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My names Tina, and I have been through a lot of bad and good things in my life. While the bad things were occurring, i always wished that it was never happening, but when it was over, i realize that without those bad moments, i would never have been the way i am right now and certain very enjoyable moments would've never been experienced. so remember, people, EVERY bad moment in life is the cause of more than ONE very good one. trust me, i know. ;P
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Hey, does anyone know any sites that have background
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i use photobucket...its pretty good. you can even make an account on it and upload your own photos to get the link, the background, html. if u dont want an account, u can still search things up and then copy the html or link(the bakground one is layout pages ok) nd then put it as your background. piece of cake oh yeah heres the link just to make things easier. just type in the keyword on the right hand corner where it says search or something like that.
http://photobucket.com/
I made a goal to exercise every day. So, I'm doing thirty minutes a day on my stationary bike every day. What muscle is this working and what is it helping physically on my body?
ALSO, I have some thigh fat I want to burn. What can I do to do that?
well, if i gave u the wrong information, please dont blame me, ok? im just gonna give it a shot and hope i am giving the right information. so ill get to the point. bike riding helps you burn your belly fat and it helps your leg muscles become stronger. that is all i can tell you because i dont really know much science. but this could help: http://www.experienceplus.com/reading_room/training_fitness/health_benefits_of_cycling.html
yea it might not be so good(or it might) but it was the best one i could find
hope i helped!!!
How do you delet a myspace?
Sorry if it is under wrong catagory.
Please gelp though.
you click on edit profile and on the top right corner, click on account settings. scroll down and you will see a link that says "cancel account." click on that.
so people say i'm emo. even though i'm not. but on the other hand i have nothing against them. i just dont liketo lable myself. so yeah my hair is dark and i have a fringe, and like black eyeliner and wear green/blue/red/purple skinnys.
what is so bad about that? i mean everyone hates me, just because i'm not a hip hopper and dont drink&smoke. everyone else does but so what? i just dont want to be like them. i just dont understand why people hate me just because i'm different. no matter how nice i am, they just hate me.
i have no friends at all. i guess i was just unlucky with this school.
but what should i do?
i wont change though.
youre a very strong girl, not letting peer pressure affect you. i like dat. people shouldnt hte you just bcause your different bcause to you theyre different. you shouldnt change. nd itsz better 4 urself dat you dont change. i dont see what you can do abt it though.just let natural causes take care of it. when you grow up to have a gudd life and theyre flipping burgers 4 a living, theyll see dat it was them dat was doing the wrong thing not you.
back in janurary i cheated on my boyfriend after i told him i found out that on new years that he jumped out of a window and got a concussion and almost died. i ended up dumping the person i cheated with and went back with my original does that make me a player? i feel so horrible about it everytime i think about it i feel like a monster who doesnt deserve to live how do i deal with this
no. you are not a player. a player is a person who just jumps from bf/gf to bf/gf and dont care about anybodys feelingsz. they dont feel bad about cheating on anyone and they dont think theyll regret it but one day they will. dont feel bad u r just overreacting ok. u sre a persn like everybody else and everybody else makes a mistake just like you do.
ok so im 15 i have three more years until im leagal to move out of my dads house heres the deal. my step mom and my dad has always told me that my mom left me because she didn't want me but i still see her twice a week and every other weekend. then my mom tells me that she couldn't have taken me because she had to work 12 hour shifts at night when i was little. which is true. and she wanted full custadey of me once and my dad told me that she dropped it when she really never did. and this time in my life i really want to live with my mom. but she lives out of the school district to bring me to school and its not possible what ever and i would feel bad for her to move in something she cant afford so i can be happy for three years. the thing is i love my dad hes great sometimes. some things he says i don't beleive in but who does. but when hes around my step mom who's being a total bitch to me for some reason hes always taking her side. never sticking up for me and she refers me and my siblings as "them" or "the kids" thats so annoying its like we have names. she will make you feel guilty everyday i hear this i clean i cook for you and sometimes buy stuff for you. i don't care. ya i respect her but now shes being to much. the other day i left a wet towel on the WOODEN FLOOR! OMG! i was in a hurry i was going to pick it up when i got home but she took it away so ya i don't have a towel to dry in now. because thats gonna teach me a lesson or something. she talked to me about it i said sorry not in an attitude way and she said well you better shape up!! grrr! and shes been ignoring me and what not and all i said last night if i can go to this dumb talent show and maybe have a friend over so i can bring her she started snapping at me like is she gonna eat here i said i would think so if shes coming rite after school. and then i walk away she talks to my dad probally saying how ungrateful i am and says that its to hectic here with five other kids blah blah i don't want to pretend who i am rite now basically is what she said. ok fine i don't care. say that then being snappy about it. then i come home today in my room and my sisters (we share) and all my hair products are gone she took them off the shelf and put it in the bathroom theres no room in the bathroom for all of it. my thing is why does she go through only MY stuff not my sisters. what the fuck!!!! and shes not home yet but i bet for some reason i wont be able to do something tonight because that pissed her off. its been like that for 2 years now how is it any different from the pervious years. im so close to saying see ya to my dad because im not taking this any more and ya my dad will disown me he wont want to talk to me ever agian because his wife will be to uspet and say how can she do that for all i given her shes an ungrateful child.! she always makes me feel guilty and always critisizes my friends and thats why none of them want to come over. and of course the normal step mom thing she cares more over her kids then she does us in any day and shell stick up for them but my dad will never stick up for us or hell try sometimes but he never wins becuase he gives up. i bet. I HATE IT HERE I WANT TO LIVE WITH MY MOM!!! please tell me if theres any way in the state of NEW YORK that i could have my way with my mom live with her and still go to the same school i am now with out her having to move. or tell me if im being the bitch here and need to grow up? tell me like it is i dont care how harsh i lived through that for years and i can take any thing that needs to be said.
u seem like a cool person. well, i noe completely how you feel right now because im sorta in the same situation. my fake stepfahter(hes not married to my mom but he calls himself my father)i think hes such a bad father, he used to torture me by making me wake up every morning at 5:45 or 6:00 just to go jogging. and then itsz really bad because itsz school and i dont get enough sleep. not only that but he says itsz good 4 me. hells no! and also hes gonna call me stupid and tell my mom how crazy i am and all of that. and he still does that! he says ill appreciate the jogging when i grow up! he acts like im a little kid, no im not! so i noe how you feel. itsz terrible. you didnt do anything wrong. i feel so bad for you and it makes me mad that your stepmom has to do that to you. just by reading this i hate her gutsz already.also your dad...he should done something about it, seriously. sorry i dont really know any way you can move in with your stepmom. i wish i did so i can help you out but i dont. sorry. but either way i really hope i helped. ur stepmoms just terrible itsz not you at all.
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i broke up with my boyfriend on monday. he was unsure of our relationship and was doubting and apparently "confused" about it. i decided to break it off so i wouldnt get hurt in the end. now, he's telling me that he never was gonna break up with me in the first place. im shocked and devastated. ive been seeing this guy for five months. well...now..even though he doesnt suggest we get back together (even though he shows it through body language) he flirts like CRAZY with me. i dont understand why. he points to places where we used to make out...touches me...all those things. i thought that breakups meant ignoring the other person. what does this all mean and how should i act? should i follow him around or ignore him? i dont wanna seem desperate. thank you in advance :)
well first of all break ups dont mean ignoring the other person, but it means your no longer calling them your boiifriend but you can still be friends. well you should just tell him to stop doing this to you and that you guys are no longer bf/gf so flirting with you. you should tell him to make things clear and if he wants something just say it because hes just getting you confused. hope i helped. im always open 4 more questions and advice.
Hi. I'm 15 and I still haven't gotten my period. Should I be worried? What's the oldest I can be before I should start worrying? I know that all girls' bodies are different, but what's the average or normal age is all I want to know?
well i dont know if u should be worried but i would be probably if im 16 nd i dont have mii period yet. but if your in the U.S, the average age is 12 and dats when i got it. i dont know abt other places, but dont really worry you should get it soon but if you dont get it when ur 16 then go to a doctor and check. hope i helped.
Not long ago, I met a guy (and his girlfriend) at a cafe. We were all there to study and got around to talking a bit too. Me and the guy started talking, mainly about schools, jobs, etc., nothing major, and we were not flirting at all, but seriously clicked. We mainly talked when his girlfriend was busy talking to other people or got up to go to the bathroom or something...
Seriously, it may sound like it, but we were not flirting AT ALL, although a few smiles here and there were exchanged.
So I see the guy a couple weeks later at the same cafe, we were both there to study and didn't talk aside from saying how's it going. But from the corner of my eye, I saw him turn around and look at me...it sounds like nothing, but in my experience, things like that usually mean something. Now I don't know, when I see him, all I can think is "you have a girlfriend, you have a girlfriend....BUT...." and I am NOT the type of person that would ever go after someone else's boyfriend, but I feel like there's this little awkward feeling when I see the guy, I mean if he were single....I think I would probably go for it. But he's not, and so now I feel awkward.
Okay, I already know pretty much why I feel this way, but wanted to know what others thought...how do you feel about it all, and were you ever caught in a similar situation?
ok so u like dis guy who already has a girlfriend? alright, heres what i would do if i were in your shoes. i would try to 4get abt him nd if this is impossible then i would just make the best of it and live with it. i cant really see what you can do.
ok so this one guy who stoped talking to me for like 2 months, started talking to me again. and he wants to chill this summer.
he told me that he still likes me more than a friend and all that, but the thing is, he still has a girlfriend.
he said he would never cheat--but i think if i made a move on him, he wouldnt make me stop.
i kind of want to tease him some, so should i be all flirty and like kiss him just to see what happens? thanks!
ok i dont think you should be flirty and you know all that stuff. i wouldnt like it if a girl was flirting with my boyfriend. just wait until they break up or something. and obviously this guy isnt the best cause if he has a girlfriend and he also likes you then he probably cheats. you dont want to get into any trouble with his girlfriend! hope i helped. ill always be open to answer any questions.
jamie has been my best friend for the past 4 years. we have another friend gabby who we were pretty close to. gabby always though of it was the 3 of us but we were closer with each other than we were with her. as time went on we got into our share of fights because she felt we excluded her and such. at the beginning of this year about 7 of us including gabby, jamie, and i formed a little group. we were all pretty close. we would have sleep overs almost every weekend and pretty much only hung out with someone from our group or our group of guys we chilled with. pretty soon one person from the group was gone. gabby had never really been considered very pretty but she started hanging out with these weird looking guys who she soon enough brought to be friends with people in the group. me and one of her friends not in the group got into a fight and gabby started randomly excluding me from everything. i feel really betrayed since my best friend is just like letting this happen as well as everyone else. i really dont understand why gabby would not include me though and it bothers me. i dont really know what to do. i have been chilling with other people but i feel pretty hurt. why do you think she could have stopped including me? what should i do? just let me know what you think please.
i think shes just getting revenge because you did the same to her, you werent including her in you and jamies stuff so she would bring in friendsz of her own and not include you in their activities. did she exclude jamie too? well maybe you should talk it out with her and tell her that you guys didnt mean to exclude her from stuff.
so im in a relationship where i only get to see my boyfriend in school. That is really the only problem with it like i like this guy a lot but us not seeing each other is becoming a problem, its not for him because hes never been in a relationship where he sees his girlfriend like a real one so i dont think he is seeing any problems like we never fight and people say we are prefect for each other but, i want a real relationship and i think it would be best for us to brake up, the problem is he doesnt think anything is wrong and he likes me a lot more then i like him and i dont want to hurt him hes an awesome guy but the distance is to much for me to handle i mean yeah i see him in school barley like i have no classes with him and one lunch with him so its like we never see each other and we only talk online because he cant use the phone because he has really strict parents. My question is how do i get out of this relationship, what can i say? how do i say it? every time i try to brake up with him i always freeze up and i cant say it i always plan it out but i cant fallow threw with it.. how do i go about doing this??
well i dont really think theres any other non-mean way to break up with dis guy but actually have the courage to open your mouth and explain to him how you dont like it. maybe have our friendsz help you out and be by your side. im sorry this might not really have helped but i really dont see any other way to do it.
Ok, so I really need some help I don't quite know what to do about this... So here goes...
Ok so me and my current boy friend have been dating for exactly 6 months today and well I think...Thought I really loved him but after last night I don't even what to think about being with him... Ok so we went to the movies last night me him and like 5 other people you know we were all just hanging out...and he someone was texting him during the movie and at first I really didn't care but they still kept texting and so I decided to see who it was... and it was his Ex Ashley...now I really don't know this girl I only know what my boy friend has told me about her...She texts him all the time but last night I was kind of wondering what they were talking about and I came in like half way through the conversation and like the first one said something about dropping someone it said the word "Drop" and yeah and the next one he sent and was "idk" and then from her "you promised me you would" Him: "We'll see what happens" Her:"Please" and then the was all like "I love you" he told that to her... and she was all like "oh yeah I love you too!" but see the thing is that I don't know if they were just saying that as friends or what and I think that he might be cheating on me... but I don't know and I don't really know what to do and then after I found out what I know when he tried to kiss me it just felt wrong and I don't know what to do please help...
WEll, this is what I think. I think he wants to break up with you and go back to Ashley. Ashley told him to break up with you but he isnt sure whether to do it or not. Also, I think when your bf said I love you to Ashley, he seriously might have meant it as the close kind. I can see why you are suspicious and I think you shouldve asked this question. I hope this helped for you to decide what to do about this.
Well i ask my friend to hang out everyweekend but everytime i ask her she says soething like "i have to babysit or i have to clean?" and like i really think she doesnt wanna hang out with me but the next day she can hang out with anyone and i dont get it?
(female, 14)
im sorry to say this, im really sorry, cuz it really hurts when something like this happens to somebody with a heart, and it surely seems like you do or else you wouldnt have posted this question. so, ill get to the point: i dont think this friend really likes you anymore and she really doesnt want to hang out with you. but she didnt tell you because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings. this isnt a true friend and you might as well just tell her that you will stop callin her a friend if she doesnt stop giving you lies and ditching you. im so sorry i had to say this but im being honest.
Hey,
So there is this guy at my work, he's real hot. Any how every thime i'm near him he's constantly rubbing or pinching my arms, he'll even skratch my back or massage it for no reason. We talk on msn and facebook and stuff, and he's always asking me if i have a bf...
What do you think... is this guy into me?
Guys and girls plz!
thanks!
yea, of course this guy is into you. i actually think this guy is so crazy abt you. if u like dis guy, well it surely seems like it, go 4 him. im almost 100% sure that he'll go out with u. good luck. hope i helped.