i dont know. who do believe? (link)
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ask her if she says she doesnt then u need to think if u trust her or not. If u dont trust her y u together. My opinon is dont listern to rumours ppl make things up all the time.
by friend2all
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