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how do i act around my ex?
17/f
i broke up with my boyfriend on monday. he was unsure of our relationship and was doubting and apparently "confused" about it. i decided to break it off so i wouldnt get hurt in the end. now, he's telling me that he never was gonna break up with me in the first place. im shocked and devastated. ive been seeing this guy for five months. well...now..even though he doesnt suggest we get back together (even though he shows it through body language) he flirts like CRAZY with me. i dont understand why. he points to places where we used to make out...touches me...all those things. i thought that breakups meant ignoring the other person. what does this all mean and how should i act? should i follow him around or ignore him? i dont wanna seem desperate. thank you in advance :)
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well first of all break ups dont mean ignoring the other person, but it means your no longer calling them your boiifriend but you can still be friends. well you should just tell him to stop doing this to you and that you guys are no longer bf/gf so flirting with you. you should tell him to make things clear and if he wants something just say it because hes just getting you confused. hope i helped. im always open 4 more questions and advice.
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uhm.
the real question is,
do you still like him.
if you still like him,
show it,
flirt back,
makeout with him,
and once you're absolutely sure he wants to get back together
ask him out
or keep flirting and acting like you like him until he asks you .
if you don't like him.
tell him that things are over,
it all depends on how you feel
:D
hope i helped.
destiny.
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it means he still likes you and that he want to try to be cool by saying that he was gunna break up anyway and just ask him why he is doing that and make him think about it adn not just bs the answer
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It sounds to me like there is still some post-feelings lingering between you guys. Right now, it may feel good, but sometimes confusing to you-- but later these flirtations may bite you in the butt.
For example, even though you two are broken up-- he's choosing not to let you forget it by pointed out constant reminders of the relationship you used to bear.
This is quite normal for boys at that age-- who are still debating with whether or not they made the right decision to stay broken up. He's probably testing you, seeing if you still think about the places you've kissed and such.
If you're ready to let this relationship fizzle out, I suggest that you hold back on flirting back, and signaling to him that you miss him or what you had with him.
If you're okay with the though of getting back together, then it's best to just talk to him instead of having all these mixed feelings hanging over your head.
I wish you the best of luck. Keep me updated! =)
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