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Promises, Cheating, Lies....
Ok, so I really need some help I don't quite know what to do about this... So here goes...
Ok so me and my current boy friend have been dating for exactly 6 months today and well I think...Thought I really loved him but after last night I don't even what to think about being with him... Ok so we went to the movies last night me him and like 5 other people you know we were all just hanging out...and he someone was texting him during the movie and at first I really didn't care but they still kept texting and so I decided to see who it was... and it was his Ex Ashley...now I really don't know this girl I only know what my boy friend has told me about her...She texts him all the time but last night I was kind of wondering what they were talking about and I came in like half way through the conversation and like the first one said something about dropping someone it said the word "Drop" and yeah and the next one he sent and was "idk" and then from her "you promised me you would" Him: "We'll see what happens" Her:"Please" and then the was all like "I love you" he told that to her... and she was all like "oh yeah I love you too!" but see the thing is that I don't know if they were just saying that as friends or what and I think that he might be cheating on me... but I don't know and I don't really know what to do and then after I found out what I know when he tried to kiss me it just felt wrong and I don't know what to do please help...
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WEll, this is what I think. I think he wants to break up with you and go back to Ashley. Ashley told him to break up with you but he isnt sure whether to do it or not. Also, I think when your bf said I love you to Ashley, he seriously might have meant it as the close kind. I can see why you are suspicious and I think you shouldve asked this question. I hope this helped for you to decide what to do about this.
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Confront him.
You should be able to trust each other, which means you shouldn't have to be spying on his conversations and he shouldn't have anything to hide from you.
Edit, in response to feedback:
That's the thing. You don't know. You have a peice of the picture, and although it looks back, you really don't know what's going on. Like I said, confront him, but do keep in mind he could be lying to you.
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